dat feel when you comment and like on a girl's picture

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No Facebook. No Twitter. No Instagram. No Snapchat. No whatsapp.
This.

Honestly, I used to check up on girls all the time on social media. Now, any girl I wanna be with, I never allow them access to my social media and I never follow theirs.

It's all smoke and mirrors anyway, people spend far too much time cultivating their social media image and very little of it is truly real. You're far better off to be interesting and authentic in real life.
 

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The problem here is that the OP is using Facebook to get validation from others. I stopped caring what others thought a long time ago. My Facebook is primarily used for entertaining myself and entertaining others. I write funny 5hit for my status, others respond with funny 5hit, and it's a great time. I do whatever the fvck I want on there and never worry about what others think.

If you need Facebook for validation from others and to feel important, you need to do a LOT of work on your confidence and self-esteem.
 

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I do whatever the fvck I want on there and never worry about what others think.
The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for. Pretty unlikely, but I would rather not have that as a possibility so I don't even bother with FB
 

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This.

Honestly, I used to check up on girls all the time on social media. Now, any girl I wanna be with, I never allow them access to my social media and I never follow theirs.

It's all smoke and mirrors anyway, people spend far too much time cultivating their social media image and very little of it is truly real. You're far better off to be interesting and authentic in real life.
"social media image" god damn I hate this era so damn much. That term is just so trash, well what it means is. The best part is "Oh ya I'm famous on instagram I have 200K followers" me- " What do you do>" her *blank stares/doesnt do *****.
 

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The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for.
You don't need facebook for some arsehole to do that.

Keep the losers and the rumour mills off your Facebook and you'll be fine. You shouldn't be bothering with those types of people anyway.
 

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The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for. Pretty unlikely, but I would rather not have that as a possibility so I don't even bother with FB
You get reprimanded at work for what you post on Facebook? Sounds to me like you're doing this wrong already.
 

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You get reprimanded at work for what you post on Facebook? Sounds to me like you're doing this wrong already.
No but this person was. And this person. And this person. And this person. And these people. Lots and lots of cases.

Yeah most the time the person is acting like an idiot, so maybe they deserved it, but not always. Anything controversial could potentially get you in trouble. I'm an unconventional, cynical type person and I see FB as just being nonsense. So if I made it a habit to post there I know I'd piss people off. Whether or not I'd get in trouble, probably very unlikely but it'd always be in the back of my mind. Would rather not use it at all.
 
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