Need opinions on this girl - strange situation.

[dude99]

Alright, reading all of that, I am now seriously reconsidering this.

I admit there have been some warning signs that I have chosen to push aside (she mentioned suicide in passing again, although I don't think she's serious in any way) as I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. I just figured she was young and at a difficult stage of her life... and yes I was attracted and very intrigued by her.

What are the chances of her 'evening out' and maturing a bit over the next few years, as she gets her life and purpose together?

I feel like she's already quite attached and infatuated.

I will back off.

Take note in this. When people mention suicide, most have no intentions of actually doing it. It's nothing but a power play to manipulate you emotional. The ones who actually do attempt suicide most people don't see it coming.

The chances of a bi polar or narcissist or sociopath leveling out are zero. They are bad code. Nothing more.

She will attatch herself to you if she feels she can use you.

 

[mac j]

Take note in this. When people mention suicide, most have no intentions of actually doing it. It's nothing but a power play to manipulate you emotional. The ones who actually do attempt suicide most people don't see it coming.

The chances of a bi polar or narcissist or sociopath leveling out are zero. They are bad code. Nothing more.

She will attatch herself to you if she feels she can use you.

I have tried to be fair with my description and to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Totally agree with you about the suicide thing though. But this girl did actually attempt it a year or two ago, this I know to be true. Not sure if that makes it any worse or not. She was young.

Hope I've had a lucky escape.

 

[dude99]

I have tried to be fair with my description and to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Totally agree with you about the suicide thing though. But this girl did actually attempt it a year or two ago, this I know to be true. Not sure if that makes it any worse or not. She was young.

Hope I've had a lucky escape.

She actually did attempt it? Or she told you she did? Because the sociopath will pretend to or tell you they attempted to, ro keep you emotionally off guard and all along you haven't the foggiest clue they are playing you.

 

[mac j]

You said she blocked you and left? Good for you, that was the best outcome you can hope for. I told you she was going to dispose of you at some point. I also told you she would make sure you felt the blame for it, and that you were the one creating the problems. You were giving resistance, and not giving in... Thus she tosses you to the side, as you are not worth it. In fact, even if she became completely self-aware and understanding, then she will still not be able to love you. She can have lust, infatuation, but never actual love... Just like @BeExcellent said, she can experience the honeymoon stage but nothing past it.

Really appreciate all your insight, Asmodeus. What you have said has been accurate so far. However, she didn't really 'blame' me as much as it is the truth. She did try and she did care more.

She actually did attempt it? Or she told you she did? Because the sociopath will pretend to or tell you they attempted to, ro keep you emotionally off guard and all along you haven't the foggiest clue they are playing you.

She had a genuine attempt. Pills. Stomach pumped. Someone else also confirmed it happened. Although she said she did it for attention, her parents weren't listening to her etc. Does that change anything? She had come so far since then and I don't think there's a danger of her trying it again, but she was really an all or nothing kind of person.

Last I heard her parents were separating.

 

[dude99]

Really appreciate all your insight, Asmodeus. What you have said has been accurate so far. However, she didn't really 'blame' me as much as it is the truth. She did try and she did care more.



She had a genuine attempt. Pills. Stomach pumped. Someone else also confirmed it happened. Although she said she did it for attention, her parents weren't listening to her etc. Does that change anything? She had come so far since then and I don't think there's a danger of her trying it again, but she was really an all or nothing kind of person.

Last I heard her parents were separating.

The fact she admitted she did it for attention only confirms 100% beyond any doubt what I've been saying