Blue pill friends... and the pitfalls

[wifehunter]

Do you ever feel the need to explain yourself when your suspected bluepill friends question your dealings with the ladies? Big mistake, now I feel like I don't want to go into it anymore. I maybe should have kept my mouth shut to begin with. : (

 

[sodbuster]

you can't tell your friends.... until they ask. Otherwise, hope they learn online....

 

[wifehunter]

you can't tell your friends.... until they ask. Otherwise, hope they learn online....

Yes, I'm still learning to keep certain things under my hat, as it were. Relationship conversations come up a lot, though... They seem to be really popular... I think I just need a strategy to handle things lightly, and to be slightly distanced/indifferent.
I'm already getting ideas as I'm typing this.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Relationship conversations are likely popular specifically because they are blue pill type guys who can't figure anything out. Stay out of it, play aloof if ever asked for your opinion.

 

[wifehunter]

Relationship conversations are likely popular specifically because they are blue pill type guys who can't figure anything out. Stay out of it, play aloof if ever asked for your opinion.

You know... I think I may alltogether avoid guys who know nothing about women... I'd rather not be tempted to follow the status quo. It's already caused a bump in the road. (Result...I was being too available, to this girl I'm seeing) It's nothing unfixable, but it's also a disappointing headache nonetheless. I hate going backwards. Time for some friendly distance.

 

[dustmuffin]

I don't discuss red pill with anyone but my oldest boy. He is very receptive.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

I don't discuss red pill with anyone but my oldest boy. He is very receptive.

I think something like this says the most over anything else. He's receptive to it. How did he become receptive to it? Ah, that's the philosophical question that will determine if a man is by nature open to learning about the true gender dynamics.

Before ever discussing red pill stuff with any man, you probably need to determine if he's already leaning in that direction. You could spill red pill truths to a crowd of blue pill men and be shouted down or beaten for your words.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Not my experience..most men I know value my opinion. They can see that I am mostly pretty happy, and help them to see things in a different way. I dont preach or tell them how to live their lives but I think most men know that something somewhere is fundamentally broken. They are doing what they have been taught to but are still unhappy. They are desperate for answers but what we are saying to these guts is that if you.listen to us you might be happier but it could cost you your marriage/girlfriend. That's a lot to risk when you are bluepill.