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So i stood up for what i believe in and this girl seemingly lost interest. I went on this date with this girl. She was pretty hot. Everything was super fun and great. Then we started talking about feminism and then she got pissed. She still made a point to make out with me at the end of the night. The next few days we didn’t text much. Then all of a sudden i get a text saying that she was not interested because of my views of certain topics. We didn’t even argue. I made a point just to say what i thought and i let it go. It can be a few things.

1.) She was not that interested to begin with
2.) She has a lot more options so she can be very picky
3.) She truly was turned of by a guy that was against feminism
 

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You're not truly red pill if you care or give this matter that much thought as to write a thread about it. Part of adopting the red pill ideology is that you will drop women incessantly until a gem emerges who has proven to you that she is a contender worthy of your time and attention.

If this is a question of seduction, whereas, what could you have done better to pump-and-dump this girl, then keep your ideologies to yourself. Debating ideologies is not fun on a date. Dating/fvcking is not for idea-sharing, it's to have fun and fvck.
 

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You're not truly red pill if you care or give this matter that much thought as to write a thread about it. Part of adopting the red pill ideology is that you will drop women incessantly until a gem emerges who has proven to you that she is a contender worthy of your time and attention.

If this is a question of seduction, whereas, what could you have done better to pump-and-dump this girl, then keep your ideologies to yourself. Debating ideologies is not fun on a date. Dating/fvcking is not for idea-sharing, it's to have fun and fvck.
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You are right man. I do hook up with attractive girls because of my charm and the fact that i play the numbers game hard. But my inner game needs work. I am still AFC deep down. I need to have the mindset that i am the prize and filter accordingly.
I am fascinated about two things.

1.) making out and getting physical dont mean sh@t these days. Getting physical used to mean you had the girl. Now a girl can drop you even after sex. I think its because they have seemingly infinite options.

2.) text is a mans worst enemy. She would have never been able to say that in my face. But once a girl creates enough distance to text they over think stuff. Girls including my sister think that text is real life. But in your presence they melt and really are attracted to you. But that electronic screen undos everything. This girl had a great time with me to the point she couldnt literally grabbed me and made out. But the little screen mixed in with her thoughts and her friends opinions kills men.

What do you think?
 

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Next time wait till after she's hooked into you. either avoid the topic or wait till later.
I know bro but its sooo hard not to say anything. This is especially true when the girl is spouting nonsense about the pay gap difference and men and women are the same and women can fu&k like men etc etc. She was basically a walking feminist talking point.
 

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Most modern Western women these days don't really know what feminism really means. They like to talk about the gender pay gap, how they want and should "have it all" but at the end of the day, without them really knowing it, they want a man that shakes their ovaries, not this ideal "beta/alpha unicorn" they dream of who is submissive to their needs. I can't tell you the amount of women I've gone on dates with who spew this feminism crap and I just nod my head and dodge getting into my true feelings about it all until after she's hooked and I'm dominating her. But believe me, there is NOTHING more powerful than a man who absolute dominates a woman and magically, all their feminism ideologies just disappear into thin air. Moral of the story, either debate your red pill feelings and don't get laid, or get laid and then once they're hooked, say whatever the f*ck you want and they'll be the one's nodding their head in agreement because you're the strong male who doesn't give a crap about their feminist thoughts while all their little beta feminist sympathizing orbiters listen to her crap.
 

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You are right man. I do hook up with attractive girls because of my charm and the fact that i play the numbers game hard. But my inner game needs work. I am still AFC deep down. I need to have the mindset that i am the prize and filter accordingly.
I am fascinated about two things.

1.) making out and getting physical dont mean sh@t these days. Getting physical used to mean you had the girl. Now a girl can drop you even after sex. I think its because they have seemingly infinite options.

2.) text is a mans worst enemy. She would have never been able to say that in my face. But once a girl creates enough distance to text they over think stuff. Girls including my sister think that text is real life. But in your presence they melt and really are attracted to you. But that electronic screen undos everything. This girl had a great time with me to the point she couldnt literally grabbed me and made out. But the little screen mixed in with her thoughts and her friends opinions kills men.

What do you think?
In this market, you are best to keep your finger on the NEXT trigger even for plate retention in a harem. The last two weeks, I NEXTed four girls for the following reasons:

1) Girl 1's ass wasn't round enough to my liking (after I banged her);
2) Girl 2 responded to my text more than 22 hours later (after two dates);
3) Girl 3 was too awkward on the first date (I could have banged her I'm sure);
4) Girl 4 gained 10 lbs (haven't seen her in a year or so).

And hot girls have more options than I do. Kissing means nothing. Fvcking means nothing. Relationships mean nothing. I opt to do the choosing and the NEXTing. I apprise the girl on the first date, "I don't game play. If I have a hunch that you do, I'm out." At least, I'm fair and give them warning, lol.

I shoot for 3-5 new dates a weekend. I build no rapport (don't have time), so I expect at least one or two to flake. I schedule double-headers for the remainder. And if a girl doesn't get NEXTed, I try to bang her relentlessly. That's my style ... for now.
 

