This hot psycho depressed girl keeps contacting me

Dhoulmagus

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This girl messaged me on Tinder first and eventually got my number from it. I know, it sounds weird doesn't it lol. She got my snapchat and always bugged for pictures of me and my body because she thought I was attracted. The more I got to know her the more I realized how screwed up this girl was in the head. I asked her out that weekend and she ended up flaking because she had really bad anxiety and I was like okay. Next weekend, same **** so I just stopped texting her lol. Later, she texted me asking what's up and I just casually responded to her. She told me that she's depressed and has contemplated suicide like twice this week and that she is unable to meet somebody at this time because of her mental state. I've never been in this situation before, should I just tell her to screw off?
 

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Text her the suicide prevention hotline number, for her area. Nothing else. (Don't state whose number it is. Let her call it to find out.) Then go NC.

If she wants help, they can help her. If she doesn't, that's her choice. She needs professional help, not a hook up.
 
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Don't stick your wiener in crazy. She's already told you she's a nutjob. Don't be stupid.
 

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She is not suicidal. She has fears of abandonment and rejection so she is using the suicidal card to manipulate you into staying with her. I have seen this before in women like her.
You do not want to keep talking with her, she will only sap you for empathy. Go no contact.
 

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She wants you to be her emotional support. She's an attention whorve. If that's the case the world would be better off without her. Attention whorves are cancer.
 

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She is not suicidal. She has fears of abandonment and rejection so she is using the suicidal card to manipulate you into staying with her. I have seen this before in women like her.
You do not want to keep talking with her, she will only sap you for empathy. Go no contact.
I don't know what I find less appealing, pretending to be suicidal or actually being suicidal.

If actually suicidal, at least they're honest and not just manipulating you. They might not be around for long, but... honesty is a good quality. So there's that.
 

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you can't close the deal with a crazy off tinder?

dam bro
 

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She texted me yesterday and I got her to send me nudes and ****. Probably will bang her this weekend.
 

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I was right, I said it first. She is a borderline just using the suicide card to keep you around by appealing to your sympathy.
Ok, go ahead and bang her so long as you are ready to deal with her BS. I have messed with enough borderline women, they do not affect me. Just remember, her emotional outbursts are just methods of exerting control over you. Borderline women hate losing control, even a little bit... They have a deep fear of rejection. However, you can use that fear against her and play her like a fiddle. You can feed her the insecurities she has. When she devalues you devalue her, they have black and white thinking on more than just others, they also view themselves in extremes. You can easily toy around with them, mess with their self esteem and have them literally do whatever you want... Borderline women are not as hard to deal with as most people say they are. You just have to be a little coldhearted...
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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