I see a lot of hateful words posted here from BPD exes describing their Ex. I've been through the wringer once, but only feel pity for her. She is what she is most likely because of early premature development issues and most probably will never be truly happy with her life.
Triangulation
- Thread starter Tuttleycool
- Start date
Yes, as is the case with most things in life, knowledge is power. It is something best known beforehand, but sometimes we just stumble into a bad situation not knowing anything about it…
xstang77
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 17, 2016
- Messages
- 298
- Reaction score
- 116
- Age
- 32
Agreed.
Tuttleycool
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 21, 2016
- Messages
- 25
- Reaction score
- 3
Whoa. Elaborate a bit more on the early development issues, if you could please.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
xstang77
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 17, 2016
- Messages
- 298
- Reaction score
- 116
- Age
- 32
Aka:her childhood,what was it like. Was she neglected and or abandoned in her earlier years,what's her relationship like with her parents.
The birth mother is the primary care giver and is supposed to form a loving bond with the child, but if she has a cold mother that views her as a distraction, what does the child learn?
If baby momma gets a stepdad that rapes the daughter enough times, how does that effect her?
If as an adult daughter doesn't talk to her mother ever, why is that?
If as an adult the girls closest relationship is with the stepdad that raped her, aka Stockholm syndrome, what's going on there?
Get the point?
If baby momma gets a stepdad that rapes the daughter enough times, how does that effect her?
If as an adult daughter doesn't talk to her mother ever, why is that?
If as an adult the girls closest relationship is with the stepdad that raped her, aka Stockholm syndrome, what's going on there?
Get the point?
Last edited:
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
PD means what?
xstang77
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 17, 2016
- Messages
- 298
- Reaction score
- 116
- Age
- 32
We're using it in reference to personality disorders..more so bpd.
Last edited:
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Understood. So kinda like a female that thinks abusive behavior and being ignored and neglected means love.
Peace and Quiet
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
If you get too close she drives you away because of her abandonment fears. Make sense? No
When you are gone she loves you more. Make sense? No
Bottom line - She is afraid of intimacy with another person because she does not know what it is, or is afraid to react to it…
Last edited:
xstang77
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 17, 2016
- Messages
- 298
- Reaction score
- 116
- Age
- 32
Yes and the abusive behavior will be projected onto you,usually as like your the one that was responsible for her awful childhood.so if your ever with a girl that goes ballistic over something small,degrades you and gets a deep black empty look in her eyes and acts cold towards you with hate like you murdered her whole family then texts you an hour later apologizing saying she loves you,run far far away.
Right
The problem is her personality issues. Her personality is who she is, which must be ok, so it's your fault.
xstang77
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 17, 2016
- Messages
- 298
- Reaction score
- 116
- Age
- 32
Yup,there's no winning the disorder wins everytime. They'll leave you and make themselves out to be the victim,turn your friends against you then once she finds something shiny and new even after multiple recycles she'll drop you like you never existed and go pretend to have a happy life while being enabled by the same people they talk about while your left putting the pieces of your life back together.
Yes, but at that point she is someone else's problem…
A fact to feel very good about
xstang77
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 17, 2016
- Messages
- 298
- Reaction score
- 116
- Age
- 32
Absolutely,I even made that non directly clear to her I felt that way,let the new guy take the whole burden of the disorder alone,mine has tried just this past weekend after a month of nc to reach out...not today satan,not today.
Tuttleycool
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 21, 2016
- Messages
- 25
- Reaction score
- 3
To be fair, it could bpd and me not know it lol. Possibly bipolar as she is seeing a dr about it.
You know what boy? You want real answers from forum members about a woman, then state all the facts from the git go if you want real answers.
Last edited:
xstang77
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 17, 2016
- Messages
- 298
- Reaction score
- 116
- Age
- 32
Then what are you still doing with her? You'll deal with this **** with her forever and no matter what you do you'll lose.
Peace and Quiet
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.