Do you think about the other guys?

[Glumix]

I make it known that I don't care, whether its obvious or not to her. I don't worry about whether it's covert or overt as long she gets the idea that I don't care. Certainly, I wouldn't scream in her face saying "I DON'T CARE!" but I just simply look at her, give a straight face, maybe sometimes a slight smile and say "That's nice to know" or I'll say "cool", or sometimes I might tease her and say "Oh, you get all the guys don't you?" in a jokey tone.

The key is to act indifferent. You're supposed to be unfazed by what she said; as if it had no effect on you. Fortunately, I don't have to put up an act because I really don't care.

I don't think you should stress it. As long as you get the message around that you don't care (in a manner that's not angry) you should be fine.

That remind me of a nice conversation I had with a GF like that who tried to rub her ex and other guys at my face. I told her: "Good to know." she answered : "So you don't care if I fvck other guys?", me: "Nop, as long as you don't tell me. I won't tell you what I do neither.".

She then went crazy: "SO YOU FVCK OTHER GIRLS?!?! HOW CAN I TRUST YOU NOW?!?"...

Me: "How can I trust you?"
She: "But you've just told me you don't care! I DO CARE!"

That's the big difference between LTR material and FB. As soon as they ****-test you with some other guys it's over. Trust is gone forever. If she does that ONCE and you keep her, you are going to be cheated on and they will always justify themselves with the fact that you didn't care.

I think it's Colossus who have that saying in his signature: "You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."- Eric Hoffer

Sh!t-tests are just a demonstration of what a girl really is. Her true nature. 99% of women have low self-esteem and low self-confidence but not all of them are abusive.

 

[yungballa]

That remind me of a nice conversation I had with a GF like that who tried to rub her ex and other guys at my face. I told her: "Good to know." she answered : "So you don't care if I fvck other guys?", me: "Nop, as long as you don't tell me. I won't tell you what I do neither.".

She then went crazy: "SO YOU FVCK OTHER GIRLS?!?! HOW CAN I TRUST YOU NOW?!?"...

Me: "How can I trust you?"
She: "But you've just told me you don't care! I DO CARE!"

That's the big difference between LTR material and FB. As soon as they ****-test you with some other guys it's over. Trust is gone forever. If she does that ONCE and you keep her, you are going to be cheated on and they will always justify themselves with the fact that you didn't care.

I think it's Colossus who have that saying in his signature: "You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."- Eric Hoffer

Sh!t-tests are just a demonstration of what a girl really is. Her true nature. 99% of women have low self-esteem and low self-confidence but not all of them are abusive.

To be honest, after reading this post you are right on. If a girl honestly liked you (in an LTR) I don't think she would risk the relationship with shoving other guys in your face. But in my case, I've never been in an LTR where a girl's tried that on me. Even with the LTR I had with my ex she had a bunch of guys on her IG page and sometimes she had guys text her and at times she would show me the messages, but she would just joke around saying they'll never get her, or sum like that. If anything, she hated when I accused her of other guys and she would be sometimes too jealous of me. I always made sure she was chasing me lol, so I wasn't really worried about her cheating. This was all one year ago, though. Back then I probably would care just a little bit if she was cheating or not, but I'd go straight on to the next girl. But if this was nowadays, I wouldn't give a fvck if she's cheating lol. Overtime, I've just come to learn the truth of the female nature and instead of getting all upset and **** I figure that I might aswell adapt and act accordingly towards their nature (act in ways which benefit me). Plus, I've been working on not letting anything disturb my peace of mind and it's been going real smooth. Anyways, back to the subject. I couldn't care less, I mean what else can you expect from most females? If I found out that she cheated I'd just go on to the next girl.


I'm gonna start using that, lmao. "Good to know" that's a nice one haha.

I'm gonna take your experience and keep it in mind. It makes sense. If a girl truly likes you, she won't risk the relationship by rubbing all the sh1t she has with guys in her face.

This occassion only happened to me once, but it wasn't a girl I was in any type of relationship with. It was just this random girl in my school (who I have no idea what the fvck she wanted from me) but she obviously didn't like me because she was showing me all these messages about these guys trying to text her. It was irritating, because I really couldn't care less.

The next girl that does this to me I won't even answer what she says lol, I'm just gonna change the subject.

