Advice required, have an SJW level 10 and several cronies to deal with.

[LiveFreeX]

At work I get so pissed off that I actually have to take 'sick' leave to stop from busting someones skull open. I have several people I work with, approximately 28, 5 of which are huge SJW retards. They are continually berating me everyday and I've just about had enough to a point where I'm sort of afraid of losing it and going to jail. I have to be with these people every other week for at least 10 hours per day in a classroom type setting. I no longer care about keeping my job, two are warpigs (obese), 3 are somewhat skinny, all are White Knights, all are male. If I speak to them as truthfully as they do with me there will be violence, no doubt, a lot of it. I'm wondering if this is worth a trip to the jail for.

How to handle this situation? I have 30 days left before I can leave or I will incur a 3000 dollar penalty. 15 of those days must be spent with these unbearable retards. I am fully capable of handling myself and I'm quite sure that they are all talk and no action.

 

[ubercat]

Mate you're going to have to suck it up. If idiots could change they wouldn't be idiots. Just try and get past it and connect with them as people everybody's got something in their life that they know a lot about and love to talk

 

[logicallefty]

Think before speaking every word, and speak as little as possible. Count the days till you are out.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Good advice both... problem is trying to talk to people you would sooner kick off a bridge. After a long walk with my wife we both agreed to just sit through it and take an extra few sick days here and there. I was so angry yesterday, I had a hard time breathing.

Not gonna kill myself for these fvcktards.

 

[guru1000]

If people can get you this riled up, how are you going to handle life's punches?

Remain unaffected. Remember, their opinions and yours are just that, opinions. Don't be so rigid. Be like water; formless, shapeless, assuming the identity of, but not thinking like (difference in form), your subjects. This makes you a very dangerous man.

 

[LiveFreeX]

If people can get you this riled up, how are you going to handle life's punches?

Usually I would punch back.

 

[Çharismo]

I want you to take a step back and really reflect on this situation and I mean reeeeeeally think about all this. You are allowing other people to disrupt your internal locus of control. (there is an external locus of control as well which I won't get into). Your entire reality is being effected by OTHER people. There snide remarks, criticisms, comments....etc are getting under your skin. You are becoming mentally & emotionally unstable. Look how much of your power you have handed over to these people. Realize how much you are enabling them to rile you up. Are you seeing what I'm trying to get you to realize?. Next time when you are in a situation like this I want you to make a very deliberate, conscious and calculated effort to catch yourself getting upset. What I want you to do is to just stop... pause, and realize that there words have no real effect on you. It's just some bull$hit noise. A lot of the time when a person gets disrespected usually it's the ego that becomes threatened. "How dare YOU disrespect/berate/talk down...etc to ME?" is the underlying thought that arises. "ME" signifying some importance or that I am "special" in a sense.

I understand that there are certain codes of conduct that are expected (that's the key word) out of people but reality is far from that especially in the work-place. They are exposing a fundamental weakness in you which you need to confront. Master & control your emotions...if not you will end up doing something you will regret. Just by reading your posts I can tell that there is an immaturity that needs to be rooted out. There are certain diplomatic skills you need to develop and you have to be able to respond properly to people and handle stressful situations. Use this as a way to develop and work on your weak areas and most of all DO NOT TAKE ANY OF THIS PERSONALLY!!!!!!!!! because they are the ones that are actually miserable and projecting (it's a self-defense mechanism) that on you.

If you can learn to handle and deal with people like this you will go a long way in being successful because you will be tested in many ways by tons of people throughout your life. Don't back down and keep moving forward.

Your awesome man!!!!!

(P.S:- can explain me what an SJW is ?!?!)

 

[LiveFreeX]

Thank you, very constructive, I will look into this further.

SJW (Social Justice Warrior) its a mix of white knight, mangina and feminist.

(The guy who throws the first punch after the big guy slaps her)

Its the evolved form of the male feminist mangina and it makes up over 98% of Canadian males.

 

[Maximus Rex]

What exactly are they doing to piss you off?

P.S:- can explain me what an SJW is ?!?!)

Social justice warrior" (commonly abbreviated "SJW") is a pejorative term for an individual promoting socially progressive views, including advocacy for women's rights and civil rights.The phrase originated as a laudatory term for people engaged in social justice.

