She is probably talking to other guys and i feel i did a mistake by breaking the contact.

[Radar1234]

Hello All!

The advice giving here is great second to none!
To explain my situation i was dating a girl for about 4 months, everything was great until she laid a bombshell on me ljbf while holding my hand i couldnt believe it looking back my mistake is i starting white knighting buying her stuff paying for meals and i put pressure on the relationship by talking future plans anyways after that i kissed her said i understand left it at that

The next day i texted her concerning some professional work we had done left the conversation at that and gave some advice during the weekend i decided i would not contact her mainly for my sanity as ive come to realize i am not in a place in life i want to be

Come monday she texts me, i dont reply, the next day she sends me a follow up text...then finally another text more desperation along ?!??

So my question is should i just continue no contact or should i be cordinal and reply

Ive been focusing on my self as a club promoter i have no problem in my social life and meeting new women but with her it was someone i could see in a ltr

 

[marmel75]

Just tell her you have no interest in being friends, so it's all or nothing.

 

[lion051]

Hello All!

The advice giving here is great second to none!
To explain my situation i was dating a girl for about 4 months, everything was great until she laid a bombshell on me ljbf while holding my hand i couldnt believe it looking back my mistake is i starting white knighting buying her stuff paying for meals and i put pressure on the relationship by talking future plans anyways after that i kissed her said i understand left it at that

The next day i texted her concerning some professional work we had done left the conversation at that and gave some advice during the weekend i decided i would not contact her mainly for my sanity as ive come to realize i am not in a place in life i want to be

Come monday she texts me, i dont reply, the next day she sends me a follow up text...then finally another text more desperation along ?!??

So my question is should i just continue no contact or should i be cordinal and reply

Ive been focusing on my self as a club promoter i have no problem in my social life and meeting new women but with her it was someone i could see in a ltr

Tell her ljbf, let her see how it feels. I don't know why you guys like to coddle these chicks after they miss behave to you. I got this chick now texting me as we speak trying to get me to take her out. When i asked her the first time she made excuses, now all of a sudden (I guess it didn't work out with the other guy lol) she wants to go out with me? Lol these woman must take us man for idiots. I read her texts and did not respond.

And to OP, forget that chick man. Find another, concentrate on improving yourself, but most importantly read the DonJuan Bible and listen to the guys on this forum.

I know profile shows me as a "new member", but i've been visiting the sosuave website and forum from the time i was your age (22 i believe i read). Off and on, more off than on (to my own detriment). Now i am 30, i realized that i probably should've been reading it more often. I have come to the conclusion that the DJ Bible is the gospel truth, follow it's commandments fully and you will be OK. There is no wiggle room. This chick dissed you, the only text you should probably reply to her with is to f-off. But showing your fustration won't help either so just forget her and move on.

Oh and what you thinking trying to get married at 22 man?

 

[Maximus Rex]

How long did you know this chick before proposing marriage?