Im in a relationship for one and a half years and as you guys know, Ramadan has started. I am not really religious but this time round i wanted a spiritual journey during the holy month. Therefore i told my GF that i will go full NC her for a month while i concentrate on myself. She didn't like the idea at first but given that she is religious she agreed to it.
Now, before we parted ways temporarily, we decided wed spend a few nights together in the countryside. Every thing went good. She cried as i left. Anyways, since the day I parted we had 3 days left until Ramadan started. She told me how she wants to talk to me everyday before we go on the 'break.' Now call me paranoid but I didnt feel the sense of urgency on her part. She always initiates and she did still initiate but it just wasnt as urgent. She didnt really call for me to ring her each day for the last few days. This could partially be because she went back home after we left the countyside but still it didnt feel right.
However, i didn't say anything until the last day. In the morning of the last day she texts me to ask whether i will call. I text back saying 'ofcourse.' She then tells me she is going to be 20 minutes. I say cool. She took about 2 hours until she texts me saying to call her. I found that disrespectful. One because she said 20 minutes and two because she could have easily told me she was going to be late. So what do i do? I text her back telling her '20 minutes should be 20 minutes' and that 'i will talk to you after June.'
Hell broke loose. She texts me 200 times and calls me 20 times. All of a sudden theres urgency.Tellin me im cruel have too much arrogance and pride etc etc she sent me a voice note in the end tearing up with some cheesy ass lines.
Anyways its been 7 days in to Ramadan. Its all silence right now.
I did what i felt was correct. However looking back i feel i may have overreacted. There is no way ill be contacting her before the end of the month. Just thought id put this out there.
PS. Please try to stay away from bringing religion in to this.
Now, before we parted ways temporarily, we decided wed spend a few nights together in the countryside. Every thing went good. She cried as i left. Anyways, since the day I parted we had 3 days left until Ramadan started. She told me how she wants to talk to me everyday before we go on the 'break.' Now call me paranoid but I didnt feel the sense of urgency on her part. She always initiates and she did still initiate but it just wasnt as urgent. She didnt really call for me to ring her each day for the last few days. This could partially be because she went back home after we left the countyside but still it didnt feel right.
However, i didn't say anything until the last day. In the morning of the last day she texts me to ask whether i will call. I text back saying 'ofcourse.' She then tells me she is going to be 20 minutes. I say cool. She took about 2 hours until she texts me saying to call her. I found that disrespectful. One because she said 20 minutes and two because she could have easily told me she was going to be late. So what do i do? I text her back telling her '20 minutes should be 20 minutes' and that 'i will talk to you after June.'
Hell broke loose. She texts me 200 times and calls me 20 times. All of a sudden theres urgency.Tellin me im cruel have too much arrogance and pride etc etc she sent me a voice note in the end tearing up with some cheesy ass lines.
Anyways its been 7 days in to Ramadan. Its all silence right now.
I did what i felt was correct. However looking back i feel i may have overreacted. There is no way ill be contacting her before the end of the month. Just thought id put this out there.
PS. Please try to stay away from bringing religion in to this.
