How old is too old for never having a gf before? And being envious of those who do have a gf.

[bigneil]

I didn't have my first real girlfriend until I was almost 23. Looking back, she was the hottest girl I ever dated, and the one I had the most sex with. She was 18 at the time. I probably would have married her if we lived a generation before, but she was the standard early 1990's bisexual beauty. We spoke last year, 22 years later, and both ended the call with "I love you".

And here's a strange twist - I wrote this on the 23 year anniversary of our first date (May 9). One of my best friends (now deceased) called me on a Friday night and told me to get over to the house party he was at, which is how I met her. We connected right away. Everything I said made her laugh. It's more than half my life now. Looking back to 1993, the worst mistake I made was getting her to go on the pill. It changed her. She became this out of control, raging monster. She cheated on me within a month and then things were never the same. Neither of us ever did have children either. Meanwhile, I was too critical of her, and she was still getting more beautiful, peaking around age 20, eventually becoming too hot to handle. I was corrupted by Playboy magazine, thinking girls were really supposed to be that hot. Porn has the same effect on people today.

 

[DongWong]

Why would you be jealous over guys who have gfs.

Think about it?? There stuck with one chick while you have the option of pursuing any girl you want.

Doing whatever you want, whenever you wanted.

Yeah... I guess you right. It's hard to think like that when you're striking out and need that quick fix. I felt a little envious because I know I'm definitely more than capable of obtaining a gf but sometimes I just lose that confidence due to seeing guys that I know put little to no effort into themselves and into getting a girl while I invested quite some time and accumulated some experience and lots of rejections. But gotta keep hustlin'!

 

[DongWong]

Don't worry about it, and travel somewhere new, the girls in your region might not be into your specific race.

What are the chances of all the girls in my region not be into my specific race? Have you experienced this before?

 

[DongWong]

And here's a strange twist - I wrote this on the 23 year anniversary of our first date (May 9). One of my best friends (now deceased) called me on a Friday night and told me to get over to the house party he was at, which is how I met her. We connected right away. Everything I said made her laugh. It's more than half my life now. Looking back to 1993, the worst mistake I made was getting her to go on the pill. It changed her. She became this out of control, raging monster. She cheated on me within a month and then things were never the same. Neither of us ever did have children either. Meanwhile, I was too critical of her, and she was still getting more beautiful, peaking around age 20, eventually becoming too hot to handle. I was corrupted by Playboy magazine, thinking girls were really supposed to be that hot. Porn has the same effect on people today.

I am sorry you lost your friend, and sorry what happened to your relationship. Well nowadays, you hop on Instagram or go outside, you really do see a lot of hot girls. It's hard not to think that, also an influx of guys putting women on the pedestal which in turn makes it much harder for men to date. Even ugly women are put on pedestals these days as well, so the game is kinda a landslide. I agree that we shouldn't place a fantasy on the women we desire, but we should still be able to acknowledge beauty and not put them on a pedestal. I know what I want and what I don't want. And I definetly don't want 5's and below. Sometimes it's not always about the looks, but I would definitely like someone to put some effort in themselves, such as a good personality and someone who takes care of themselves(I.e., excercise).

 

[MrWood]

What are the chances of all the girls in my region not be into my specific race? Have you experienced this before?

my observations:

In Russia the girls will not date outside their race (this also applies to most former USSR states)
In Scandivavia, only ugly/fat girls date outside their race, asians might have a small chance with a hottie
In most of non former USSR states in Europe, good looking "normal" black guys have a chance outside their race

 

[LiveFreeX]

What are the chances of all the girls in my region not be into my specific race? Have you experienced this before?

yep I live in Canada bro.