 

[Tenacity]

You are allowing other people to disrupt your internal locus of control. (there is an external locus of control as well which I won't get into). Your entire reality is being effected by OTHER people. There snide remarks, criticisms, comments....etc are getting under your skin. You are becoming mentally & emotionally unstable.

Next time when you are in a situation like this I want you to make a very deliberate, conscious and calculated effort to catch yourself getting upset. What I want you to do is to just stop... pause, and realize that there words have no real effect on you. It's just some bull$hit noise.

Use this as a way to develop and work on your weak areas and most of all DO NOT TAKE ANY OF THIS PERSONALLY!!!!!!!!! because they are the ones that are actually miserable and projecting (it's a self-defense mechanism) that on you.)

I 100% agree with you in theory, but that's just about where it ends.....in theory. You see guys here in the Manosphere love to create these ideal cartoon characters, that HUMAN BEINGS need to try and live up to and mimic.

Apparently now, the expectations are of a guy to go to work, get harassed all fvcking day at work by other staff members, but somehow remain calm, focused and never lose his "internal locus" of control. Lol.

Here's what LiveFree should actually do:

- Confront the 5 guys and let them know that their remarks and comments are pissing him off.

- Disclose that their remarks and comments are distracting as hell from his work

- Ask them WTF their problem is

Try to resolve the situation with the 5 guys first, if that doesn't work, then go to a higher supervisor and discuss the situation after hours and make a point that their harassment is somehow stopping you from your work performance. Key in on how it's hindering work performance because technically, that's ALL that matters.

But ignoring this and becoming some Sosuave created "cartoon character" that never gets upset, is always cool, is always smooth, and (insert whatever other type of BS here) is just complete B.S. in my opinion. For one, it's going to be very HARD for you to do this and I don't even believe it's POSSIBLE for ANY HUMAN BEING to do this shyt. Then secondly, I think by ignoring it you are showing WEAKNESS to them for not confronting them on their B.S., which will not just continue the actions but eventually make them worse.

 

[bigneil]

Social justice warrior" (commonly abbreviated "SJW") is a pejorative term for an individual promoting socially progressive views, including advocacy for women's rights and civil rights.The phrase originated as a laudatory term for people engaged in social justice.

Or, if you're not a Lesbian Librarian working for NPR:

Social Justice Warrior (i.e., Socialist, i.e., someone who hates freedom) is also known as a Cry Bully (a conjunction of Crybaby and Bully, as they meld both tactics to shout down opponents and defend what Steven Crowder calls "The Right to Be a Pvssy"). The modern Brownshirts. The #2 threat to freedom among Third Wave Feminism and The Perpetually Offended.

cry bully
Someone who uses the perceived righteousness of a social justice cause as a pretext to abuse others, and then plays the victim when confronted about that abuse.

"I've never met a social justice warrior, victicrat, or practitioner of identity politics who wasn't a cry bully."

 

[Tictac]

I 100% agree with you in theory, but that's just about where it ends.....in theory. You see guys here in the Manosphere love to create these ideal cartoon characters, that HUMAN BEINGS need to try and live up to and mimic.

Apparently now, the expectations are of a guy to go to work, get harassed all fvcking day at work by other staff members, but somehow remain calm, focused and never lose his "internal locus" of control. Lol.

Here's what LiveFree should actually do:

- Confront the 5 guys and let them know that their remarks and comments are pissing him off.

- Disclose that their remarks and comments are distracting as hell from his work

- Ask them WTF their problem is

Try to resolve the situation with the 5 guys first, if that doesn't work, then go to a higher supervisor and discuss the situation after hours and make a point that their harassment is somehow stopping you from your work performance. Key in on how it's hindering work performance because technically, that's ALL that matters.

But ignoring this and becoming some Sosuave created "cartoon character" that never gets upset, is always cool, is always smooth, and (insert whatever other type of BS here) is just complete B.S. in my opinion. For one, it's going to be very HARD for you to do this and I don't even believe it's POSSIBLE for ANY HUMAN BEING to do this shyt. Then secondly, I think by ignoring it you are showing WEAKNESS to them for not confronting them on their B.S., which will not just continue the actions but eventually make them worse.

