Are women in their late 20's a dead end street for DJs?

[captain55]

Most of these chicks are in full on beta bux mode. I just recently got out of talking with a chick in her late 20's that said I had "too many bad boy tendencies, and that she wants constancy and stability. And she just wants a nice guy who wants a family" her exact words lol.

We all know women freak out in their late 20's if they haven't found a guy to wife them up yet, if they meet a man they start to feel some serious sexual attraction to that doesn't fit into their ideal provider criteria (aka a player) they will withdraw because they are so afraid of wasting precious time, unless of course they're down for a fling. Which is rare for chicks in this age range, again they are afraid of wasting time and up tight as ****.

If your a beta with no game, and have no issue with a chick using you for your money go ahead date women in this age range. But in my experience its a dead end street. The very things that women in their early 20's find attractive....aloofness, being mysterious, having a lot of women after you, all attractive dominate traits will not usually work with women in their late 20's. Sadly being a beta that she knows has no other options, that is in love with her looks will probably get you the lay with chicks in this age range. Of course, she will probably cheat with the alpha male once she gets bored of the beta provider but thats another story. I have avoided a lot of problems with women by avoiding chicks in this age range, come to think of it....my dating life has been great with the exception of women in the 26-28 range. A 29 year old that isn't in a serious relationship and just got dumped by her bf is a whole different story, probably the easiest lay in the world lmao

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Rollo deals with this very lucidly in his second book, The Rational Male: Preventive Medicine. It's a must read in my opinion.
Btw, they will come back for more alphas in time.

 

[JohnChops]

Solution : lower test, no more AIs, pin estrogen 3x a week, more sensitive, more beta, more women. Problem solved Cap'n

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Ummm, ok lol

If that's what she wants, let her sail away. The problem though is that the guy is probably just on the too far spectrum of having these quote unquote bad boy traits. To the point where his true insecure mentality is secretly hidden by a 3far alpha costume. Chick probably smells that.

Never opening up just a tad bit for her to see the potential of how your mentality at its core is built on survival, protection, and steadiness will get these type of results. If you out here just banging broads and not giving a damb, she's just being smart. Why should she invest in that? Why would any broad whether she's 18 or 45 invest in that?

Having a family and being a provider is NOT beta. If your frame is in tip top shape, it's probably the peak of where an alpha can go tbh. Vito Corleone out here.

 

[Desdinova]

I just recently got out of talking with a chick in her late 20's that said I had "too many bad boy tendencies, and that she wants constancy and stability. And she just wants a nice guy who wants a family" her exact words lol.

NEVER listen to a woman's words when she talks about what she wants. She will still fvck an alpha over a beta.

 

[captain55]

Ummm, ok lol

If that's what she wants, let her sail away. The problem though is that the guy is probably just on the too far spectrum of having these quote unquote bad boy traits. To the point where his true insecure mentality is secretly hidden by a 3far alpha costume. Chick probably smells that.

Never opening up just a tad bit for her to see the potential of how your mentality at its core is built on survival, protection, and steadiness will get these type of results. If you out here just banging broads and not giving a damb, she's just being smart. Why should she invest in that? Why would any broad whether she's 18 or 45 invest in that?

Having a family and being a provider is NOT beta. If your frame is in tip top shape, it's probably the peak of where an alpha can go tbh. Vito Corleone out here.

Dude I am a competitive bodybuilder you can not compare the dating life of an average guy to a 230 pound ripped dude, she will never get a no dude more alpha than me at least not physically. Before I ever even got her to go on a date with me she said she admitted she didn't want to get involved with me because she could see me having "oceans of women after me" and that "she's a princess and doesn't like to compete for attention". She eventually stopped talking to me when she found out I went out with another female.

As for the second paragraph I completely agree, and can't say that's what Im not doing. But I'm 23, if I were to get serious with this chick I'll be stuck with a 30 year old right when Im coming into my prime which is stupid. I just wanted to bang her and date her for a bit, and see where it went....but I can't see myself realistically committing to one woman at this point in her life. I will say I kind of liked her though. The chick didnt even go to her first club until she was 25....thought that was pretty cool.

 

[captain55]

NEVER listen to a woman's words when she talks about what she wants. She will still fvck an alpha over a beta.

Wrong. Back to prescreening phase, I know damn well she has a fetish for tall jacked masculine dudes because thats what got her to go out with me, yet the past two guys she actually dated didn't even workout. The only thing they had in common was that they were rich as **** and spoiled the **** out of her. Another reason why I only wanted to bang her, figured out right then and there on that date she was a gold digger

 

[Who Dares Win]

I can related with it, all the girls I was banging raw dog till 2-3 yrs ago are now in relationships with guys they wouldnt even bother have a date back then, I talk about the everyday normal guys who buy drinks to girls or dont know how to properly run kino but fits smooth in their social circle and social conventions in this moment.

Im 31 now, having some problems actually cause the 18-24 yrs old girls which I was having fun with in my late 20s are getting harder and harder to get and require more work while girls in the 25-28 range are looking for a relationship, I have no interested in anything above that age and I got scared when I saw some in twitter.

The only solution I came with is to get in a better shape, decrease bodyfat (a tight face makes you look younger) and put more effort and more brain in the process.

Girls in their late 20s are a pain in the ass to deal with anyway, they now consider themselves "smart" and despite a decreasing look believe they are entitled to more than before, also they can feel when you are a player and they have much more self control against emotional manipulation.

They dont go out to have fun, they go out with a precise plan and countermeasure to people like me, more like a firewall to prevent them to being gamed.

 

[fastlife]

Could be worse. You could be in the southeast United States, where girls hit their beta bux phase at 22 or 23 lol. After they've ridden the CC hard, spent the past few years drinking their looks away, and have already started putting on weight in preparation for their cushy years of provision and stay-at-home (or work a part time secretary job) motherhood.

In fact, a good screening method is that if a girl doesn't think you're a player, she's probably either inexperienced and naive (in a good way) or high enough SMV that she has gotten all the players in her past to commit. Hardly bother with girls over the age of 20 as much as I can help it.

 

[wifehunter]

Words mean nothing!

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Family life is not for me, this thread has turned depressing, I want kids, but I don't want to be attached in to a family. I want to meet a chick who wants kids and we have a mutual agreement....to take care of them and I can do my thing and she can do hers.

Feel like a lot of dudes feel having a family is the end all icing on the cake in life. I want new experiences as long as my life permits me.

 

[_sideways_]

^ this

Yea. A cool chick who will go halves on children and leave my personal life to me.

Hard to find I bet.
Why would they want to "ruin" their bodies and not have the safety cushion of alimony.

Closest thing I can see happening is getting a foreign chick preggers and leaving her in her country half the year while I work in the states the other half.