Should i use sunglasses next time i upload a selfie?

[Clueless2k16]

from Asm0dea sent 17 minutes ago
I am not one to message people, yet you managed to piss me off so much I felt obliged.
You stated;

so why women here say its confidence?​

Because it is. You can post and repost untill you get the exact answer you want. That doesn't mean it's the right answer. I am a female. There is nothing wrong with your appearence. However you reek of desperation. And that is something that will show in every picture you take. For the love of god get some professional help to build up your confidence. It's not your eyes, it's not the bald head....it's you! If I saw you on an online dating platform the photo's would intrigue me. Then upon closer inspection...I'd turn away. Not because your eyes are (your words, not mine) droopy, not because you are bald...not because anything else you could come up with that makes you ugly in your eyes, but because you look desperate and insecure as hell. Piece of advice here; women smell desperation. We see it in your eyes. We avoid it like the plague. Just like any sane man would avoid a desperate woman.
So take all the advice every redditor has ever given you in the past 1+ year you've posted on here and distill that into one common opinion: seek some help to build your confidence and accept you for you. What you see in the mirror is not what others see. And untill those two allign, you'll not find a woman that can make you happy.


Anyway just kidding on the title, we cant be serious all the time. Will gym help me build my confidence? I ask this because i've been @ the gym before and i was the same insecure/shy guy.

Being unavailable all the time? Taking a long hiatus from women? Will these help me get rid of desperation?

Also @Santori comparing me with Jack Ma, really builds up my confidence. You couldnt give an example of a guy uglier than him could you? I know im ugly but ****...

 

[DiegoSantori]

Also @Santori comparing me with Jack Ma, really builds up my confidence. You couldnt give an example of a guy uglier than him could you? I know im ugly but ****...

You have officially reached facepalm level over 9000. I didn't compare you to Jack Ma, goddamnit, I said you looked way better than him. I just wanted to give you an example of a dude who made it despite his appearance.

Your post once again demonstrates that you hear what you want to hear. That's your problem. You're obsessed with a problem that doesn't even exist. And this female member who told you that you reek of desperation is absolutely right. An indifferent, aloof man with average looks is 10 times more attractive to women than a needy handsome man. But I doubt you will ever understand this.

 

[bigneil]

Should you wear sunglasses the next time you post a selfie?

This is like asking whether you should burp the next time you fart.

Or whether you should wear cut off shorts the next time you wear a baseball cap sideways.

Or whether you should yell "Bruuuuuuuuucee!!!" the next time you yell "Laaaaaannnnce!!"

Or whether you should give free health care to illegal aliens.

 

[ZTIME]

I would use a paper bag. It would most likely produce your desired result.

 

[Ratiocinative]

I would use a paper bag. It would most likely produce your desired result.

Damn you beat me to it lol.

 

[Asmodeus]

A female... with the profile name "asm0dea"... The female form of "asmodeus"... being that "-us" is the masculine form of a latin word and "-a" the feminine form... what the fvck? She gave great advice though...
Somebody is stealing my thunder.


But please stop infesting this forum with your drivel you self loathing sap... I would had tried to help you, but I see that you desire to only wallow in your weakness which makes you pathetic.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

At first I was asking myself why you guys were being so men to our new DonJuan. Then I read his other thread.

OP, are you a troll? If not, you have some seriously body (or face?) dysmorphia. Get it treated, because you look good, it's all in your ****ing head.

 

[Clueless2k16]

havent you read the part where i said i was making a joke with the title

stop with the bdd ****, i need help and its not bdd related.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Going to the gym? No, it won't help, you have some deep insecurities going on, caring even more about your body image won't help. Going to the gym is always good though.

Do you want confidence? Make a list of all of your fears, and go through them, one by one. See that you are not a pvssy, and that you have the power to become the man you want to be. A lot of people would recommend learning some martial art, but I can't recommend it because I have to start myself. Just throwing ideas bro. Learn a language, go bushcrafting, go and talk with some girls... Just work on your insecurities man, so you see you have the power to improve and that you have value.

A book recommendation? Gorilla Mindset. A podcast? JockoPodcast. People here are helpful, but you have to take right action for yourself, we can only throw some ideas, tips, and experiences.

 

[Serenity]

@Clueless2k16 It annoys me that you're not standing right in front of me talking like that. You wouldn't have the balls to do that, I bet you don't talk about this to anyone in person.

 

[LiveYourDream]

@Clueless2k16 I bet you don't talk about this to anyone in person.

I was thinking the same thing. I can't imagine he goes on and on like this, with those regularly in his life.

 

[guru1000]

Well the OP has the no shame part of his inner game down-packed. He has absolutely no ego. Now if he could learn self-confidence, and apply the egoless, shameless action toward women, he would be a beast.

Though transcending 40 years of damaged thinking is quite the hurdle.