An other feminist failure which in fact favour man (feminist tinder)

[Yewki]

Reasons why girls don't have game:

- They don't need it, so they have no pressure to develop it
- They expect men to do all the work, no matter if the woman initiates or not, and if she initiates she thinks she has done more work than she should have to and now he really needs to make up for it
- She's a princess/queen, so doing something like this "for" a man is beneath them
- They don't believe there is such a thing as game. They don't think men can "trick" them with game or that men use game. They think everything is "chemistry"
- They don't think they should have to look for a man. They really DO live with the idea that their prince is going to show up

These things mix into why Bumble will never take off. Women are too spoiled and narcissistic for those kinds of apps to have any real success and for any of the views they have to be challenged. They are more than content with tinder and the likes that already give them the validation they're there for..

Pretty much this, on Bumble messaging for women will just be a new form of swiping. Instead of swiping right, they'll effortlessly message guys "hi" with the attitude, "I chose you, you're welcome." This will also serve to reduce the chance that their fragile egos get damaged... because if the guy doesn't respond, she hardly invested anything. She put in the minimal amount of effort. Hence zero game. She'll then expect the guy to respond and do all the work.

Still an improvement over Tinder, because the girl actually has to do something first to receive validation and it saves guys time... but that's why I don't see it taking off, because girls would rather passively sit back and receive validation for no work. It could still be useful if enough girls are using it though.

 

[El Payaso]

I think the best thing to do will be to sit back and see her struggle. When she says hi, just say hi back. More men should also put on their profiles "please, come up with something other than hi. It gets tiring receiving a thousand "hi how are you" messages everyday.

Boom. You instantly spark competition in her and two, she has to prove herself to you with originality.

I doubt many girls will step up to the plate but at least, we get to be on the end where we just sit back in the initial stages for once.

 

[dustmuffin]

Got another match and one match expired. So two are still in the oven.

 

[dustmuffin]

Got messages from the two matches. Haven't read them. I will read them in a bit. One very cute blond and one from an average woman. I'll read them later. Not in the mood right now. I gots man stuff to do!

 

[dustmuffin]

Aright one match thanked me for the date last night. I did take her out met her on OKcupid.
The Other said "Howdy (my name) Have a great weekend. Ya if you didnt have tits I would not respond. She is a PR professional at a hospital and lived in NYC for 20 years before moving.

Suggestions for a response?

 

[Who Dares Win]

Got messages from the two matches. Haven't read them. I will read them in a bit. One very cute blond and one from an average woman. I'll read them later. Not in the mood right now. I gots man stuff to do!

Let us know how the interaction goes, Im curious if this new system has influence on women behaviour.

 

[WanderingMan]

The Other said "Howdy (my name) Have a great weekend.

LOL! Holy Christ. This is great. This is one of my pet peeves of online dating, taking the time to read a chick's profile only to hear her at the end complain about the lame messages she receives. Go ahead ladies, give it your best.... and hopefully it's better than " have a great weekend". Lol.

 

[badboyjmm]

LOL! Holy Christ. This is great. This is one of my pet peeves of online dating, taking the time to read a chick's profile only to hear her at the end complain about the lame messages she receives. Go ahead ladies, give it your best.... and hopefully it's better than " have a great weekend". Lol.

Lol don't get your hopes up, the first message I got was, Hi there !

 

[FCB]

Got a bunch of matches from what looks like fairly quality girls. Some expired and a bunch gave the hi, or how's your weekend going messages. It doesn't really change much, the girl just sends a qualifier message then reverts to same OLD mechanics.

 

[dutchmaster]

So this app is a no-go?

 

[dustmuffin]

Got a bunch of matches from what looks like fairly quality girls. Some expired and a bunch gave the hi, or how's your weekend going messages. It doesn't really change much, the girl just sends a qualifier message then reverts to same OLD mechanics.

You hit the nail on the head.

 

[AttackFormation]

Like i said in my previous post, those outcomes should really not surprise you if youre red pill. These apps wont take off, nor change a thing.

