Women see me as creepy...

[NeedToImprove]

we all know that for women creepy is the same as physically or sexually repulsive and ugly as hell.

take a look at this poll

http://www.girlsaskguys.com/qt/how-do-i-look/q2136100-am-i-creepy-looking-or-just-unnatractive

Some women give me a 3/10 or a 4/10. In reddit /r/dating advice both men and women tell me to **** escorts or hookers, like i'm a ****ing loser who is condemned to celibacy.

really guys am i **cked? isnt there anything i can do ? Come on there has to be

 

[The Duke]

post your pic and we can help.

 

[Ratiocinative]

Those women said you look fine, and you're calling them liars and practically begging them to tell you you're an ugly creep. Grow up.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

That's you? Well, honestly, I think there's some aspect of your facial structure that to me gives off the gay vibe. I think it's mainly how your facial structure is plus adding in that thin beard is what does it.

Aside from that though? You look reasonably normal to me, so it could very well be your body language or attitude. That's much more difficult to assess over the internet.

 

[NeedToImprove]

Those women said you look fine, and you're calling them liars and practically begging them to tell you you're an ugly creep. Grow up.

have you seen the Poll at least?

 

[NeedToImprove]

That's you? Well, honestly, I think there's some aspect of your facial structure that to me gives off the gay vibe. I think it's mainly how your facial structure is plus adding in that thin beard is what does it.

Aside from that though? You look reasonably normal to me, so it could very well be your body language or attitude. That's much more difficult to assess over the internet.

care to elaborate on the flawed facial structure?

 

[BetterCallSaul]

care to elaborate on the flawed facial structure?

I did not say your facial structure was flawed.

Sometimes, certain men have a facial structure that isn't entirely conducive to rocking the thin beard in the way you do. Frankly if you're going to go with the beard full time, you need to grow it out fully and keep it neat and trimmed. I can't really give you specific details, but some guys how their face is built and then combine that with a certain combo of facial hair, well to me anyway i get the gay vibe. Have you tried going clean cut?

Also, please keep in mind that I and several others have stated that we think it's your attitude, body language or some other combination of this that is more likely causing this problem. My comment on the gay vibe is one thing, but you seem to be focusing in on just that.

 

[NeedToImprove]

I did not say your facial structure was flawed.

Sometimes, certain men have a facial structure that isn't entirely conducive to rocking the thin beard in the way you do. Frankly if you're going to go with the beard full time, you need to grow it out fully and keep it neat and trimmed. I can't really give you specific details, but some guys how their face is built and then combine that with a certain combo of facial hair, well to me anyway i get the gay vibe. Have you tried going clean cut?

Also, please keep in mind that I and several others have stated that we think it's your attitude, body language or some other combination of this that is more likely causing this problem. My comment on the gay vibe is one thing, but you seem to be focusing in on just that.

no i look worse without beard and i cant grow a full beard basically what you mean is i am ****ed right?

im thinking its low-T or just bad genes.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

You can either let your appearance get you down and thereby affect your attitude further or try to stay positive. You think guys who are 5'4" haven't had issues at one time or another either? If those guys can get laid, so can you.

 

[NeedToImprove]

no i can't

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Holy crap dude, you have been here for 11 years, made multiple accounts, posted the same pics asking the same thing, and keep wanting people to tell you that you are creepy and ugly. Not only that, but I read the responses on the link you posted. Even THOSE people were saying that you made numerous accounts asking the same question there too.

You are 40 years old. If you think you are ugly, then you are. But if you think you are hot as ****, then people will too. The problem ie that you have HORRIBLE social skills. Just AWFUL. You probably are retarded too (and mods, I am not insulting. These are inferences through his posts from this account and other accounts of his too). If you knew ANYTHING about social interactions, you would know that it's all about the mindset you come on with, the ATTITUDE you have when you first meet people.

If you want someone to validate your ego, fine then. You are creepy as hell and ugly as heck. Now go out and learn something and make a change for once in your life so that you AREN'T either of these two things. I've offerred you advice in the past to several of your other now-banned accounts on HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LOOKS and you completely ignored them and continued to whine and complain. You are 40 years old. Toughen up already or continue to cry yourself deeper and deeper into your mental retardation.

 

[NSX-R]

Cut the beard or at least try different beard styles. If you have baldness, shave all the head and go for full mass in the gym. At least 10 -15 kgs .

 

[Young OG]

I've read the comments, so I don't need to look at your pics. If your not already going to the gym, then start. If you have a nice body, it will raise your SMV. If you don't have nice clothes, then go buy some.

Look at Tyler aka Owen from RSD. The guy is a balding ginger in his late 30s and he has banged hundreds of girls. Start practicing your game and stop crying.

 

[JohnChops]

Not this guy gain. This was the dude who was here earlier and wanted plastic surgery to fix his nose askinf for advice. You look fine. Your self esteem is damaged.

 

[ZTIME]

I think a lot of people would find the fact that you keep posting these threads over and over again very creepy.

 

[Trunks]

A few (non-inclusive) list of things to work on if you are giving a creepy vibe:
1) Social calibration AND plausible deniability (there are good articles on these online in PUA sites).
2) Related to 1, work on subtlety in social situations.
3) Have a positive, non-serious vibe about you - don't overdo it. You are shooting for happy person, not a clown. Someone people feel good around from your calm presence and optimistic attitude.
4) See getting to know women as fun.
5) Push your boundaries, but also stop and think how your actions and words would make a woman feel if you were in her shoes before you act or speak.
6) Lastly, don't be too hard on yourself. Don't care so much about what people think.

 

[3agle 3yes]

So, you post on a website with your picture with the Title: "Am I creepy or just unattractive?"

In other words, you're giving people a choice between two negatives.

You mention words like "baldness", "sad", "lack", "absence of a smile" and "braces" before you even post your picture...which are all triggers to make people view your picture negatively in advance.

...And then you're surprised when people rate you so low?

You're clearly a troll.

 

[NeedToImprove]

A few (non-inclusive) list of things to work on if you are giving a creepy vibe:
1) Social calibration AND plausible deniability (there are good articles on these online in PUA sites).
2) Related to 1, work on subtlety in social situations.
3) Have a positive, non-serious vibe about you - don't overdo it. You are shooting for happy person, not a clown. Someone people feel good around from your calm presence and optimistic attitude.
4) See getting to know women as fun.
5) Push your boundaries, but also stop and think how your actions and words would make a woman feel if you were in her shoes before you act or speak.
6) Lastly, don't be too hard on yourself. Don't care so much about what people think.

thanks mate. thing is i dont have any friends, male or female, so social interaction is 0.

 

[Dingo]

It all in your head... you look fine....

Maybe you got a form of body dysmorphic disorder....

http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/body-dysmorphic-disorder/home/ovc-20200935

 

[sambwoy]

Those women said you look fine, and you're calling them liars and practically begging them to tell you you're an ugly creep. Grow up.

Dunno what that's about.
He could be delusional due to his insecurities, but on the other hand women can be overwhelmingly cruel. Whether its because society has allowed them to be that way or whatever, because where is the guy's defence? It has been said on this board before to not take women's words seriously.
I had to learn this the hard way. If a girl said to me I was ugly or a group of them laughed at me, the old me may have thought about that for days on end and thought that nobody noticed or cared when I was depressed or sad. Maybe one day I would lack focus at work or doing chores or something, and I found letting it get to me was dangerous and unhealthy to all of my life's aspects. Generally people only go to you when they want something from you.