Fat is different than ugly

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Sure, being fat IS ugly, but it carries a whole new meaning. If you for some reason just aren't attractive to women but you aren't fat, you still have a chance. Being ugly because you are fat is something completely different though. I decided to create this thread because about a day or 2 ago, my sister told me how she got hit on by a fat guy for the first time in her life, and I thought it would be good to give some insight into the mind of a female put in this situation. She tends to be more 'intimidating' than most chicks because of her eyes and gait, plus she dresses to one up the next chick (she's not intimidating when you actually talk to her though, she just only becomes a b!tch when she gets her 'mood swings' every month). So anyway, she was telling me how she got hit on by this really fat guy, like a morbidly obese, multi-chinned dude. She told me that she felt so freaked out and that it was "dehuminizing" to have a guy like that talk to her. Yeah, she actually said "dehumanizing" too, multiple times in fact and said to me something along the lines "like dude, do I really look that low to you?" because she just felt so grossed out. She said that it wasn't even that he was ugly from how he looked and that if he was skinnier he would even be decent to good looking. But him being fat just felt "dehumanizing" to her.

Now some of you might think that she is very arrogant and rude, but if you take pride in your physical prowess and groom yourself well, then you would feel the same way if Jabba the Hutt's sister tried hitting on you (it's happened to me before, I was disgusted). It is insulting to have someone who has no shame over how they look believe that they deserve you when you try hard to make yourself look as good as possible.

Moral of the story: fitness is for life. You don't need to look like Arnold, but try to at least look like you do SOMETHING.

 

[cola]

Sounds like a win for the fat guy.

 

[Asmodeus]

Sure, being fat IS ugly, but it carries a whole new meaning. If you for some reason just aren't attractive to women but you aren't fat, you still have a chance. Being ugly because you are fat is something completely different though. I decided to create this thread because about a day or 2 ago, my sister told me how she got hit on by a fat guy for the first time in her life, and I thought it would be good to give some insight into the mind of a female put in this situation. She tends to be more 'intimidating' than most chicks because of her eyes and gait, plus she dresses to one up the next chick (she's not intimidating when you actually talk to her though, she just only becomes a b!tch when she gets her 'mood swings' every month). So anyway, she was telling me how she got hit on by this really fat guy, like a morbidly obese, multi-chinned dude. She told me that she felt so freaked out and that it was "dehuminizing" to have a guy like that talk to her. Yeah, she actually said "dehumanizing" too, multiple times in fact and said to me something along the lines "like dude, do I really look that low to you?" because she just felt so grossed out. She said that it wasn't even that he was ugly from how he looked and that if he was skinnier he would even be decent to good looking. But him being fat just felt "dehumanizing" to her.

Now some of you might think that she is very arrogant and rude, but if you take pride in your physical prowess and groom yourself well, then you would feel the same way if Jabba the Hutt's sister tried hitting on you (it's happened to me before, I was disgusted). It is insulting to have someone who has no shame over how they look believe that they deserve you when you try hard to make yourself look as good as possible.

Moral of the story: fitness is for life. You don't need to look like Arnold, but try to at least look like you do SOMETHING.

I respect the fat guy, he was unafraid and was not going to let his trepidations phase him. He showed courage.

Some day... Your sister is going to run into a guy like me. A man with a perfect body like a fitness model, a charming smile, extreme uncanny confidence that borders on total fearlessness, and a kind of awareness and cleverness as if he seems to understand her. A most perfect parasite.... Then she will learn what it truly means to be dehumanized...

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I respect the fat guy, he was unafraid and was not going to let his trepidations phase him. He showed courage.

Some day... Your sister is going to run into a guy like me. A man with a perfect body like a fitness model, a charming smile, extreme uncanny confidence that borders on total fearlessness, and a kind of awareness and cleverness as if he seems to understand her. A most perfect parasite.... Then she will learn what it truly means to be dehumanized...

Wouldnt't doubt it.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

then you would feel the same way if Jabba the Hutt's sister tried hitting on you

I've been hit on by fat chicks, and even been on a few blind dates with fat chicks that weren't shy about expressing their sexual interest.

Uncomfortable? Yes. Dehumanizing? No.

The situation would only have been dehumanizing if the fat dude tried to eat your sister.

 

[Desdinova]

plus she dresses to one up the next chick

Just as a side note, I believe that most chicks do this when they go out. They always want to out-do all the other bytches, and they have no problem letting their friends/boyfriend know which ones are highly competitive (or even better looking) because she will call them ugly, slvtty, skanky, etc.

I've always said that women will get dressed up first to compete with other women. They will also get dressed up to be out with their BF to show off to any other bytches that she has claimed him as her man, and that he deserves a good looking women like her.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I've been hit on by fat chicks, and even been on a few blind dates with fat chicks that weren't shy about expressing their sexual interest.

