Field rapport - layed but the comments from her???

TheGambino

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So guys give me your thoughts about her comments...

I met this broad on a herbalife meeting. All about active lifestyle, nutrition, herbalife products and becoming the best version of yourself. It's great I gained a lot of muscle and lost quite a lot of fat. But i'm still not at my goal.

I posted about her coming to me at the end of the first meeting to make a chit chat. She knows me from old times. Her ex-boyfriend had friends in the old village I lived and she knows my cousin and stuff but I never spoke to her.

We decided to car pool. First meeting we car pooled together and had a fun chat about her and my life. Nothing much. I made a post just to keep everyone interested updated about the convo and decided not to push for a date at that point. She is very fit, nice legs and a beautiful smile.

We both missed a couple of herbalife meetings and we texted only on the meeting days. I saw her twice at a meeting and that's it. I decided to give it time.

Today I was bored and texted her: Hey lets meet up for drinks, have a good time and discuss herbalife? She replied: Yes sure! sounds fun!

She came. We sat for about 1.5 hours at a ****tail bar and talked about basically everything. She sat in front of me so I couldnt kino at all and I lacked a sexual convo so I couldn't build much attraction. But I teased her a lot in a fun and light way and we talked about fun stuff. She opened up a lot to me and told me a lot of sh1t about herself. She did the talking for 80% which is very important dudes, it's all about her! She told me about her problems and I agreed with her but didn't analyse and help her like I used to do years ago as an AFC, this would ruin my chances.

After 1.5 hours.

Me: Let's get out of here.
Her: Hmm Okay..
Me: Let's have drinks at my place.
Her: Sure.

We go to my house, my moms home. I tell her let's go to my room. She looks a bit awkward and follows me. I put up a serie (Power, which is awesome in my opinion) I tell her a bit about the serie, but the 45 minutes were long, I didn't make a move. She didn't give me the chance by looking at me for a long time or putting her head on my shoulder or anything at all... I was thinking, dude she is in your f*cking room, make a god damn move before she decides to leave.

At the end of the show I put off all the lights in my room and we talk about relationships.
She complains about her ex-boyfriend. I agree and tell her about my ex girlfriend.

Then I make this comment:

You know what I wanna know.
And I went for the kiss, we make out for about a minute and she says.

Her: I don't know, I was thinking if you asked me out on a real date or just to discuss herbalife. I dont know it's weird but theres no feeling. Or am I acting weird?
Me: Silence*
Me: I'm enjoying kissing you and I know you enjoy it too.
Her: Yes I enjoy it.
Me: Let's kiss some more then.
Her: okay (with a smile)

We kiss and I switch positions so that she was on top of me. I made her f*cking horney by kissing her softly and hard, kissing her neck, and kino'ing a lot.

When I try to go under her shirt to her bra. She stops again.

Her: I dont know, I think I see it more in a friendship way. I'm not having sex... (this bullsh1t could be a test or anti slut defence or she really wasn't so attracted)
Me: Ignore and going on with what Im doing.
Making her horney more, kissing hard.
I asked her do you feel something now, is it okay if I go along. She says ''yes, it's okay''

I unzipp her bra and I suck her titties, kiss her and do my thing where im good at.

I know girls can't resist sex if you make them wet. I did my foreplay and she lets me unzipp her pants. We had some crazy wild nice sex but my mom was asleep in the house so we couldnt go for the 100%. She sucks me, we talk about anal (she brings it up) that she doesn't like it. I lick her whole body and make her wet. I make her squirt and *** with my hands and f*ck her hard.

She says that she's horney as f*ck and that theres a feeling now (LMFAO, she wants to be f8cked). I come twice. We kiss a lot and touch eachother a lot, switching positions all that.

I tell her: You know when Im home alone I could go for the max, 100% I know you wanna find out.
Her: Yesss

In the end we go smoke a cigarette on my balcony and she says.

Her: I don't know if im going to be in love with you, I thought I see it more in a friendly way, or friends with benefit *she laughs.
Me: Silent, relaxed, chilled. Not much of a comment to confuse her ass.
Her: So how do you think about it.
Me: I don't know, being friends is an option too. Ignore her ass again and smoke my cig but im calm, friendly and still flirty, touching her arms and smiling.
Me: Well I think you think a bit far I guess, smiling*. She says okay.

She was very much debating to stay to sleep at my place, I saw her thinking hard for a long time but she had to do stuff in the morning so she felt like going home is better.

She dresses, I kiss her 3 times and she leaves the joint.

I tell her to text me if she gets home.

Her: Im home
Me: You drived like schumacher.
Her: Ye lol
Me: okay im going to sleep otherwise im tired af at work tommorow, goodnight !!

