I know it's been talked a lot about in the far way past, but I was wondering if opinions have shifted, especially since men in general are becoming more and more aware of women's behavior and how it's easy for them to rationalize that something is okay when it probably isn't.
As a plate, it wouldn't matter too much if she was seeing a male gynecologist. But what if she was LTR material? In my experiences, NONE of my LTRs ever gave me trouble with seeing only female gynecologists. Even the most hardened slvttiest girl I've ever had an LTR with in the past became so infatuated with me that it was easy for her to switch over to a female.
I think this ties in a lot with frame and her respect for you. Most of the women who believe that their body is completely their own and that the male doctor is "completely professional" probably don't respect their boyfriends/husbands that much.
This topic usually always turns into a debate of how "insecure" the man is (considering the people in the conversation have a high chance of being SJWs, feminists, etc). At a certain point, it's suddenly no longer about the relationship. It's about why the man feels so inferior that he even has to bring up such a "silly non-issue."
In the end, the "being a patient of a male gynecologist" part can pretty much be replaced with anything. It can be replaced with "having male friends" or "contacting your ex" or "going to a bachelorette party" because the content doesn't matter so much as any boundaries you try to place will have you labeled as insecure.
While it's completely okay for some men, the fact that it's not okay for you is what's important. If a woman respects you, the whole world's opinion should mean nothing to her - only yours. As a man who protects her, you have the right to have a preference of how you want her to be. You have the right to have boundaries, and most of the time, you have the right to enforce them, or she no longer gets to be a part of your kingdom.
I'm so glad that I never really had this problem. But I feel for the chumps who initially do, but end up caving in and accepting it.
As a plate, it wouldn't matter too much if she was seeing a male gynecologist. But what if she was LTR material? In my experiences, NONE of my LTRs ever gave me trouble with seeing only female gynecologists. Even the most hardened slvttiest girl I've ever had an LTR with in the past became so infatuated with me that it was easy for her to switch over to a female.
I think this ties in a lot with frame and her respect for you. Most of the women who believe that their body is completely their own and that the male doctor is "completely professional" probably don't respect their boyfriends/husbands that much.
This topic usually always turns into a debate of how "insecure" the man is (considering the people in the conversation have a high chance of being SJWs, feminists, etc). At a certain point, it's suddenly no longer about the relationship. It's about why the man feels so inferior that he even has to bring up such a "silly non-issue."
In the end, the "being a patient of a male gynecologist" part can pretty much be replaced with anything. It can be replaced with "having male friends" or "contacting your ex" or "going to a bachelorette party" because the content doesn't matter so much as any boundaries you try to place will have you labeled as insecure.
While it's completely okay for some men, the fact that it's not okay for you is what's important. If a woman respects you, the whole world's opinion should mean nothing to her - only yours. As a man who protects her, you have the right to have a preference of how you want her to be. You have the right to have boundaries, and most of the time, you have the right to enforce them, or she no longer gets to be a part of your kingdom.
I'm so glad that I never really had this problem. But I feel for the chumps who initially do, but end up caving in and accepting it.
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