 

[dutchmaster]

Like i said in my previous post, those outcomes should really not surprise you if youre red pill. These apps wont take off, nor change a thing.

yup.. i can't even use tinder anymore, any matches you get are usually well below your league, and if you do actually get matched with hot girls they USUALLY (not always) are just on there AWing or waiting for Brad Pitt to swipe right on them. I fee like a chump when I use this app nowadays. These girls come from such a position of power due to the dynamic on the app that it's like fighting an uphill table with a big hat that says chump on your head. BORING

Not saying guys can't close on there. But the dynamic oft he app just makes me feel like an AFC, that's all. This app is especially terrible for newbies IMO. Go out and meet some chicks in real life, that's the best teacher, especially social circle game. once one chick hears you lay down the d1ck in the bed, the rest are gonna wanna try it whether they wanna admit it or not

Since this app sounds no different from what you guys said, I shall steer far away as well.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Got a bunch of matches from what looks like fairly quality girls. Some expired and a bunch gave the hi, or how's your weekend going messages. It doesn't really change much, the girl just sends a qualifier message then reverts to same OLD mechanics.

Do you wanna hack their hamster powered brain?

Let them open with their boring uncaring line waiting to reverse it on you waiting for you to do all the work, then read it and dont reply.

In this case they will either let it go and wonder why the silence, they will delete you (no big loss since its a sign of low interest) or where the magic happens their hamster will spin, they will wonder why you are ignoring them.

Ego first and curiosity later will push them to try hard, at first to save their ego then they more they invest the more they will work on it.

Afraid it may not work? well what do you have to lose since the whole point of this game is putting no effort at all.

 

[Yewki]

Do you wanna hack their hamster powered brain?

Let them open with their boring uncaring line waiting to reverse it on you waiting for you to do all the work, then read it and dont reply.

In this case they will either let it go and wonder why the silence, they will delete you (no big loss since its a sign of low interest) or where the magic happens their hamster will spin, they will wonder why you are ignoring them.

Ego first and curiosity later will push them to try hard, at first to save their ego then they more they invest the more they will work on it.

Afraid it may not work? well what do you have to lose since the whole point of this game is putting no effort at all.

If a girl was staring at you in a bar, would you ignore her because she was only making minimal effort to contact you?

I mean, this is a neat feel good way to stick it to them and all... but it's not effective.

 

[Who Dares Win]

If a girl was staring at you in a bar, would you ignore her because she was only making minimal effort to contact you?

I mean, this is a neat feel good way to stick it to them and all... but it's not effective.

Cant compare a bar setting with an online app, total different setting.

Anyway to answer your question, after 10 yrs of experience I can clearly tell if a girl is staring at me for interest in me or for interest in terms of attention or benefit so I behave accordingly.

I wrote it other times in here, it takes me 10 second to read 90% of a girl and a minute to read the remaining 10%.

 

[Yewki]

Cant compare a bar setting with an online app, total different setting.

Anyway to answer your question, after 10 yrs of experience I can clearly tell if a girl is staring at me for interest in me or for interest in terms of attention or benefit so I behave accordingly.

I wrote it other times in here, it takes me 10 second to read 90% of a girl and a minute to read the remaining 10%.

And can you clearly tell if a girl is interested when she says "hi" on Bumble?

 

[Who Dares Win]

And can you clearly tell if a girl is interested when she says "hi" on Bumble?

Yes, anyone with little to no experience already knows that a one way only conversation is a true sign of low interest, you know short closed answer replies and ages for a message and so on, Im suprised you didnt read it yet since we talk about it in this board really often.

To recap our conversation anyway, you first asked me explanations about online dating comparing it to a bar setting, I replied about the bar setting telling its a different game and now you're moving back to online... can you make up your mind and decide the setting you want to talk about here?

Either case I explained my position about both in the previous posts, different fields require different plans and involvment of resourches.

 

[Yewki]

Yes, anyone with little to no experience already knows that a one way only conversation is a true sign of low interest, you know short closed answer replies and ages for a message and so on, Im suprised you didnt read it yet since we talk about it in this board really often.

To recap our conversation anyway, you first asked me explanations about online dating comparing it to a bar setting, I replied about the bar setting telling its a different game and now you're moving back to online... can you make up your mind and decide the setting you want to talk about here?

Either case I explained my position about both in the previous posts, different fields require different plans and involvment of resourches.

You had suggested ignoring them right off the bat after they sent one uncaring message (i.e. "hi"), so there'd be no conversation going on

 

[Lozboss]

Its great for High Interest women.

KEY THING THAT OP DIDN'T MENTION- if they don't match you within 24 hours you lose the match.

Although Tinder is better for pipeline building.