Yo i recently had a date say that 'i got her horny but she was hesitating because it was our first

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Yo i recently had a date say that 'i got her horny but she was hesitating because it was our first date. Thoughts? Do girls my age gotta fuc you on the first date?
 

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It means you didn't escalate properly. You'll get another chance if you play your cards right. Make sure the logistics are on point to isolate her. Escalate and seal the deal.
 

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So if you cant get sex on the first date, you failed?
That's not what he said.

He meant that, in your situation, you could have escalated your way into sex if that's what you wanted. Girls are lead to sex. You can't really make her consciously decide to want to open her legs to you. Unless she a ho.
 

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So if you cant get sex on the first date, you failed?
i think he means that in this specific instance you failed because it sounds like you could've gotten more than you got.

in general you only fail if it takes longer than average(your own personal average) to get laid
 

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It means you didn't escalate properly. You'll get another chance if you play your cards right. Make sure the logistics are on point to isolate her. Escalate and seal the deal.
That's not what he said.

He meant that, in your situation, you could have escalated your way into sex if that's what you wanted. Girls are lead to sex. You can't really make her consciously decide to want to open her legs to you. Unless she a ho.
i think he means that in this specific instance you failed because it sounds like you could've gotten more than you got.

in general you only fail if it takes longer than average(your own personal average) to get laid

I think i escalated too much. Her slut defense came up. I am pretty sure well fvck on the next date. She invited me to come over.

But what I dont understand is: are all girls 100% ready to fvck you on the first date if you did everything right?
 

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I think i escalated too much. Her slut defense came up. I am pretty sure well fvck on the next date. She invited me to come over.
slut defense doesn't mean that you escalated too much, on the contrary, slut defense means that you tried to escalate at all. if you don't run into slut defense at all and didn't get laid, then you simply didn't escalate.

however if you don't run into slut defense but still get laid then it would be either:
1. the girl is an actual slut or drunk/high
2. it's been a while into dating/the relationship/whatever so she doesn't feel the need to put up a defense

But what I dont understand is: are all girls 100% ready to fvck you on the first date if you did everything right?
depends on a bunch of factors relating to the girl that you can't possibly know.

some girls really truly aren't going to let you get some on the first date no matter what, it depends on how easy the girl is in general.
 

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Logistics I'd say. I had a 2nd date last night. She got pretty tuned up and I drove home. She told me her address, yet she was all over me. In the back of my head I was thinking, "just drive back to your place". On the other hand, she was super buzzed and I didn't want to push boundaries. We got to her place and she had her pants around her ankles in the truck. I see no need to push, I'd call that a wrap and a decent date.

Only way to find out dude, ask her on another date and see what she says
 

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You can fvck girls without even dating them.

Thats what they dont tell betas and white knights.
 

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Don't take the word date too seriously, its just a word to describe seeing someone
True, seeing/dating/getting to know...its all the same shi1t
 
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