I always get numberz and text fast

[_sideways_]

I get info from beautiful girls and text the same day, next day....why is this not working for me?

Strike while the iron is hot right?

 

[Tictac]

Tryin' too hard. Relax.

 

[_sideways_]

How is it try hard when we all wake up to our phones....is this earth so weird about such things that I'm like an E-Hippy

 

[Yewki]

How is it try hard

Because your hamster is spinning trying to figure it out.

Try not texting for 2 or 3 days. There's no need to immediately text. Are you intentionally trying to appear like you don't have much going on?

 

[_sideways_]

I just like the girl...I'm actually busy most days, what with work, gym, and going out.
I still don't buy that if you text right away you're some loser.
If anything, I'm more pimp cuz if I don't get a reply I'm on to the next and there's a bajillion hottie's out there and only one me.

 

[Yewki]

I still don't buy that if you text right away you're some loser.

This is like saying if you dress poorly that doesn't mean you're a loser. Sure. But, she's more likely to think you are. Present yourself better.

If anything, I'm more pimp cuz if I don't get a reply I'm on to the next and there's a bajillion hottie's out there and only one me.

You're so pimp that you have to ask, "why is this not working for me?"

 

[RangerMIke]

Strike while the iron is hot right?

Nope.... Many make this mistake. If a woman likes you, making her wait actually helps you, because it makes her wonder why you haven't reached out. The more she thinks about you the more interested she becomes. Attraction = curiosity.... if you don't give her a reason to be curious you will not be interesting.

If she doesn't like you it doesn't matter what you do. There is no objective action you can take that will change her mind. You MUST pass the basic attraction test otherwise you don't have a chance.

 

[_sideways_]

This is like saying if you dress poorly that doesn't mean you're a loser. Sure. But, she's more likely to think you are. Present yourself better.



You're so pimp that you have to ask, "why is this not working for me?"

I'm still pimp in a manner of way that I can got get new numbers, different chicks who won't think that if a cool guy she had a 50 minute conversation with is all of a sudden unworthy of her moving her thumbs on a gadget that is forever in her hands.

 

[_sideways_]

Nope.... Many make this mistake. If a woman likes you, making her wait actually helps you, because it makes her wonder why you haven't reached out. The more she thinks about you the more interested she becomes. Attraction = curiosity.... if you don't give her a reason to be curious you will not be interesting.

If she doesn't like you it doesn't matter what you do. There is no objective action you can take that will change her mind. You MUST pass the basic attraction test otherwise you don't have a chance.

Is that like saying guys have to covertly hide their wants and needs at first and go along with giving her curiosity feelings before anything happens. Cuz it seems like chasing her emotionally and intellectually. Maybe its called playing the game, but time is money my friend and I won't be here tomorrow. Maybe none of us will.
So if I'm eliminating chicks that will give me some type of allowance with her time or affection, or small moves of thumbs on her little gadget then maybe she's the one who's got the world upside down and sideways.

 

[_sideways_]

I'm coming at it from a genuine standpoint. Cards on the table, I'm a cool dude, no games...
Perhaps I'm an old soul and you guys are talking about today's chicks who want what the media tells them they want.
Its all good regardless cuz the cool ones stand out easier.

 

[RangerMIke]

Is that like saying guys have to covertly hide their wants and needs at first and go along with giving her curiosity feelings before anything happens. Cuz it seems like chasing her emotionally and intellectually. Maybe its called playing the game, but time is money my friend and I won't be here tomorrow. Maybe none of us will.
So if I'm eliminating chicks that will give me some type of allowance with her time or affection, or small moves of thumbs on her little gadget then maybe she's the one who's got the world upside down and sideways.

I'm not saying you should not text her right away. If that is what you want to do then go ahead and be congruent with your actions. All I am saying is the "if" you do this you are not really helping yourself.

What many guys don't get is that NOTHING happens if she is not initially attracted to you. There is NOTHING you can do or say that changes this. If after 20 seconds she decides you are not a guy that she would fvck, you have ZERO change of changing this. SO whether or not you call her now or in a week will not change that.

BUT if you are patient and wait then she is not a priority to you and this makes you more attractive. If you make it too easy for her you are boring.

 

[_sideways_]

So not all women are like this as you describe. I mean, I know we are swimming in a pool of hb5s but one can still be congruent in trying to find one that doesn't care that texting fast kills her libido or lessens my worth.

I understand we live in a world that values such things, but let's be real. Efficient texting is efficient.
Playing cat and mouse games is playing.

In a sense I like what you wrote above but that's great advice for a girl who's not so great.

Or maybe its all of them and I'm qualifying them, if they don't take 2 seconds or think that I'm desperate off such a little thing then I'm not going to ever put up with her if we happen to last a year cuz she's full of insignificant stuff that's dictating her ideas and actions.

 

[RangerMIke]

So not all women are like this as you describe. I mean, I know we are swimming in a pool of hb5s but one can still be congruent in trying to find one that doesn't care that texting fast kills her libido or lessens my worth.