No reaction from her.

She is sensitive, hot, great sex, very very very shy and behaved in talking to her but a good sex partner. She is a quality girl, having a decent job, taking care of herself, dancing lessons, gym everyday, eathing healthy and broke up 6 months ago from a 5 year relationship.

Any thoughts?

Does she like me or is she really showing real emotions and debating wether she likes me or not for a relationship.

I don;t care too much tbh, I wanna how you guys experienced comments like this and what it means.

thanks bruhs
 
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Forget about whether she likes you or not just keep on fuucking her! Sex is always the main goal everything else is subterfuge.
 

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Does she like me or is she really showing real emotions and debating wether she likes me or not for a relationship.

Keep fvcking her good and you will find out soon enough. Enjoy the ride and let the chips fall where they may. Its not about her it is about you.

And good job, you deserve it .
 

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sounds to me like this is a sex only deal its as though she's pushing the idea of FWB

id be very relaxed about the whole scenario now and go with the flow let her worry about the emotional implications
 

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Forget everything she said, every word.

I had a similar experience and what I learned was:
She's talking to herself, not you.

She's justifying whatever she needs to, to herself.
To make sure she doesn't think/feel like she's a sloot.
Basically, her waist is overriding her brain and since women talk about everything, it spills out through the mouth.

You did the right thing. Staying calm. Ignoring the spill.

If she bugs you for an answer, kiss her, talk about something else.

When next she hits you up, invite her over. Fcuk her again. No dates, for now.

If she talks about not wanting a relationship or anything relating, let her know, it's not your style to rush things, you're just having fun right now as you get to know her better.

Do not chase this girl. Chase her, lose her. Do not initiate either. Do not double text. one ounce of desperation and she's gone. Do not leave your center.

Also do not get jealous for her.

She'll come to you again, fcuk her when she does.

Good fr btw.
 
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Will do guys.

Quick update.

(Im a worse texter though) She iniates

Her: Everything is still só sensitive haha
Her: Are you fit?
Me: Yes super fit. I feel great.
Me: Ye? That's nice right haha
Her: Oh nice! I had a rough morning but now I feel great too. (we stayed up late ofcourse)
Me: Great!

Since then radio silence.

Im probably seeing her tuesday for the herbalife meeting, were set to carpool again. Lets see what happens then.
 

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Reduce the "buddy","comfort" text.

You shouldn't have responded to the last text -- just to give you context.

You already know to stay away from the regular traps.

If you're not texting to fcuk (schedule a meet, confirm a meet), you shouldn't be texting at all
She's not your girlfriend.
She's an ordinary girl, nothing special about her
She likes sex and likes sex with you and would come back to have sex with you
Your job is done, now let her be a female, let her come chasing after your all mighty presence and attention.

Don't become the girl. Don't leave your center.

Can you fcuk her before tuesday? Can you fcuk her before the convention? if not, can you miss the convention? no carpool, let her show up and not see you.

You're doing good, keep it up.
 

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Was drunk.

Text:

Me: im in (her city) *club join me for drinks?

She read the message but ignored it.

Maybe i came off too hard.. Maybe she thinks i think only about s*x.

I deleted her number
 

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I do not understand how some guys still think it's a good strategy to be vague about what they want. It's critical to clarify what it is, instead you "confuse her ass". It comes off as weak, what man doesn't know what he wants? Women just have to know this.

If what you wanted was a FWB then you missed your opportunity by being unclear. A woman who considers a FWB will avoid a man who might seek a relationship, because it creates a very uncomfortable drama. A woman who considers a relationship will avoid a man who seeks FWB, because such a man won't give her what she wants.

Regardless of what you want with a woman just be clear.

This woman probably didn't want a relationship and not knowing what you want she's not gonna gamble on you. I would rather think she thinks you don't think about just sex.
 

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Was drunk.

Text:

Me: im in (her city) *club join me for drinks?

She read the message but ignored it.

Maybe i came off too hard.. Maybe she thinks i think only about s*x.

I deleted her number
good.

its this part of the female mindset i cannot comprehend , they moan they don't want to be used for sex or whatever but do strange things like this which basically leaves us no other option


I'm convinced the stuff that goes on inside there heads is absolutely insane
 

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good.

its this part of the female mindset i cannot comprehend , they moan they don't want to be used for sex or whatever but do strange things like this which basically leaves us no other option


I'm convinced the stuff that goes on inside there heads is absolutely insane
Yes must be bro. She answered the next day she wasnt in town.

We had a small text chat about our weekends. I probably see her tuesday for the meeting.
 

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Nice job handling the LMR. Reminds me of when I was a kid and use to bring girls back to my place while my mom was city on the couch watch television haha.
 
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