A year....

[Bingo-Player]

Anyone remember who they were fvcking / dating / spinning a year ago ?

Don’t know why but i was looking through old text threads and pictures on my phone earlier its really funny seeing how much your mindset changes in just a year

I came across one particular thread from a year ago today with a girl i was dating for a while this time last year i was crazy for her

i can tell by my messages my judgement was horrendously clouded i was chatting absolute sh1t ,
the scary thing was that reading her replies back now i can see she was actually fairly high interest i was just too blinded by my own thoughts to notice

safe to say she got fed up of me not being able to lead her and she went and found someone that, i hated her for blowing me off at the time but now i can clearly see why she did it

this leads me onto more thoughts i shudder to think at the amount of pu$$y ive lost in the past just because i was so wrapped up in my own head wondering whether or not they were interested when in reality they were just waiting for me to make a simple move lmao

when it comes to pu$$y I’ve definitely learnt that its fvck first ask questions later

questions and small talk just dimish the primal attraction she has for you.

 

[kenpiffyjr]

Always assume attraction and just go with it.

So many cats get caught up with wanting the girl to be head over heels/or wondering if she's playing you. Women are insecure and do back and forth sh1t because they don't trust themselves. You as a man should always assume attraction...don't even ask her about that kinda crap, and just concentrate on getting the pleasure you want and having fun with them.

Any relationshipesque drama should be met with aloofness.

 

[LiveYourDream]

i can tell by my messages my judgement was horrendously clouded i was chatting absolute sh1t ,
the scary thing was that reading her replies back now i can see she was actually fairly high interest i was just too blinded by my own thoughts to notice

safe to say she got fed up of me not being able to lead her and she went and found someone that, i hated her for blowing me off at the time but now i can clearly see why she did it

This one honest self reflection by itself, has the potential to up your game exponentially. Great awareness OP. In any moment of slight hesitation, moving forward, with any woman, just remind yourself that one was ready. Use that insight to further fuel your confidence and momentum to always go for what you want.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Man, interesting time for this thread. It's spring break, and last spring break was a wild one for me. I banged this really sexy girl several times who had a boyfriend and was just kicking it with my friends smoking too much weed.

sounds like my kind of holiday

i love banging chicks with boyfreinds makes it so much satisfying knowing im hitting a pu$$y that should be soley reserved for another d1ck

ive had girls go wild on me after whispering something like "what would your boyfreind do if he knew i was gonna c*m in his girls pu$$y

it turns them right on lmao and yes i know im a b@stard :/

 

[mrgoodstuff]

sounds like my kind of holiday

i love banging chicks with boyfreinds makes it so much satisfying knowing im hitting a pu$$y that should be soley reserved for another d1ck

ive had girls go wild on me after whispering something like "what would your boyfreind do if he knew i was gonna c*m in his girls pu$$y

it turns them right on lmao and yes i know im a b@stard :/

He'd take her crap and move it in to your house, lol. "Here let her be your problem."

 

[Desdinova]

Last year, I was somewhat on a break from women. I started dating a Japanese woman. I quit seeing her because the cultural differences were a bit too much for me to actually find enjoyment in spending time with her.

I get to see her today. I have to go do some work at her workplace. That's how I met her.

 

[fastlife]

Man, this time last year I was still caught up in my BPD relationship. I remember I was exhausted. Finishing up school, working two jobs, saving up to move cross-country, and frustrated she couldn't entertain herself for a little while I lined things up for our future.

Don't think I was in love, or even all that sexually attracted to her at that point, but I was enmeshed. Blue pill, savior-complex relationship template--figured if I could just do x, y, and z I could get back to the honeymoon high and live happily-ever-after. Remember there was a cute girl that worked at a cafe on campus, but I felt guilty for flirting with her and never pulled the trigger.

My ex was probably sensing that I was pulling away and was laying the groundwork with her ex who she would end up branch-swinging in 5 months. I was starting to pass **** tests because I was stretched too thin to even entertain them; she was still trying desperately to preserve the attachment--cooking meals, huge increase in our sex life, etc.

Hadn't realized in the past year-and-a-half that I'd lost half my personality. I'd had to withdraw into myself since just being me brought too much female attention, that by that point felt disloyal to her, and caused her to act inward and blame herself and cause drama I didn't know how to handle; never occurred to me to walk away.

A year later I'm back to who I was before I met her--the version of me I liked and hadn't realized that I'd lost. I've reconnected with myself and all the relationships that couldn't be accommodated when the world was only big enough for she and me. I've met some awesome girls--haven't had any girls start any **** since then. Feel like coming out on the other side of a BPD relationship gives you cheat codes with regular women. Like going from taming lions to playing with kittens.

 

[Yewki]

i shudder to think at the amount of pu$$y ive lost in the past.

Imagine how you'll look back at yourself a decade from now. Maybe you won't care.

 

[Desdinova]

Well that was fvcking awkward. She asked me what she did wrong to cause me to go ghost on her. Honestly, she didn't do anything wrong. I didn't like the cultural difference, but I didn't tell her that. I told her my dad's health has been getting worse and is demanding more time (which actually is true). When I left, she told me to call her sometime.

 

[Glumix]

this leads me onto more thoughts i shudder to think at the amount of pu$$y ive lost in the past just because i was so wrapped up in my own head wondering whether or not they were interested when in reality they were just waiting for me to make a simple move lmao

Man, we are always our best version of ourselves at the present moment. We all fvcked up plenty at some point. I can't recount how many I missed in my 36 years of life. But I still have like 50+ years to live. And the next pussies are going to be much more enjoyable.

One year ago, I was deep in my relationship with my ex-BPD. Been struggling with myself, the abuses and the resulting premature ejaculation for almost 6 months already. That killed all the pleasure I had in bed with her. Funny how your d!ck know much better that yourself which pu$$y you should fvck and which one you shouldn't.

Right now, 4 months after the breakup I have been in monk mode for a month or so and I feel much better. Today I chit-chated with a cutie at a local sport & outdoor store. Like @fastlife said, after a BPD relationship, it's like god mode. You endured more sh!t tests in 2-3 years than 95% of the male population will endure during their whole life.

 

[Thundernuts]

For me, about this time last year was when I started dating my current GF. Was still working on the farm, and still trying to finish my degree. I dropped out that semester, I tried working on a tree farm (stay away from them) and ended up back at the rice farm.

I got a job now that pays more than the jobs I'd be pursuing had I finished my degree. I have a young woman who has stuck with me through some serious hardship when so many refused to, and I've finally caught up on all my dept that I've accumulated over these past few years.

I'm much more happy now than I've been in a very long time, its been a damn good year and I'm actually very excited to see what these next twelve months will bring.