Why do ALL promiscuous females, strippers, escorts, party sluts etc. need drugs & alcohol?

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I swear I have NEVER MET ONE wh0reish female that doesn't abuse drugs or needs the aid of a foreign substance in order to get horny and have sex. Every last one night stand or hookup I ever encountered needed to involve alcohol, marijuana, ecstasy or some other ****. Every escort and stripper I interacted with were heavy smokers, drinkers and relied on cocaine and alcohol to make their line of work more tolerable. Porn stars are the exact same way. If a woman is a smoker, drinker or a druggie (and has tattoos to go with that) she has no respect for her body and I can be 100% certain that she's had more sex partners than a professional sports league. It just goes with the territory.

The reason why this pisses me off is because I hate drugs, alcohol and can't tolerate cigarette/marijuana smoke. In social events I'm looked at as an oddball for refusing to do any of it especially when people try to peer pressure me and I stand my ground. I feel like this intolerance to substance abuse inhibits my ability to get sex. I can legitimately enjoy myself without having to do any of it. I get a natural high off life itself and I think sex is one of the greatest pleasures life has to offer. Nothing can really compete with it. Sex and the presence of a decent female is more than enough to put me on cloud 9 and keep me there but it kinda sucks that not only do I have to behave like a clown in order to get it but I also need to resort to drugs and alcohol in order to fit in.

The only conclusion I can come up with is that promiscuity is NOT the natural state of women. Never has and never will be. The substance abuse is nothing more than an attempt to drown out the self hate, shame and disgust in themselves and has nothing (zero) to do with "the patriarchy". I think I'd be better off abstaining considering all the unknown diseases that are getting passed around. This is getting to be really stupid. Any suggestions? Is there a such thing as girls that are "DTF" that don't need to put **** into their bodies (and expect me to do the same)?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I swear I have NEVER MET ONE wh0reish female that doesn't abuse drugs or needs the aid of a foreign substance in order to get horny and have sex. Every last one night stand or hookup I ever encountered needed to involve alcohol, marijuana, ecstasy or some other ****. Every escort and stripper I interacted with were heavy smokers, drinkers and relied on cocaine and alcohol to make their line of work more tolerable. Porn stars are the exact same way. If a woman is a smoker, drinker or a druggie (and has tattoos to go with that) she has no respect for her body and I can be 100% certain that she's had more sex partners than a professional sports league. It just goes with the territory.

The reason why this pisses me off is because I hate drugs, alcohol and can't tolerate cigarette/marijuana smoke. In social events I'm looked at as an oddball for refusing to do any of it especially when people try to peer pressure me and I stand my ground. I feel like this intolerance to substance abuse inhibits my ability to get sex. I can legitimately enjoy myself without having to do any of it. I get a natural high off life itself and I think sex is one of the greatest pleasures life has to offer. Nothing can really compete with it. Sex and the presence of a decent female is more than enough to put me on cloud 9 and keep me there but it kinda sucks that not only do I have to behave like a clown in order to get it but I also need to resort to drugs and alcohol in order to fit in.

The only conclusion I can come up with is that promiscuity is NOT the natural state of women. Never has and never will be. The substance abuse is nothing more than an attempt to drown out the self hate, shame and disgust in themselves and has nothing (zero) to do with "the patriarchy". I think I'd be better off abstaining considering all the unknown diseases that are getting passed around. This is getting to be really stupid. Any suggestions? Is there a such thing as girls that are "DTF" that don't need to put **** into their bodies (and expect me to do the same)?

Theyre following a crowd. I knew woman who had great lust and no drugs tho... But yeah those types you mentioned are following a crowd.

 

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Theyre following a crowd. I knew woman who had great lust and no drugs tho... But yeah those types you mentioned are following a crowd.

For me a woman with great lust and no drugs is like those nymphomaniacal women (with an equal or greater sex drive to her male partner) that some guys on the internet speak of but I can't ever seem to find in real life. It must be the patriarchy Go figure.