 

[AllDay85]

That remind me of a nice conversation I had with a GF like that who tried to rub her ex and other guys at my face. I told her: "Good to know." she answered : "So you don't care if I fvck other guys?", me: "Nop, as long as you don't tell me. I won't tell you what I do neither.".

She then went crazy: "SO YOU FVCK OTHER GIRLS?!?! HOW CAN I TRUST YOU NOW?!?"...

Me: "How can I trust you?"
She: "But you've just told me you don't care! I DO CARE!"

That's the big difference between LTR material and FB. As soon as they ****-test you with some other guys it's over. Trust is gone forever. If she does that ONCE and you keep her, you are going to be cheated on and they will always justify themselves with the fact that you didn't care.

I think it's Colossus who have that saying in his signature: "You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."- Eric Hoffer

Sh!t-tests are just a demonstration of what a girl really is. Her true nature. 99% of women have low self-esteem and low self-confidence but not all of them are abusive.

No, worrying about other guys ****s breeds insecurity... don't worry about that sh1t. Just go and find yourself a VIRGIN because dating a girl that isn't a virgin is a sign of a low status male. Only rats like to play in the dumpster.

To be honest, after reading this post you are right on. If a girl honestly liked you (in an LTR) I don't think she would risk the relationship with shoving other guys in your face. But in my case, I've never been in an LTR where a girl's tried that on me. Even with the LTR I had with my ex she had a bunch of guys on her IG page and sometimes she had guys text her and at times she would show me the messages, but she would just joke around saying they'll never get her, or sum like that. If anything, she hated when I accused her of other guys and she would be sometimes too jealous of me. I always made sure she was chasing me lol, so I wasn't really worried about her cheating. This was all one year ago, though. Back then I probably would care just a little bit if she was cheating or not, but I'd go straight on to the next girl. But if this was nowadays, I wouldn't give a fvck if she's cheating lol. Overtime, I've just come to learn the truth of the female nature and instead of getting all upset and **** I figure that I might aswell adapt and act accordingly towards their nature (act in ways which benefit me). Plus, I've been working on not letting anything disturb my peace of mind and it's been going real smooth. Anyways, back to the subject. I couldn't care less, I mean what else can you expect from most females? If I found out that she cheated I'd just go on to the next girl.


I'm gonna start using that, lmao. "Good to know" that's a nice one haha.

I'm gonna take your experience and keep it in mind. It makes sense. If a girl truly likes you, she won't risk the relationship by rubbing all the sh1t she has with guys in her face.

This occassion only happened to me once, but it wasn't a girl I was in any type of relationship with. It was just this random girl in my school (who I have no idea what the fvck she wanted from me) but she obviously didn't like me because she was showing me all these messages about these guys trying to text her. It was irritating, because I really couldn't care less.

The next girl that does this to me I won't even answer what she says lol, I'm just gonna change the subject.

So listen, I was with the plate in question last night. She tried to go full exclusive again, this time really brought her A-Game on me. I held firm and told her I didn't want that and that she missed her chance. I was completely honest with her.

I murdered it at 1 am for an hour and a half, again at 4am, at 830 am and bent her over at 1pm before I left the hotel. Sent her packing and going nc for a couple days. Will see what texts I get. But feel fine. Didn't think about it at all thankfully.

 

[J Roc]

If you're not exclusive and both spinning plates, does it ever gross you guys out knowing some other guy smashed that recently? Just curious.

Do you think about all the guys that used the toilet before you in the public bathroom?

 

[yungballa]

Do you think about all the guys that used the toilet before you in the public bathroom?

That's the thing: You don't give a fvck, and you're not supposed to. You go to the bathroom to do your business (and hopefully, you're only worried about your business) and you get the fvck out.

That's how it should be with girls. Do your business, don't care about the others. Only worry about your business with her, then when you're done leave.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

damn dude how many plates do you have?!?

Sorry, just seen your reply to my post right now.. I'm currently at 6. After taking some of my bro's advice', I'm going to cut back and only juggle 3-4 in the future though .. Just because it's easier to manage my time like that.

 

[Muscle brain]

I don´t think about it! Because it make no sense anyway and it´s not in my control.
If a Plate Fvck around she´s totally free to do what she wants.
And i tell her so, and that keep them coming back.
They know that i have other options.
I make them compete for the "D".
Every Plate a Fvck Once they leave my place i got a Text like:
"It was awesome! When are we seeing use again?"