I understand we live in a world that values such things, but let's be real. Efficient texting is efficient.
Playing cat and mouse games is playing.

In a sense I like what you wrote above but that's great advice for a girl who's not so great.

Or maybe its all of them and I'm qualifying them, if they don't take 2 seconds or think that I'm desperate off such a little thing then I'm not going to ever put up with her if we happen to last a year cuz she's full of insignificant stuff that's dictating her ideas and actions.

You are operating under the assumption that you should not text a woman because you are 'playing games'. Nope, you should not be texting someone you meet right away because you actually have stuff to do.... because you are busy... and you have more than one women that you are seeing so you really don't have time to just worry about her.

You should not be playing games.... this should be who you are.

But anyway, you are not correct. Really all women are basically the same. They might have different values, but they are the same. Men are the same too, so this isn't a misogynist rant. Men are attracted to looks, youth, and personality in that order. Women are attracted to Confidence, self control, and challenge. IF YOU PASS THE PHYSICAL ATTRACTION TEST, which is different for every woman. Some women like big guys, skinny guys, older guys, younger guys, women has types... you have to be her physical type or you don;t have a change in hell. Women are not particularly attracted to good looks, but you have to meet her particular standard.

If you start texting right away you run the risk of failing all three of the most important traits a women is looking for... You don't seem very confidence because you appear to be a little desperate. You certainly don;t have patience and self-control, and you are NOT a challenge, because she knows exactly where you stand, you want her.

 

[_sideways_]

I should not be texting cuz I have more things to do and should be seeing others or pretend to....umm OK.
But I do text while I'm seeing others. I am busy, doing my life activities. But texting is so efficient.
Texting the next day or not doesn't gauge true patience. I mean, I'm the most meditated azz dude there is when it comes to my patience.
Partly, I text fast because I want to know if this perceived social flaw or mistake will keep the girl silent.
If so, then she won't keep up with other mistakes I will make.
See I get that you got a good handle on today's social game.

I want to not change the USA's game, but change my world, an earth where I don't follow today's good morning america advice.

I'm not a challenge because she knows I like her. Wtf...she can kiss all our collective azzes.
Any and all females who think this way need to go a full year without makeup and come back to us.
Personally, me texting right away on a girl I think I like is giving me heads up on wether or not I should waste my precious brain cells on her.
She knows there's a line of guys waiting on her to put on make up, waiting on her to come to the date, the car. Just waiting.
No way girl... I'm here today gone tomorrow.
And its not a loss cuz everyday there's another number. Another approach, another kiss close, another period.

In a nut shell what u wrote seems like following her rules of the game.
She ain't no loss cuz I got her equally hot female cohort the next day with the same old b.s. I be spweing.
Waiting to text has lost me same day sex, not waiting to text has got me free food, movies, friendships, etc.

A guy that texts me in a day is a guy who's less than any other guy and I can't be bothered to type for two seconds. You can have those girls mate.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I get info from beautiful girls and text the same day, next day....why is this not working for me?

Because it is not attractive to women.
1. Texting the same day decreases their attraction. To them, it makes you look desperate for women and in need of a life. These are serious attraction killers.
2. Whatever you are actually texting is more of a turn off, than a turn on, for her.
3. If she senses you are afraid of her rejection, because you are avoiding actually asking her out, she will perceive you as weak. This is a massive attraction killer.
4. If you are engaging or trying to engage her in long drawn out texting conversations, she will, at some point, then perceive you as needy and/or desperate. These are immense attraction killers.

 

[Aryan Prince]

Simple rule wait 3 to 7 days before txting/contact... It will get her thinking.about you in most cases!!!

 

[_sideways_]

OK OK. I guess what's eating me up about this is that they still call the shots in a way.
Like they decide OK 3 days is fine...its like what I read on their online profile, "must be sweet, yet stern with me at times". Wtf no...you don't call the shots. You get what you deserve.
The guy can be super great but if he calls the next day its over.
I mean, those are the girls should go unrewarded for bitchy behavior because there's still human code of kindness and respect.

Still...I don't like that they get to have that choosing power and its a stupid rule cuz we ain't promised tomorrow.

 

[Aryan Prince]

Its about causing your target to think about u, without becoming to distant, women only call shots and have enormous egos because most men are white night betas, part of being a true DD is to deny the white night beta programing that usualy starts in.the teens. A true DD will undo females usual power programing... Seen it.done lots of times!!!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Strike while the iron is hot right?

I've always hated that saying. If they are slutty, desperate & dtf then yeah it works. P&D

I've got a buddy that says it all the time too & it works for him. I don't get it.

Get off OLD man it's a waste land & it appears to be eating you up.

 

[Aryan Prince]

Strike while the iron is hot right?

I've always hated that saying. If they are slutty, desperate & dtf then yeah it works. P&D

I've got a buddy that says it all the time too & it works for him. I don't get it.

Get off OLD man it's a waste land & it appears to be eating you up.

Yep, it all depends on the situation the girl is in.... But NC always works if their into you in anyway!!! Its a proven technique, realy does work!