But seriously. Maybe I should try an entirely different social setting. Like a bookstore or something. How do you pick up girls getting out of yoga classes? My assumption is that if she's taking care of herself she won't be into all the drugs, drinking, partying and won't be a disease ridden slut. Am I right to jump to this conclusion?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

For me a woman with great lust and no drugs is like those nymphomaniacal women (with an equal or greater sex drive to her male partner) that some guys on the internet speak of but I can't ever seem to find in real life. It must be the patriarchy Go figure.

But seriously. Maybe I should try an entirely different social setting. Like a bookstore or something. How do you pick up girls getting out of yoga classes? My assumption is that if she's taking care of herself she won't be into all the drugs, drinking, partying and won't be a disease ridden slut. Am I right to jump to this conclusion?

A lot of people party or at least went thru a phase of it. Maybe not be so judgemental. But someone seriously into health will be less likely to be into partying and drugs.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I can legitimately enjoy myself without having to do any of it. I get a natural high off life itself and I think sex is one of the greatest pleasures life has to offer.

I choose not to do drugs, drink alcohol or smoke. I think the high from truly connected sex can beat out all of those. That's my preference.

The only conclusion I can come up with is that promiscuity is NOT the natural state of women.

I know it's not my natural state. I know it is not the natural state for most women I know. For those that are promiscuous, I suspect it 99.9% or more happens under the influence of some substance or a feeling of peer/social pressure.

Is there a such thing as girls that are "DTF" that don't need to put **** into their bodies (and expect me to do the same)?

Yes! Such women may be uncommon but we exist and we want it that way just as much as you do.

For me a woman with great lust and no drugs is like those nymphomaniacal women (with an equal or greater sex drive to her male partner) that some guys on the internet speak of but I can't ever seem to find in real life.

Don't give up. Such women do exist.

Maybe I should try an entirely different social setting. Like a bookstore or something. How do you pick up girls getting out of yoga classes? My assumption is that if she's taking care of herself she won't be into all the drugs, drinking, partying and won't be a disease ridden slut. Am I right to jump to this conclusion?

A lot of men, including high caliber athletes, take yoga classes these days. Yoga classes can be filled with with very fit and naturally beautiful women. There can be some serious sexual vibes and glances as a good class brings one even more into their body and themselves. People can feel super sexy in their body when leaving yoga. Post yoga could be a great time to immediate escalate into hot and sweaty sex or if you want bypass the yoga sweat but tap the sexual vibe, escalate straight into a mutual shower with sex, at your house or hers.

 

[bigneil]

Why do I need drugs and alcohol?

 

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A lot of people party or at least went thru a phase of it. Maybe not be so judgemental. But someone seriously into health will be less likely to be into partying and drugs.

But it's okay to judge those that refuse to partake in self harm? Awesome. Sluts must really hate themselves if they're willing to go through those lengths.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

But it's okay to judge those that refuse to partake in self harm? Awesome. Sluts must really hate themselves if they're willing to go through those lengths.

Well you can play a game, where you hold a drink and the same drink during the party, just drink off that one drink.

 

[bigneil]

There are generally two kinds of hot women: those who have no self control (who will do any drugs, etc), and those who have extreme self control (at least in some ways, such as not drinking or doing drugs). Choose the latter.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

The only conclusion I can come up with is that promiscuity is NOT the natural state of women. Never has and never will be.

This is the missing piece of the puzzle most guys DO NOT WANT to understand. Eggs vs. sperm, female involvement in raising kids vs. male involvement, ALL POINT to women being GENETICALLY PREDISPOSED to NOT sleep around.

And guys want to bang a girl within a few hours / days and then wonder why she's messed up.

IRREGARDLESS OF SOCIAL CONDITIONING girls that sleep with a guy without needing much convincing have issues.

Unfortunately, that seems to be the ONLY CRITERIA most guys have with women, which virtually GUARANTEE heartache (unless they're ONLY looking for quick hits).

Hitting it quick AND a decent long term relationship with a stable woman are rarely compatible.

