Sometimes it just feels so fvcking hopeless

[ubercat]

So my question still stands.

Why aren't you banging the fives?

If you have been physically bullied in the past why aren't you learning a martial art?

The first one will give you confidence because you will realise that woman are not magical beings.

The second point will give you confidence because men designed to serve and protect. Knowing that you can take care of yourself and others will make you feel more of a man.

 

[Konada]

@Konada
Wow, you need to get some counselling or some sort of therapeutic psychiatric help. I don't mean this maliciously but with concern.

You are living with several delusions and poisoning your life.
Having sex with a gorgeous woman WILL NOT change your life (much) but you are treating it like the holy grail that will cleanse you of the poisonous events of your past. It won't. It is not a magic wand.

You sound like those bad events and bad choices are burnt into your psyche. Fix that, or at least come to an accommodation with it so that you can get on with living. Right not everything you are saying sounds like "why don't people value me?"."if I had sex with a gorgeous woman I would have value " Maybe people would just assume you paid for her anyway.
People don't value you because you are negative, bitter, are horribly insecure, desperate and are not giving value to the people around you. You are SO concerned with how others see you. Even if your outer game is great and it might be. You dress well, you aren't unnatractive. You are interested in getting better at pick-up.

The problem is your inner game is so bad it is repellent. That is the impression I get. If I am wrong then I apologise.

My advice would be that until you are a bit less damaged forget about women.
Forgive others, forgive yourself, move on from the past, enjoy your life.

Yes I sought help for my issues about year ago. I was very very delusional in the 'not give a fvck attitude' and had alot of internal issues I had gotten over in these 9 months. I was way worse than I come to you right now. Looking back, once I always told myself I didn't regret any decision I make but now gaining more clarity and ability to look into myself from therapy, I could finally see how my past self landed me in this hellhole today.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Bunch of Cuck-Muricans and a woman giving a Chinese kid advice... wonderful. Have any of the rest of you been to SIngapore? Dated Singapore women in Singapore? Hail from an Asian family? No one here is qualified to give this kid any fcking advice on how to get women.

0:01 Truth from the Woman's Federation of China.

0:26 for the ultimate truth.

Can any of you relate to this in Murica? Nope, both women and men there are under some bvllsh1t delusion that women carry any sort of value into a relationship after 25.

4:10 Speaking from experience as a happily married man, go meet a girl that hauls bricks for a living, no game, no issues, no problems. Alternatively you can go the Amurican way and try and meet some spoiled b1tch who needs you to play head games to get her to agree to a date. Chick in that video has ONE fcvkin hand and she does 100% more work than any western woman I know. Meet just one hard working woman and you'll never need to date again.

School does not qualify as 'hard work'. The ability to attend school is a luxury for the upper classes. You want to be a real knight in shining Armour? Date 3 to 5 levels below your class. Sometimes it just feels so fvcking hopeless if you try and date within your own class or one higher than you. Been there, done that.

 

[guru1000]

Bunch of Cuck-Muricans and a woman giving a Chinese kid advice... wonderful. Have any of the rest of you been to SIngapore? Dated Singapore women in Singapore? Hail from an Asian family? No one here is qualified to give this kid any fcking advice on how to get women.

0:01 Truth from the Woman's Federation of China.

0:26 for the ultimate truth.

Can any of you relate to this in Murica? Nope, both women and men there are under some bvllsh1t delusion that women carry any sort of value into a relationship after 25.

4:10 Speaking from experience as a happily married man, go meet a girl that hauls bricks for a living, no game, no issues, no problems. Alternatively you can go the Amurican way and try and meet some spoiled b1tch who needs you to play head games to get her to agree to a date. Chick in that video has ONE fcvkin hand and she does 100% more work than any western woman I know. Meet just one hard working woman and you'll never need to date again.

School does not qualify as 'hard work'. The ability to attend school is a luxury for the upper classes. You want to be a real knight in shining Armour? Date 3 to 5 levels below your class. Sometimes it just feels so fvcking hopeless if you try and date within your own class or one higher than you. Been there, done that.

Ah shut up.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Ah shut up.

 

[Julian]

Livefree whats your point

Bunch of Cuck-Muricans and a woman giving a Chinese kid advice... wonderful. Have any of the rest of you been to SIngapore? Dated Singapore women in Singapore? Hail from an Asian family? No one here is qualified to give this kid any fcking advice on how to get women.

0:01 Truth from the Woman's Federation of China.

0:26 for the ultimate truth.

Can any of you relate to this in Murica? Nope, both women and men there are under some bvllsh1t delusion that women carry any sort of value into a relationship after 25.

4:10 Speaking from experience as a happily married man, go meet a girl that hauls bricks for a living, no game, no issues, no problems. Alternatively you can go the Amurican way and try and meet some spoiled b1tch who needs you to play head games to get her to agree to a date. Chick in that video has ONE fcvkin hand and she does 100% more work than any western woman I know. Meet just one hard working woman and you'll never need to date again.

School does not qualify as 'hard work'. The ability to attend school is a luxury for the upper classes. You want to be a real knight in shining Armour? Date 3 to 5 levels below your class. Sometimes it just feels so fvcking hopeless if you try and date within your own class or one higher than you. Been there, done that.

livefree finds dates at chinese homeless shelters

lolz jk bro i feel what your saying...these spoiled western bishes mayne...standards are outta control

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I get your point live free but I think even in Singapore women àrent attracted to desperate unhappy men.

 

[LiveFreeX]

http://www.chinasmack.com/2015/pict...rs-to-marry-whoever-can-save-her-brother.html

http://www.chinasmack.com/2009/pictures/candied-fruit-beauty-chinese-street-peddler.html

This is all over Asia.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Livefree whats your point

Who do you want as the mother of your children?

Option #1.
Stupid
Incredibly Spoiled
Covered in tattoos
Safe Space Advocating
Lives in a nice house
Has sex whenever she feels like it
Chooses thugs and 'bad guys' to get her rocks off
Never had a job beyond barista, quit when it wasn't 'fun' anymore
In your face personality, highly opinionated
Spends extra time listening to pop stars or playing on facebook
--------------------------------

Option #2.
Streetwise
Never had anything, hardly has enough to provide for her parents and siblings at the end of the day.
No welfare system to support her family, lives in a shack with all her brothers and
sisters.
Thinks tattoos are a boy's thing.
Lives in a house the size of your closet
Virgin
Dreams about marrying a decent guy and having a baby
Taught to work since she could stand.
Quiet, shy.
Spends extra time sleeping or studying

These are not fictional characters either, I'm describing two women I know, personally.

 

[ubercat]

Guess it's my nature I have a buck each way on this one. I'm with live 3x in that I can't understand anyone who can't get laid when they've got all of Asia on their doorstep. But I also think that having tight game is something to aspire to. And so the local princesses present a worthy challenge. However surely there is a halfway house. My mate likes Thai girls in, dated a number of them while in Singapore and is now married to one. Singapore is like a candy store if you like Asian girls there is pick and mix from all over the region. There's any number of beautiful por girls working as housemaids in restaurants etc. If the 5s don't do it for you why not find an immigrant girl who is an 8?

Now I'm out. If somebody can't find a way forward from the amount of advice on this thread it's likely they have psych issues and no amount of advice will help.