Good post.
The short answer is most men are conformist faggots.
As men get older they allow family and societal pressure to dictate their decisions. Some also become lonely because their beta friends start to couple up or get married.. leaving them holding their d!ck with nothing to do.
One of my old buddies from high school recently got divorced after 8 years of marriage. He is basically lost in space. No clue what to do with himself. When men embrace the blue pill they lose their identity and masculinity. They become submissive, passive, supplicating servants to women. When the woman leaves.. the beta slave is lost because he has no master.