Tictac
Banned
Been there, done that.People always say this, in my case mine was observed by a psychologist to have bpd (after i figured she has it) and is currently in DBT (maybe one good thing came out of it)
Push/pull, splitting, depression, using statements like "everyone ends up abandoning me" didn't make it too hard to figure out, and now it's been confirmed.
If you haven't tangled with one then stay out of the BPD threads and I hope for your sake you never have to, your apparent arrogance makes you an easy target for them.
But thanks for your 'concern'.