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In this market, you are best to keep your finger on the NEXT trigger even for plate retention in a harem. The last two weeks, I NEXTed four girls for the following reasons:

1) Girl 1's ass wasn't round enough to my liking (after I banged her);
2) Girl 2 responded to my text more than 22 hours later (after two dates);
3) Girl 3 was too awkward on the first date (I could have banged her I'm sure);
4) Girl 4 gained 10 lbs (haven't seen her in a year or so).

And hot girls have more options than I do. Kissing means nothing. Fvcking means nothing. Relationships mean nothing. I opt to do the choosing and the NEXTing. I apprise the girl on the first date, "I don't game play. If I have a hunch that you do, I'm out." At least, I'm fair and give them warning, lol.

I shoot for 3-5 new dates a weekend. I build no rapport (don't have time), so I expect at least one or two to flake. I schedule double-headers for the remainder. And if a girl doesn't get NEXTed, I try to bang her relentlessly. That's my style ... for now.
Hahahaha savage. Its sad but thats how you gotta be these days tho. You have to look at them as disposable in order to survive in this days dating environment. Every guy should read that underlined part many times.
 

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Most modern Western women these days don't really know what feminism really means. They like to talk about the gender pay gap, how they want and should "have it all" but at the end of the day, without them really knowing it, they want a man that shakes their ovaries, not this ideal "beta/alpha unicorn" they dream of who is submissive to their needs. I can't tell you the amount of women I've gone on dates with who spew this feminism crap and I just nod my head and dodge getting into my true feelings about it all until after she's hooked and I'm dominating her. But believe me, there is NOTHING more powerful than a man who absolute dominates a woman and magically, all their feminism ideologies just disappear into thin air. Moral of the story, either debate your red pill feelings and don't get laid, or get laid and then once they're hooked, say whatever the f*ck you want and they'll be the one's nodding their head in agreement because you're the strong male who doesn't give a crap about their feminist thoughts while all their little beta feminist sympathizing orbiters listen to her crap.
yeh man ur right. I pulled the trigger a little too soon. I should have played the game a little more. Should have waited until she was hooked on my masculinity. I thought by us getting physical she would look past our ideological disagreements. I think she talked to her little friends and they told her that my ideas sucked and that she should stop seeing me. The sucky part is that in person her biology would override this non sense. But text creates a buffer that allows women to make bad choices in.
 

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I shoot for 3-5 new dates a weekend. I build no rapport (don't have time), so I expect at least one or two to flake. I schedule double-headers for the remainder. And if a girl doesn't get NEXTed, I try to bang her relentlessly. That's my style ... for now.
I like your style. I too don't like the back and forth chit chat, rapport building.
 

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OP... Treat feminism as a sh*t test. My 3 closest female friends (2 are or have been fwb) all consider themselves strong feminists. If they start talking about it I usually tease the heck out of them.. "I am so glad you are a feminist. You can pay for the drinks then. Hey baryender what is in that really expensive looking bottle on the top shelf" , "oh a feminist. That means I have to be a sensitive man.bugger. You are shyt out of luck" usually said with a mischevious grin. "great, you go get shot to shyt in a war somewhere. Ill stay home and write you a tear-stained letter."
It is all said jokingly. I try not to rant and get butt hurt.

FEMINISM IS A ****-TEST.
 

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Everything was super fun and great. Then we started talking about feminism and then she got pissed.
It really depends on what you're after. If you're looking for a LTR, then you did the right thing by letting her fall off the cliff. If you're just looking to get laid, nod and agree to the things she's telling you that you don't like, fvck the hell out of her, then throw her away.
 

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It really depends on what you're after. If you're looking for a LTR, then you did the right thing by letting her fall off the cliff. If you're just looking to get laid, nod and agree to the things she's telling you that you don't like, fvck the hell out of her, then throw her away.
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I know bro but its sooo hard not to say anything. This is especially true when the girl is spouting nonsense about the pay gap difference and men and women are the same and women can fu&k like men etc etc. She was basically a walking feminist talking point.
Treat it like a game.
1pt every time she mentions paygap.
1pt every time she mentions patriarchy
1pt every time she days how hard it is to br a woman.
1pt campus rape culture.
1pt disproportional reprrsrntation of white men in power.
5pts if you can get her to admit men get raped too.
2pts if you can get her to admit workplace mortality statistics are awful.
10 pts if you can get her to admit divorce is unfair to men
20 pts if you can get her to admit 3rd wave feminists are idiots.
 

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Treat it like a game.
1pt every time she mentions paygap.
1pt every time she mentions patriarchy
1pt every time she days how hard it is to br a woman.
1pt campus rape culture.
1pt disproportional reprrsrntation of white men in power.
5pts if you can get her to admit men get raped too.
2pts if you can get her to admit workplace mortality statistics are awful.
10 pts if you can get her to admit divorce is unfair to men
20 pts if you can get her to admit 3rd wave feminists are idiots.
lolol
 
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