What is your number one deal breaker when it comes to women?

[LiveYourDream]

Continually a pessimist

 

[LiveYourDream]

Poor hygiene

 

[dude99]

Poor hygiene

Yeah that would kill the mood.

 

[wifehunter]

Demon Possession.

Lol!!!

Oh wait, i'm serious!

Jezebel is a real b1tch!!!

 

[LiveYourDream]

Inability or unwillingness to be vulnerable

 

[Mot1veProgress]

1) Overly emotional. Wants to play mindgames.
2) Desperation / Needy

The rest I usually can weed out ahead of time.

 

[Huffman]

Inability or unwillingness to be vulnerable

Women say that alot but it's really tough for a guy... guys definitely shouldn't show vulnerability too often or too early.
I get that you want to point out trust and emotional connection though, which is hard to come by.

 

[LiveYourDream]

Women say that alot but it's really tough for a guy... guys definitely shouldn't show vulnerability too often or too early.
I get that you want to point out trust and emotional connection though, which is hard to come by.

For me, as a woman, I highly value being able to be vulnerable. The safer I feel with a man, the deeper the vulnerability I feel free to express. I value a man's authenticity, his strength and the feeling of safety he provides, that helps create the space for me, to feel free to express, all of me without hesitation. Words don't touch what an amazing gift that is to me.

He benefits as well. For example communication or sex, with a woman who feels truly free, with him, is a whole different experience for both of them. The depth of sharing, connection, and her capacity to fully let go sexually with him and lose one's self, are world's apart from when she feels inhibited.

The gift to feel completely vulnerable and free, with one another, is beyond words. That's me.

 

[Desdinova]

Chicks who are drunk or drink excessively. There's nothing more that makes me disgusted with women than seeing them act like sloppy tramps with no self-control, at least in public.

If she gets drunk with me at home, that's fine.

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

1) Disrespect
2) Putting me second in any capacity or low interest
3) Whorish behavior
4) Money-hungry
5) Classless

In that order.

 

[zekko]

Picking from what others have said:
1) Deceit - I've always had a problem with dishonesty
2) AWing - not the kind of chick I want to be with
3) As Espi pointed out, there has to be a physical attraction there or nothing gets off the ground

 

[Glumix]

Women say that alot but it's really tough for a guy... guys definitely shouldn't show vulnerability too often or too early.
I get that you want to point out trust and emotional connection though, which is hard to come by.

Before talking about vulnerability we should define it because there is often a gap between what one and another think it is. For me it is not at all about showing weaknesses. But that's for another thread.

 

[nismo-4]

Where I'm from we call it:

'being too Hollywood'

I absolutely dread, loathe women who carry themselves in a stuck up manner. Just because you are pretty does not mean you're God's gift to the world. You're just like everyone else. Sadly I am the only one who enforces this belief nowadays.

I live in Atlanta, and that's where I learned the term in 2009! Oh, I enforce it too! The board here knows I don't play.

Being too Hollywood is one thing I can't stand. A few others:
1. Lack of humor (boring/ too serious)
2. Lack of sexual interest/ desire
3. Gold digger/ Attention wh0ring all day
4. Plays too many games (Constant testing and ball busting can count as this.)
5. Dik-teaser (Anything friendzone related falls here too.) Hell, teasing me to where I get soft, then asking for it hours later, gee, I wonder why I'm not getting hard! I'm onto another plate!

 

[LiveYourDream]

Talk too much

 

[LiveYourDream]

Lazy

 

[LiveYourDream]

Bad with Money

 

[SmooveMooves]

Bad with Money

Are you a lesbian?