So probably when people think of Day Game they may think of someone like Paul Janka standing on a street corner and stopping women asking for directions and then making small chit chat and getting their number......in his small chat he has a small system......stop, shared point of view, anchoring, social proof and assumptive number closing.....he's good. But then you hear a lot of people say well it works for him because he's tall and good-looking...
It's possible, but if he was a bumbling, stuttering, nervous idiot, I don't think it would work most of the time....
....or maybe Day Game invokes images of the RSD boys approaching on mass like absolute approach machines.
Or put Day Game into youtube and you'll see some "day gamers" doing bootcamps with "newbies" to get over "approach anxiety".
Maybe it seems a little contrived. Maybe it has some value
But how can one go from sitting on a barstool and been dependent on alcohol to open a woman or sitting behind a computer and using social media to interact with women to then walking up to that 9 or 10 in the street and interacting with her on a real level? It's like running a marathon without having run before. Maybe you'll finish the race, but believe me, you're going to suffer.
Somebody said if you want to get good to get that one girl....you need to get good with all girls. Well I would go as far as to say .....if you want to get good with all girls....you get good with ALL PEOPLE.
So I would say the journey of natural day game begins with interacting more and more with strangers. They don't have to be epic conversations. But every person you come in contact with is an opportunity to practice the lost art of conversation. An opportunity to banter, an opportunity to tease.......
With zero outcome. With zero expectations from the other person.
What's the point? If any here has every worked with the public......or especially if you had to do any work in the street. Perhaps the first week or so feels a little strange......"to be on the other side of the counter so to speak". Perhaps you don't feel that sense of authority straight away, the sense that this is your domain........the sense of comfort.......the sense that you own the place....
For natural day game this is the objective: To build up that natural social dynamic confidence. If anyone has experienced this confidence or does experience it, you know what I'm talking about. Some people may have this naturally, some people have to work to build it up.
You walk down the street or you go into a local store or your local starbucks. Most people are asleep. They are like the walking dead. Because most of them are in their heads or in their smartphones. They're in a slumber. If something happens out of the ordinary, what are most people's reactions.........frozen shock. Waiting for somebody else to act....
Focusing on putting more into your interactions, learning to improvise, learning to think on your feet, learning to come back with a witty response, will elevate your dynamic social capacities to a level where you feel wherever you are.........it's your domain.
Your start with conversing with strangers on a daily basis......a few extra words to the cashier, to the waitress.......no expectations, no numbers. You do that on a daily basis for 1-3 months and you should really feel that jolt of social dynamic confidence......
And then should you approach on mass? Nah. Well you can if that's your thing. But natural day game IMO is feeling so much that energetic jolt of social confidence that when you're out and about going about your daily life and chatting away as normal, when opportunity presents itself......when a female who takes your fancy crosses your path.......you don't even have to think about it........you see.....you approach......you chat.......just like you've been doing........oh so naturally....
And when you go out with one of these women and perhaps you go to a bar or to grab a bite to eat where your naturally chatty with everyone and a little bit flirty with the women.......she sees that social proof.
......she sees the Don Juan who can chat and banter and be charming.....with anyone.....
She'll also always feel......a little exciting jolt of competition anxiety...........for if you picked her up just going about your daily business.....well, she knows, you have the ability to pick another one up......just going about your daily business.....
It's possible, but if he was a bumbling, stuttering, nervous idiot, I don't think it would work most of the time....
....or maybe Day Game invokes images of the RSD boys approaching on mass like absolute approach machines.
Or put Day Game into youtube and you'll see some "day gamers" doing bootcamps with "newbies" to get over "approach anxiety".
Maybe it seems a little contrived. Maybe it has some value
But how can one go from sitting on a barstool and been dependent on alcohol to open a woman or sitting behind a computer and using social media to interact with women to then walking up to that 9 or 10 in the street and interacting with her on a real level? It's like running a marathon without having run before. Maybe you'll finish the race, but believe me, you're going to suffer.
Somebody said if you want to get good to get that one girl....you need to get good with all girls. Well I would go as far as to say .....if you want to get good with all girls....you get good with ALL PEOPLE.
So I would say the journey of natural day game begins with interacting more and more with strangers. They don't have to be epic conversations. But every person you come in contact with is an opportunity to practice the lost art of conversation. An opportunity to banter, an opportunity to tease.......
With zero outcome. With zero expectations from the other person.
What's the point? If any here has every worked with the public......or especially if you had to do any work in the street. Perhaps the first week or so feels a little strange......"to be on the other side of the counter so to speak". Perhaps you don't feel that sense of authority straight away, the sense that this is your domain........the sense of comfort.......the sense that you own the place....
For natural day game this is the objective: To build up that natural social dynamic confidence. If anyone has experienced this confidence or does experience it, you know what I'm talking about. Some people may have this naturally, some people have to work to build it up.
You walk down the street or you go into a local store or your local starbucks. Most people are asleep. They are like the walking dead. Because most of them are in their heads or in their smartphones. They're in a slumber. If something happens out of the ordinary, what are most people's reactions.........frozen shock. Waiting for somebody else to act....
Focusing on putting more into your interactions, learning to improvise, learning to think on your feet, learning to come back with a witty response, will elevate your dynamic social capacities to a level where you feel wherever you are.........it's your domain.
Your start with conversing with strangers on a daily basis......a few extra words to the cashier, to the waitress.......no expectations, no numbers. You do that on a daily basis for 1-3 months and you should really feel that jolt of social dynamic confidence......
And then should you approach on mass? Nah. Well you can if that's your thing. But natural day game IMO is feeling so much that energetic jolt of social confidence that when you're out and about going about your daily life and chatting away as normal, when opportunity presents itself......when a female who takes your fancy crosses your path.......you don't even have to think about it........you see.....you approach......you chat.......just like you've been doing........oh so naturally....
And when you go out with one of these women and perhaps you go to a bar or to grab a bite to eat where your naturally chatty with everyone and a little bit flirty with the women.......she sees that social proof.
......she sees the Don Juan who can chat and banter and be charming.....with anyone.....
She'll also always feel......a little exciting jolt of competition anxiety...........for if you picked her up just going about your daily business.....well, she knows, you have the ability to pick another one up......just going about your daily business.....
