Unprotected sex

[bigwuz]

Ok so I have had unprotected sex with every girl I ever been with and they all seem like they cool with it. Only one girl asked that I use prorection, but she let me hit raw our second time. Is this normal do women not care.???

 

[LiveYourDream]

Ok so I have had unprotected sex with every girl I ever been with and they all seem like they cool with it. Only one girl asked that I use prorection, but she let me hit raw our second time. Is this normal do women not care.???

Whether or not they care if you have sex without a condom, it is in your best interest to care about the potential life changing effects of such a risk. How about a reality check like, suddenly finding out you are going to be a dad in 9 months, there is no re-choosing this woman--will forever be the mother of your child, you will have a relationship with her forever, you will have financial obligations to your child for the next 18+ years, and/or there is Herpes, HIV, other STD's. There is a lot that could happen by not wrapping it up.

Believe me I get sex feels better without a condom. It's way different for me too. It's absolutely my preference not to use one as well. However, unless you ruled out the potential risks above, it's a Russian roulette of sorts. Denial doesn't take away the risks. Just because you want to come up unaffected doesn't mean you will.

If you are having sex with girls who are apparently so nonchalant about having sex without a condom what does that convey. I'd say that they likely are not going to be the top choice for a mother of your child and the likelihood they have been exposed to are carrying std's is clearly higher. The odds of 'winning' something go up and what you are likely to win will be even less desirable.

I'd change up your question and ask, why do you care so little about your future that you are willing to gamble your future, as if it has little importance or value to you? What about dreams and desires for your future? Is gambling your future really worth it for that extra sensation? If it is, then consciously choose that and prepare and mitigate your risks accordingly. Have sex with women who are only sleeping with you, have been STD tested clean and who you would be happy to be the mother of your child and to be in relationship with for the next 18 years. Start a savings account to help pay for an unexpected kid or kids. They are way more expensive than you might realize.

Maybe this excessively harsh. I understand. I am not trying to ruin sex without condoms for you. I am trying to save you and anyone else that reads this from the belief that they are immune from the consequences of unprotected sex and it won't happen to them. Everyone expects/hopes it to happen to someone else and not themselves. Everyday, that someone else, becomes countless men and women who did not expect it to be them either.

Create a vision for your future. Set goals and live the life you choose. Be the captain of your ship. Don't risk your future to a game of roulette. I think the opportunity to steer your own ship, your way, is way more valuable than that. That's me.

Edit: Bigwuz, I just saw another post of yours talking about your interactions with your Baby Mama and now the new women in your life. Perhaps all has worked out amicably with baby mama number one, so far. Don't kid yourself and think casually having multiple kids with multiple women brings status or projects the image that women desire you. The message it actually conveys is quite different.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Women never in my life have asked me and my friends have the same experience. Herpes is overrated, wrap it up

 

[Serenity]

In my experience they don't bring it up. I think it's because they also prefer no condom and most are on birth control, that combined with being too horny to think straight. It may also to some feel awkward and "ruining the moment" to bring it up. Still it's a game of russian roulette, some women may try to trick you to get a child (it's rare, but not worth the risk). There's no excuse for "ruining the moment", a moment of sex isn't worth the trouble of getting a child with a woman you don't want it with.

My (female) cousin got pregnant because she didn't want to go on birth control and her then (!) boyfriend didn't give a sh!t about condoms. She got twins, yes, two babies at once! What about the guy? Well, he's an a$$hole and the biggest AFC I have ever witnessed, he has to pay child support for the twins and has a restraining order on him. It for sure svcks for him, all of which could be prevented with a piece of rubber.

Then there's the STD's, which you can get even if she's on birth control. If you get one it will svck, who's gonna want to fvck you if you got nasty sh!t on your d!ck? STD's are a great way to ruin your sex life. I don't think the women who doesn't ask really think about this. I can understand it's uncomfortable to ask, but I would get over that discomfort easily by knowing what's at stake.

So use condoms please. Don't stop using them until you're confident the woman in question is free of STD's and is on birth control.

 

[Julian]

Chicks always want it raw dog for real.

 

[GeniuzKhrist]

Agreed, condoms suck for both sexes, but so does AIDS, you're life, you're choice.

 

[bigwuz]

Well I made a decision a while ago 2 wrap it up only because I don't want any more kids right now herpes is so damn common even chickenpox is a form of herpes

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Herpes is not a STD.....I read an article about Herpes before they manufactured drugs for it to make money. It was considered normal and most people had it back in the day, and most cases are mild to nonexsistent. Rarely it is as bad as they show you when you are taking sex education when you were younger.

Pretty much drugs companies wanted to make extra cash, so they made drugs to "supress" herpes.

 

[zinc4]

Herpes....who freakin cares...I think I have it...not sure...I've always gotten cold silores on my mouth at certain times...

I raw dogged my entire life...still do.....but it's not smart..

Only one unlucky encounter in which I.pulled out made a girl.pregnant.... She had to get a medical abortion.... I got lucky in that I suppose...

Be careful.... It can and does happen.... About to bang a new online girl this weekend...hopefully will remember to wrap up...