Am I just revolting and hideous

[Dhoulmagus]

I never thought I was ugly. I guess I'm just mad because I see guys weighing 270, beer gut hanging out, coke bottle glasses, and pedo beard managing to get women. I can't seem to get **** though. Maybe these guys are better looking than me and I'm just the worst looking male on earth.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

There's no room for self pity. Make it happen for yourself.

Whining never solves anything.

What else can I do if I'm hideous?

 

[Tictac]

I get occasionally wondering about your looks or whatever. And I don't think anyone here has ever seen your photograph.

I also doubt that you look like Quasimodo, the Elephant Man or even the 270 pound beer gut guy you described above.

What brought this on besides the dry spell you're in?

Let it pass.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I get occasionally wondering about your looks or whatever. And I don't think anyone here has ever seen your photograph.

I also doubt that you look like Quasimodo, the Elephant Man or even the 270 pound beer gut guy you described above.

What brought this on besides the dry spell you're in?

Let it pass.

Only women I have met so far have been crazy, *****ish,single mom, hit the wall, too fat, or a combination of them. I guess this is just Tinder lol. I don't even consider myself picky. I just want a normal average looking girl that I can just do stuff with such as hiking, travelling, craft beer drinking, and so on. Oh, well I'm out of luck because any girl attracted to black guys wants Mr. ex baller thug with no job that can smoke them out and be a bad boy fun guy every day. Having a job and actual productive hobbies seems to make these girl's vaginas drier than the Atacama desert. Is it just Tinder?

 

[Tictac]

Only women I have met so far have been crazy, *****ish,single mom, hit the wall, too fat, or a combination of them. I guess this is just Tinder lol. I don't even consider myself picky. I just want a normal average looking girl that I can just do stuff with such as hiking, travelling, craft beer drinking, and so on. Oh, well I'm out of luck because any girl attracted to black guys wants Mr. ex baller thug with no job that can smoke them out and be a bad boy fun guy every day. Having a job and actual productive hobbies seems to make these girl's vaginas drier than the Atacama desert. Is it just Tinder?

I know that 'Tenacity' deals with some of the same issues. And I've gotta say that I have no idea how to help with your kind of stuff. I was out of the dating pool for over 25 years and not into women significantly younger than me (though they seem interested enough in me for some reason). I looked at Tinder briefly. Not for me.

Other online sites any better for you?

 

[parkthebus]

You know those guys are uglier than you. They're getting ***** cos they're alpha and they know in themselves that women are attracted to them for it. Whether or not they should think of themselves as alpha is irrelevant. In their reality it's a fact, and if you believe something about yourself you will act accordingly. You obviously don't think of yourself as alpha, so you don't act so. Because you don't act so, others don't treat you so and then because they don't treat you so you don't think so. The cycle continues like this. Try self affirmations. Take time out of your day to keep telling yourself that you are what you want to be. Think positively, even if it's irrational, whenever you can. Eventually you'll start to believe it, and others will follow suit which will reinforce your belief and then you're in the alpha, rather than the beta, cycle.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

I know that 'Tenacity' deals with some of the same issues. And I've gotta say that I have no idea how to help with your kind of stuff. I was out of the dating pool for over 25 years and not into women significantly younger than me (though they seem interested enough in me for some reason). I looked at Tinder briefly. Not for me.

Other online sites any better for you?

I moved to American Mongolia also known as North Dakota, so the only dating app here that has people on is Tinder. I could try POF but I heard its bad.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

You know those guys are uglier than you. They're getting ***** cos they're alpha and they know in themselves that women are attracted to them for it. Whether or not they should think of themselves as alpha is irrelevant. In their reality it's a fact, and if you believe something about yourself you will act accordingly. You obviously don't think of yourself as alpha, so you don't act so. Because you don't act so, others don't treat you so and then because they don't treat you so you don't think so. The cycle continues like this. Try self affirmations. Take time out of your day to keep telling yourself that you are what you want to be. Think positively, even if it's irrational, whenever you can. Eventually you'll start to believe it, and others will follow suit which will reinforce your belief and then you're in the alpha, rather than the beta, cycle.

How do I meet a girl besides the internet?

 

[Tictac]

I moved to American Mongolia also known as North Dakota, so the only dating app here that has people on is Tinder. I could try POF but I heard its bad.

At least go look. I think it's free.

