Wimpy Kids

[Desdinova]

A single mom posted this on my Facebook...

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My son got punched in the face tonight by some scum that wanted his phone. My son is not perfect but wouldn't hurt anyone . It is hard to turn the other cheek and forgive,and realize how much this person's life must suck to do that to another person.... That's my child whom I would protect with my life.

I feel more hurt right now than I have in a long time. (Boyfriend) and I couldn't find the kid, Probably a good thing . And no (my son) didn't hit him back, Instead my son asked this guy if he was ok and tried reasoning with him.
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If that was my kid, I would be disappointed in myself for failing him as a parent. If another kid hits mine, I fully expect him to defend himself and beat the piss out of the other kid. My kid has already done it, and I'm glad I didn't raise a fvcking wimp.

Reasoning with somebody isn't going to keep you safe and keep your property protected. Here's some of the responses to the post:

From the men:
- Amazing young man you have ..... took more courage than most people have to not take the cowards way out. I'm sorry this happened but on the other hand Cheers to (your son) for being a man

- I believe that self defense is righteous... he could convince the aggressor not to behave so badly


From the Women:
- Your kid is a class act! Awesome boy

- What an awful feeling as a parent to see you son treated so horribly. Take comfort in the fact that your son handled the situation so amazingly well. Shows that your a awesome mom.

 

[Konada]

It's sad to see a kid ruined this way because I've been in his shoes.

All it does is perpetuate the bullying and very soon this kid will be left with a damaged psyche, just like how I was.

 

[Desdinova]

It's sad to see a kid ruined this way because I've been in his shoes.

All it does is perpetuate the bullying and very soon this kid will be left with a damaged psyche, just like how I was.

I've been there too, perhaps worse. I used to get the 5hit kicked out of me every day at school because I was taught it was wrong to defend myself and that turning the other cheek will make the bully go away. I ended up with PTSD from getting beaten up daily. That could've been prevented if I was given the confidence and the encouragement to defend myself.

 

[Konada]

On the contrary, I never had to lift a finger because I was taught to 'leave things to the adults', and just sounded out whenever I needed help rather than fight for myself. As a result, I never learnt how to defend myself when they weren't available for me. Funny how different things can cause the same result.

 

[Huffman]

took more courage than most people have to not take the cowards way out.

WOW... I don't think these guys have ever been there... I was bullied for a while at school and my mum always told me to just ignore them because I'm so much better than them... funny I can't remember if my dad said anything.
Anyway, ignoring works really well when they are literally kicking at you... not.

I do believe it's difficult to teach a kid violence in a way that is measured, and for self defence only.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Schools now have a "zero tolerance" policy for violence. They tell kids that even if someone is attacking you, you're not allowed to defend yourself. You're supposed to cry for a teacher, and not hit back, or else you will get punished just as much as the attacker.

I remember the days when authority figures would tell me as a kid, "no one likes a tattletale," and just ignore you, even when another kid was beating you up. The only time I ever got bullied was as a 2nd grader, by some big fat ass 5th graders who realized they could pick on the 2nd graders, because we were 1/3rd their size. It was impossible to physically fight back...until I discovered that throwing rocks was a great equalizer. The lesson that when someone bigger than you fvcks with you, pick up a rock and smash them in the head with it - I don't think there are a lot of American 8 year-olds out there who have learned that one yet. That's not "zero tolerance for violence."

 

[logicallefty]

I was taught this wimp breeding bullcr@p by my mother too. I don't think she really liked it herself but she taught me this way because she thought that's what she had to do. I practiced this way until 6th grade. Would get the crap beat out of me, not a lot, but maybe once per school year. But I didn't fight back. Came home from school with a black eye in 6th grade. This was the first time anything like this had happened since my mom was with my step dad, an strong alpha male A-Z. I talked to my step dad about and he said "no, this ain't gonna happen anymore. Never hit first. But next time you get hit you lay them the fvck out and tell your school that *I* told you to do so, and they can talk to me".. And from then on that's what I did. Even though I was a little beta wuss bag in a lot of ways, I was a tough little fvcker fighting wise. My step dad had my back every time from then on. And I never lost a fight.