You like your 'cartoon'. Its no better than anyone else's. But then, your cartoon has you pretending that you are going to go postal and beat up women which is the ultimate expression of you making and holding yourself powerless and impotent.

Enjoy your cartoon.

 

[phillies]

I understand. I work in a convenience store/ drug store. The others that are my peers are all female except one male who's a literal f@ggot with hiv.

Stop exposing your power level and understand you'll be ostracized of you do so. There's manginas at my work and I avoid the topic with them.

It's not your job to change the world. It's not possible so don't try.

I'm assuming you brought up red pill theory?

 

[phillies]

What exactly are they doing to piss you off?



Social justice warrior" (commonly abbreviated "SJW") is a pejorative term for an individual promoting socially progressive views, including advocacy for women's rights and civil rights.The phrase originated as a laudatory term for people engaged in social justice.

 

[Tenacity]

You like your 'cartoon'.

I have no such cartoon. The Manosphere promotes cartoons like the Alpha Male, The Don Juan, and all of these other "ideals" that usually have NO human touch to them. It's just not human to expect a guy to go to work, get harassed all day by fellow employees, and just "ignore it". It's one thing for guys to play around with each other, but if you are being fvcking harassed all day and don't say shyt, that makes others think you are weak in the REAL world. I know it doesn't work that way in the cartoon Manosphere world though.

Just like when everytime a guy has an "issue" with women, the Manosphere's default response is "go workout". Go workout? Working out is important, but if someone is having issues attracting women, he needs to look at the bigger picture that includes not just working out....but how his looks are, personality is, his financial structure, how many women he's exposing himself to weekly, etc.

A lot of the Manosphere is "cartoonish" because you have a lot of anonymous/losers on here with no actual real life field experience who promote their KBJ theories. It's a sad truth, but it is the truth.

 

[Tictac]

if you are being fvcking harassed all day and don't say shyt, that makes others think you are weak in the REAL world.

This is your cartoon.

Enjoy it.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Dude has never specifically stated what the issue is at his job. All we know is dude is whinin' cryin' and p*ckin' a b*tch because people at his job don't hold the same political ideology as he does.

 

[Tenacity]

Dude has never specifically stated what the issue is at his job. All we know is dude is whinin' cryin' and p*ckin' a b*tch because people at his job don't hold the same political ideology as he does.

He did state it:

I have several people I work with, approximately 28, 5 of which are huge SJW retards. They are continually berating me everyday and I've just about had enough to a point where I'm sort of afraid of losing it and going to jail. I have to be with these people every other week for at least 10 hours per day in a classroom type setting....

He has people at his job who are harassing the hell out of him and he's getting tired of it. People like TicTac and Charismo promote that he should have this super-human level of tolerance to not get angry, upset, or disturbed by the situation at all.....YET....people like TicTac can't even practice said super-human level of tolerance on a damn discussion board because the moderators have had to close (insert a very high number here) threads due to TicTac going back and forth with people using 5th grade insults.

 

[Tictac]

He did state it:



He has people at his job who are harassing the hell out of him and he's getting tired of it. People like TicTac and Charismo promote that he should have this super-human level of tolerance to not get angry, upset, or disturbed by the situation at all.....YET....people like TicTac can't even practice said super-human level of tolerance on a damn discussion board because the moderators have had to close (insert a very high number here) threads due to TicTac going back and forth with people using 5th grade insults.

When dealing with a fifth grade mentality like yours, nothing else much matters. You never got out of the schoolyard.

"Super-human" heh. Go beat on some women superman.

 

[Tenacity]

When dealing with a fifth grade mentality like yours, nothing else much matters.

"Super-human" heh. Go beat on some women superman.

Case in point.

This is the same guy who is telling LiveFree that the large block of people at his work who are harassing the hell out of him (to his face, not online but to his FACE), he should be able to just "get over it" and not get angry, throw back insults, etc.

Yet, this 60-year-old plus guy can't practice the same ideology on a discussion board. Plus now he's claiming I beat on women when I've never touched a woman in such a manner.

The amount of disingenuous people on this forum is astonishing.