I get the North Dakota thing. Online dating pools are definitely going to be leaner in places with a lot less people around. Not for nothing, I was in the military for six years 'back in the day' and overseas a lot. For whatever reason, I couldn't get my head around hookers and ended up being a monk for most of six years. Some good stuff came out of that though. I learned that I don't need a woman to 'complete me'.

 

[parkthebus]

If you were looking for interaction opportunities you would find them, because they're everywhere. If you felt something good was going to happen every time you spoke to someone you'd start a conversation with anyone over anything. Example, I was on the train and there was a guy reading a star wars book. Negative thinker: I'll leave him alone because no one wants to be disturbed while they're reading. Positive thinker - this guys probably a star wars nerd, I be he'd like to talk about it. Lo and behold, he banged on to me for 10 minutes about star wars before he got off the train. You are quite clearly a negative thinker which is something you need to work on.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

At least go look. I think it's free.

I get the North Dakota thing. Online dating pools are definitely going to be leaner in places with a lot less people around. Not for nothing, I was in the military for six years 'back in the day' and overseas a lot. For whatever reason, I couldn't get my head around hookers and ended up being a monk for most of six years. Some good stuff came out of that though. I learned that I don't need a woman to 'complete me'.

I thought the exact same thing. I thought the girls here would be less corrupted by feminism and wanting a professional white collar man. Hell no, this state is worse than backwoods Tn when it comes to quality of women. These girls are either crazy feminists or alcoholics that only want losers in their lives. I've pretty much given up and trying to cope with monk mode until I'm able to find a job out of here.

 

[Tictac]

I thought the exact same thing. I thought the girls here would be less corrupted by feminism and wanting a professional white collar man. Hell no, this state is worse than backwoods Tn when it comes to quality of women. These girls are either crazy feminists or alcoholics that only want losers in their lives. I've pretty much given up and trying to cope with monk mode until I'm able to find a job out of here.

I won't tell you that 'monk mode' is fun. It can make you question everything. My time for that was long ago. Hang in there!

 

[bigneil]

The problem is that over the last 20 years women turned into men. Now they want the youngest, prettiest thing they can find, and are out trying to find one night stands with hotties at the bar, well into their 40's. This worked ok when their house kept going up in value, but now that they're a single mom living on credit cards, food stamps and a job at 7/11, they might revert to wanting men who have earning potential and good values.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

The problem is that over the last 20 years women turned into men. Now they want the youngest, prettiest thing they can find, and are out trying to find one night stands with hotties at the bar, well into their 40's. This worked ok when their house kept going up in value, but now that they're a single mom living on credit cards, food stamps and a job at 7/11, they might revert to wanting men who have earning potential and good values.

Lolz, something we both agree on. These women do this **** while their parents, friends, and government checkdad bail them out of life. In their 40s, they aren't so pretty anymore, those cute little babies are full grown and detriments to society, and their help from mommy,daddy, and friends have ceased.

 

[bigneil]

The only way to improve our physical appearance is to become healthier, which means eating better and getting the right amount of exercise and sunshine. Everyone can be beautiful if they reach their peak health potential, but for most that means a 40 day fast.

 

[MrWood]

If you are in a reasonably small town, to meet women, do or go somewhere often to the same place at the same time several times a week.
A coffeeshop after work, just go and sit with your coffee, read a book whatever. You might see someone also come in regularly, smile etc.
Make a casual comment, a smile etc, say to her "great day isnt it?" or "are you stalking me?" with a giggle...

 

[skinnyguy]

Don't feed the troll

 

[MrWiggles]

you are what you think you are

 

[Yewki]

Only women I have met so far have been crazy, *****ish,single mom, hit the wall, too fat, or a combination of them. I guess this is just Tinder lol. I don't even consider myself picky. I just want a normal average looking girl that I can just do stuff with such as hiking, travelling, craft beer drinking, and so on. Oh, well I'm out of luck because any girl attracted to black guys wants Mr. ex baller thug with no job that can smoke them out and be a bad boy fun guy every day. Having a job and actual productive hobbies seems to make these girl's vaginas drier than the Atacama desert. Is it just Tinder?

Girls that you meet on Tinder and OLD are generally shallow bottom of the barrel people. The online system is also stacked against guys. You're basically just digging through sh*t.

Don't expect to find anything good on Tinder. If you do, cool. But don't rely on it.

Meet girls in real life. Get out more and start going to new places in your town