Uncomfortable? Yes. Dehumanizing? No.

The situation would only have been dehumanizing if the fat dude tried to eat your sister.

Yeah dehumanizing for a guy? Not so much. I meant that to her it was (she represents the modern female) to show just how much disgust they have towards really fat people.

Just as a side note, I believe that most chicks do this when they go out. They always want to out-do all the other bytches, and they have no problem letting their friends/boyfriend know which ones are highly competitive (or even better looking) because she will call them ugly, slvtty, skanky, etc.

I've always said that women will get dressed up first to compete with other women. They will also get dressed up to be out with their BF to show off to any other bytches that she has claimed him as her man, and that he deserves a good looking women like her.

True stuff, whenever she goes out she tries to look the best in the room or wherever she's at. At home though, no fvcks given hahaha.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I meant that to her it was (she represents the modern female) to show just how much disgust they have towards really fat people.

I don't think it's necessarily "fat people" per se, rather "low quality" people. Certain women see themselves as "elites" that don't have to "interact with" a certain portion of the society. That he was obese made it easy for her to identify (and in her imagination everybody that was watching to identify) him as "low quality."

I suspect that identifying him as unattractive because he was "fat" is easier (more socially acceptable) than to say he was unattractive because he was of insufficient social status.

If the SAME GUY had clear social proof and $20K worth of bling she would have had a MUCH different reaction.

 

[Trump]

Sure, being fat IS ugly, but it carries a whole new meaning. If you for some reason just aren't attractive to women but you aren't fat, you still have a chance. Being ugly because you are fat is something completely different though. I decided to create this thread because about a day or 2 ago, my sister told me how she got hit on by a fat guy for the first time in her life, and I thought it would be good to give some insight into the mind of a female put in this situation. She tends to be more 'intimidating' than most chicks because of her eyes and gait, plus she dresses to one up the next chick (she's not intimidating when you actually talk to her though, she just only becomes a b!tch when she gets her 'mood swings' every month). So anyway, she was telling me how she got hit on by this really fat guy, like a morbidly obese, multi-chinned dude. She told me that she felt so freaked out and that it was "dehuminizing" to have a guy like that talk to her. Yeah, she actually said "dehumanizing" too, multiple times in fact and said to me something along the lines "like dude, do I really look that low to you?" because she just felt so grossed out. She said that it wasn't even that he was ugly from how he looked and that if he was skinnier he would even be decent to good looking. But him being fat just felt "dehumanizing" to her.

Now some of you might think that she is very arrogant and rude, but if you take pride in your physical prowess and groom yourself well, then you would feel the same way if Jabba the Hutt's sister tried hitting on you (it's happened to me before, I was disgusted). It is insulting to have someone who has no shame over how they look believe that they deserve you when you try hard to make yourself look as good as possible.

Not necessarily. If you don't have a ring on your finger and are not with that person, it's open season.

It's unfortunate your sister felt dehumanized because a fat guy hit on her, but if she is ever called to fight in a WAR, she'll be in for a big surprise.

There are guys overweight who are married to good
looking women and have kids with them, and have other girls hitting on them. There are other guys who dress well, groom well, workout and join tons and tons of clubs and dance classes. Yet they can't find a girl to save their life. It's all relative.

 

[ubercat]

Gawd it's tough some days but. I can understand the couch gene. Had a do or die tennis match on Thursday which wrecked my back. Spent Friday night at the girlfriend's doing my manly duty. Between the stuffing and the sore back got zero sleep. However I missed my weights session because of bloody work during the week. So I still had to hit the weights on Saturday. Yeah I find it kind of reassuring that fat guys are still out there doing their thing. Remember we are all just one injury away from being that guy.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I don't think it's necessarily "fat people" per se, rather "low quality" people. Certain women see themselves as "elites" that don't have to "interact with" a certain portion of the society. That he was obese made it easy for her to identify (and in her imagination everybody that was watching to identify) him as "low quality."

I suspect that identifying him as unattractive because he was "fat" is easier (more socially acceptable) than to say he was unattractive because he was of insufficient social status.

If the SAME GUY had clear social proof and $20K worth of bling she would have had a MUCH different reaction.

No, looks is pretty much everything to her. There's guy's that she absolutely adored that weren't sh!t, but she just liked the way they looked and were. I remember she liked a druggy just because of his mannerisms and how he looked. She had some of the strongest, most athletic, and most popular dudes in the school (when she was still in high school, she graduated already) go for her and they can get any girl they want. She didn't care for any of them though. They may have become more 'beta' towards her, but it still wouldn't make that much of a difference. The guys she liked were, surprisingly enough, like what Pook says to be. They just did their own thing and didn't focus on her, just on their own ordeals.