Biatch management

[Reykhel]

I was just thinking the other day of what Partice and Dante were discussing on one time on their legendary show......

That the job of every man is to leave his biatch in a better (more well behaved) condition....for the next (your fellow) man...

That every time they come across a biatch who doesn't know how to behave herself, they feel her boyfriend has failed mankind.

Women, like children and dogs need boundaries or else, like children and dogs will; they'll lose the run of themselves even further.

We all know the ****e tests are so often simply to see and feel if we have strong boundaries. The irony being when we push back hard (sometimes it only needs the word NO. ok, NO, biatch NO) she feels secure because she knows we have strong boundaries.

Again, just like children and dogs. There are certain dogs who are pack dogs and they will challenge you the master, with the intention of being pack leader. If you don't rise to that challenge and assert your authority........well you're going to have problems with such a dog.

Weak boundaries with women.....when you can't say no......when you want to please her all the time.....when you seek her approval............and she loses respect, gets a power trip, jumps the gate and takes her self entitlement and self righteousness to the next poor schmuck.....

This concept is almost the perfect frame:
"I need to manage this biatch, for the good of my fellow man"

It puts you in the master position while at the same time, reminding you not to get attached as nothing lasts forever.......that she will be with another man........and you're not only cool with that, but you're doing him a favor...

 

[Desdinova]

Agree with your post.

Again, just like children and dogs. There are certain dogs who are pack dogs and they will challenge you the master, with the intention of being pack leader. If you don't rise to that challenge and assert your authority........well you're going to have problems with such a dog.

This works really well if you get a woman who's low mileage.

Higher mileage women are like pre-owned dogs. If their master beat the 5hit out of them and treated them like garbage, or if their previous master spoiled the hell out of them, you're going to have a more difficult time training that dog to behave properly.

I know you're not a fan of High Score Theory, but it lines up very well with this. The younger she is when you date her, the more she's going to be moulded to your rules. You have to be one of her earliest BFs to make it to the top of her list. If you come in much later, she's going to be lamenting about the other guy on top which will be one of her ex-BFs. She'll chat for a long time about how he treated her, what an ******* he was, some of the horrible things he did, but she would very likely ditch your ass to go back to him.

 

[Reykhel]

Agree with your post.



This works really well if you get a woman who's low mileage.

Higher mileage women are like pre-owned dogs. If their master beat the 5hit out of them and treated them like garbage, or if their previous master spoiled the hell out of them, you're going to have a more difficult time training that dog to behave properly.

I know you're not a fan of High Score Theory, but it lines up very well with this. The younger she is when you date her, the more she's going to be moulded to your rules. You have to be one of her earliest BFs to make it to the top of her list. If you come in much later, she's going to be lamenting about the other guy on top which will be one of her ex-BFs. She'll chat for a long time about how he treated her, what an ******* he was, some of the horrible things he did, but she would very likely ditch your ass to go back to him.

Granted, I've not have a thorough look at your theory.

What caught my attention was someone leaving a comment something like "I'd love to get into the Facebook messages of
two of my ex's" My reaction was......whaaaaat? Why? Why would you care? Get on with your bloody life!

.....and more or less the same reaction when I saw you were still tracking her after four years...

I'll perhaps put those thoughts aside and have a gander.....

I agree with the first part of what you wrote above but...

"She'll chat for a long time about how he treated her, what an ******* he was, some of the horrible things he did, but she would very likely ditch your ass to go back to him"

I don't believe that's necessarily accurate. People move on. Create new memories with other people. Have kids etc etc In some cases to go back into the past wouldn't be possible.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

What has happened to you over this summer Reykhel? Big changes in your world vision, they seem very healthy changes too. I'm just curious.

As for me, I see your point here, but I take into account Desdinova's theory. Yes, you can change a woman's behaviour and improve it to the next guy she rides BUT, if you do so, you will be high in her list, and she won't feel like being how you taught her to be to the next guy if she feels like he has not equal or higher status than you did.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

What has happened to you over this summer Reykhel? Big changes in your world vision, they seem very healthy changes too. I'm just curious.

This dude has always had a great perspective on things. He looks at things from a very different aspect, at least from what I can tell about him on here. His posts are almost always insightful and help in some way.

 

[Desdinova]

What caught my attention was someone leaving a comment something like "I'd love to get into the Facebook messages of
two of my ex's" My reaction was......whaaaaat? Why? Why would you care? Get on with your bloody life!

.....and more or less the same reaction when I saw you were still tracking her after four years...

I'm not "tracking" her because I need to know what's going on in her life. I honestly believe that women become damaged after an encounter with a man who's highly alpha. Those men set new standards for her dating life. She begins looking for the guy who's supposedly going to replace that alpha male she encountered.

My ex is attractive, but in the last 4 years she hasn't yet replaced me with a new man. What's going on here?

My ex-fiancee (and the woman who drove me here) pursued me for five years after I ended my marriage. What's going on here?

My current gf pursued me for two years. I banged her early on and told her I didn't want a LTR. What's going on here?

My mother will go off on a lengthy rant about her first husband and the things he used to do, even though she's been separated from him for 40 years. What's going on here?

People move on. Create new memories with other people. Have kids etc etc In some cases to go back into the past wouldn't be possible.

I believe that women cannot truly move on once they encounter that one guy who can make her vagina tingle unlike any other men she's encountered. How the woman handles that inability to move on varies. Some will forever date new men. Some will settle for Mr. Good Enough. Some will become cat ladies. Some will become Lesbians.

One thing that I've noticed lately (at least with the women on this forum) is that they won't admit who the guy is when I ask them about him. They aren't consciously aware that this one guy in their past is the one who's preventing them from being satisfied with a compatible mate. They're seemingly roaming, looking for Mr. Right, and they will lie saying that they've found him. But if you can dig deeper when they bring up that one ex who beat the 5hit out of her or repeatedly fvcked her and tossed her away, you'll get your answers. They say they don't love that guy, but he's the one who left the largest emotional imprint on them.