 

[dutchmaster]

This is the missing piece of the puzzle most guys DO NOT WANT to understand. Eggs vs. sperm, female involvement in raising kids vs. male involvement, ALL POINT to women being GENETICALLY PREDISPOSED to NOT sleep around.

And guys want to bang a girl within a few hours / days and then wonder why she's messed up.

IRREGARDLESS OF SOCIAL CONDITIONING girls that sleep with a guy without needing much convincing have issues.

Unfortunately, that seems to be the ONLY CRITERIA most guys have with women, which virtually GUARANTEE heartache (unless they're ONLY looking for quick hits).

Hitting it quick AND a decent long term relationship with a stable woman are rarely compatible.

There's the answer to your question OP

 

[Maximus Rex]

Because they usually came from f*cked up backgrounds and getting high is one of the things that actually makes them feel good.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Because they are idiots. The most concise and correct answer you will getttt!!

 

[Asmodeus]

I know why... It has to do with psychology. Most of them that I have met are slightly mentally ill. Most of the escorts, sluts, ect have some degree of Cluster B. I know this for a fact because these are the type of women I go after and surround myself with. Yes, I admit to mostly surrounding myself with sluts and skanks. Anyway, frequently they have reduced impulse control as seen as a main Cluter B trait. Think about it, sluts and escorts are often damaged and have a bit of a warped perception of things. Most "sluts" I have met have some degree of BPD (as it is associated with increased sexuality and increased number of partners), histrionic personality (associated with wanting to always be the center of attention making them more likely to engae in sex simply for the feeling of being desired and having that attention), ect.

I can try to describe it to you... But I find that people with Cluster B are bored all the time, an intense boredom that I can say is a kind of ADHD but increased tenfold. There is a desire to find any excitement, drama, chaos, ect that one who is like this can find which in part explains a lot of the behavior. Also with reduced impluse control one is more likely to not be inhibited in engaging in drugs and alcohol and is more likely to become addicted.

I actually like Cluster B women... They are the only ones I can relate to... I seem to attract this type too.

 

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Girls just wanna have fun

 

[Tictac]

I've had more than a few first night lays, none of them with drug or alcohol addled women or BPD, etc. (should be renamed 'SoSuave Syndrome for the number of guys whining about it).

I'd like to attribute it to my good looks and strong game and I hope that's part of it but not near all. Draw women into the moment and you'll be surprised what happens sometimes.

 

[Rainman4707]

I've came across good looking women online that are dtf. Some of them, I needed to game a little.

 

[phillies]

This is the missing piece of the puzzle most guys DO NOT WANT to understand. Eggs vs. sperm, female involvement in raising kids vs. male involvement, ALL POINT to women being GENETICALLY PREDISPOSED to NOT sleep around.

And guys want to bang a girl within a few hours / days and then wonder why she's messed up.

IRREGARDLESS OF SOCIAL CONDITIONING girls that sleep with a guy without needing much convincing have issues.

Unfortunately, that seems to be the ONLY CRITERIA most guys have with women, which virtually GUARANTEE heartache (unless they're ONLY looking for quick hits).

Hitting it quick AND a decent long term relationship with a stable woman are rarely compatible.

Irregardless is not a word. Post is as spot on though.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Irregardless is not a word.

Apparently not.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/irregardless

Irregardless originated in dialectal American speech in the early 20th century. Its fairly widespread use in speech called it to the attention of usage commentators as early as 1927. The most frequently repeated remark about it is that “there is no such word.” There is such a word, however. It is still used primarily in speech, although it can be found from time to time in edited prose. Its reputation has not risen over the years, and it is still a long way from general acceptance. Use regardless instead.

But I appear to be in good company.

Examples of irregardless in a sentence

1. I told them that irregardless of what you read in books, they's some members of the theatrical profession that occasionally visits the place where they sleep. —Ring Lardner, The Big Town, 1921
   

 

[phillies]

Apparently not.

http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/irregardless



But I appear to be in good company.

Well your I usually only hear this word used in Ebonics.