Philosophy of this site

Dman101

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I understand that the message of this site is to build us up it become better men so that we can live better lives and attract more women. From there I know that we're supposed to spin plates and have a few women in our lives. With that, how are we supposed to manage the success of having a few beautiful women who are in love with you. Eventually they ask questions about if you're dating other women, are we supposed to lie or tell them that we have other women?

In my case, my main 2 girls think I'm they're boyfriend. The first main I've had for 3 years she actually found panties in my room early only but she stook around and now she's convinced herself that we're exclusive and I went along with it to keep things good. She's 33 and wants to get married badly to me, she's beautiful and very caring but the sex isnt as good as I've had with other girls, I rarely *** from sex with her. The 2nd girl is 28, I told her it's too early for a relationship at first but over time she kept pushing for it and I told her what she wanted to hear to keep things good. Her sex is really good as she genuinely loved it, she talks **** in bed and I always leave satisfied. She's a fun cool girl that I feel good about, but she's not as beautiful as my main and she has mild OCD but it's not too bad.

Now I'm playing a dangerous game where I'm close to being caught. The main knocked on my door when the 2nd was over my house one day and somehow I escaped that by saying it was my mom knocking and hiding with her in my garage using game to explain why we had to hide lol, and she bought it so I dodged a bullet.

I have a 3rd regular girl who's very cool not as pretty as the others but good looking and we have amazing sex and her energy is great. I have a few other exes and girls that I talk to still and we **** here and there.

How do I deal with basically having 2 girlfriends? I really enjoy it, but I feel the main girl is putting pressure on me for marriage and may catch me soon. Is there anything I can do to improve the sex, she tries to do better, she's prettier than my other girls but she doesn't have that natural freak energy. She has asked me if I want to sleep with other people but I thought it was a trick to find out how serious I am about her, she's deeply into me with me so I know she doesn't want anyone else.

How do you manage 2 girlfriends? Would trying to change these to open relationships work at this point or am I better off riding it out and trying to avoid getting caught?
 

blind_one

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Everyone has their own philosophy, morals and guidelines.
For me It would take a tremendous amount of effort to convince me to be a boyfriend.

Telling them what they want to hear is a slippery road. They are not stupid, but if you are their most valuable option they will going out of their way to rationalize.

Be vague, but don't lead them on, or could you? They will get the message that you are actively meeting other woman because you are high value and in demand man. They either stick with it or run, it is fine either way, after all it gives you more time to meet other potentially better women.

If they start pushing for a relationship harder and harder you have a multitude of options.

You could telling them you love spending time with them BUT:
Insert bull****
 

Desdinova

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She's 33 and wants to get married badly to me,
Her biological clock is ticking and she wants a baby. RUN LIKE FVCKING HELL.

The 2nd girl is 28
She's begun her expiry and her biological clock is ticking as well

Women begin their shelf expiry around age 27 when they realize that 30 is right around the corner, they still want children, and do not have a stable man in their life to provide the sperm. They begin getting desperate and start grabbing at the man in their closest proximity.

BEWARE of any woman over the age of 27.

I feel the main girl is putting pressure on me for marriage and may catch me soon.
She will drop you in the near future if you don't commit. She wants children and you're the closest sperm donor in her proximity.

How do you manage 2 girlfriends? Would trying to change these to open relationships work at this point or am I better off riding it out and trying to avoid getting caught?
Manage it any way you want. These women are IMO low-value. They're not worth worrying about. If you lose one, just go get another one.
 
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