I teach my daughter this way now too. The one thing I add for her that my step dad didn't for me is "Always know where security cameras are, and if you can, get your adversary to hit you first, in front of the camera.. Then your dad will take it from there. "

 

[Alvafe]

the camera one is wise.

funny my mom said the same to me don't fight, good thing i was too hot headed, and after some time I learned to fight back was the best policy, but at least my mom never told me to stop when I did defend myself, my dad was always meh about this since he was never home to know (always working). course the director(always a female) never liked it,

when I was in 6th grade a guy hit me in the face, weak slap really, but was enough to draw some of my blood, when I notice this I just looked at him anddid a huge battle cry, "I will kill you" the kid become a white and starte to run, trying to hide behind a teacher, didn't save him from me, I still land several punches on him, and even when the director was there I was still trying to hit him, and people would try to hold me. funny too after this I never had problems with people trying to bully me again, guess the thing about if you can't respect you will fear works pretty well

 

[LiveFreeX]

Schools now have a "zero tolerance" policy for violence. They tell kids that even if someone is attacking you, you're not allowed to defend yourself. You're supposed to cry for a teacher, and not hit back, or else you will get punished just as much as the attacker.

This sh1t is taught everywhere by leftist scum. I even spoke to one male teacher who said if he got into a fight he would basically beg his way out and if that didn't work and he couldn't run, he would just sit there and get beat. I was bullied quite badly all throughout primary and high school until I started fighting back and when you can't equalize based on strength, you use FEAR instead. Like rocks, I took to throwing FULL cans of open soda, acting a bit more crazy and doing things that scared people in the school I was at. I also hung out everyday in the detention room at lunch, outside the principals office, and with the 'problem' kids, pretty soon I had a rep as the baddest kid in school. Then people stopped fvking with me. The answer is not to turn the other cheek, its to toughen up, use your brain and take revenge. Highschool took me an extra few years but by the time I left, I was the most popular kid in school. Bullying taught me a ton of lessons in life and I'm happy that I was challenged so much as a kid or I wouldn't be the person I am today or have the wife I have. Sometimes bullying is more of a blessing than a curse. It helped me to identify and control social situations just the way that PUA taught me how to properly speak to women to maintain frame.

And that zero tolerance policy was only to push this faggy sex-ed curriculum through the system, now bullying is practiced everywhere by left tards and white knights on normal guys. I once ran into a white knight in a college and he was willing to try and end my life on a woman's honour. That caused me to take up multiple martial arts, the next time he met up with me to 'defend her honour' he was met with a little surprise. He never even managed to score, she had a boyfriend in another castle.

 

[speed dawg]

If a guy can physically hurt your kid or whatever, it's not exactly best to have them be so willing to fight back. I busted a kid in the face with a soda can too, after he consistently was messing with me. He then beat me up even worse. You better be willing to finish the deal, is my advice.

That said, I agree with most everyone here. You have to defend yourself, and you have to do it wisely. People want to get a rise out of you. If you give them the intended reaction, they'll keep doing it. Verbal self-defense is a very valuable tactic. Ignoring never works. You have to acknowledge the attack, then defeat it. Many times you can fend off a physically superior bully with good verbal self-defense, that keeps situations from escalating. If you can't, you either have to accept it or use weapons.

 

[Alvafe]

true sh!t talk also work, but you also need to be ready to defend yourself for this, my policy is never attack first, taunt and provoke for him do it first then its self defense, so take note if you stand for yourself you need to be ready to fight back and not hold back

 

[LiveFreeX]

busted a kid in the face with a soda can too, after he consistently was messing with me. He then beat me up even worse.

When it gets to that point you have to be willing to go all in. Arms are much easier to break than faces, teach your kid a proper arm bar and how to drive people's faces into concrete. Its all about wrist action, even a child can get the upper hand and should be able to do so before the fight begins. Stick your kids into Aikido and Krav Maga and you'll never have to worry about them again. The best technique is to ask someone to hold something for you before you start, that way their hands and attention are occupied. They'll never see it coming.

 

[GoodOne123]

Through school I've been in my fair share of fights. My parents gladly taught me to beat another kid up if they hit me first. The thing was that I was an empathetic kid and felt the other kids pain. I always regretted the situation even when I rightly beat the other kid up.

During one of my high school years I didnt fit in at all. I had certain kids in the year who I always had beef with. Every day I went to school stressed and worried if I had to fight that day. I think the adrenaline, stress, and sadness I felt on a regular basis changed me from that point on.

Despite the fact leftist people thinking otherwise, the right way to retaliate against a bully or another kid hitting you is to hit back.

 

[Once Bitten]

I was brought up to be a punching bag for bullies too.
Took a while but in 8th grade I got enough of it. And as I got older I got pretty good at defending myself, to the point peeps know better.

But d@mmit it sucked in the mean time! I taught my girl how to defend herself. Nobody messes with her lol!! She makes me proud...

 

[BetterCallSaul]

So, with regard to the OP....

Single mom? Check
White knights? Check

Yeah this kid is screwed.