*****: Abandon all hope, ye who enter here

[backbreaker]

This all started back in August. One of my horse racking friends met a woman who was his neighboor who was kinda cute and took a liking to him. This guy, while not rich, was definatliy not poor. He was in real estate and was damn good at his job. Hard working guy, if you told me he went on a 1k bender with coke and a hooker i wouldn't be surprised lol, but not something he did often. he worked hard and he played hard.

Anyway this girl introduces him to meth. That thre, like, i don't mean she did meth i mean she started trying to sell it to him lol. okay. flag 1,2,3 and 4 right there. run. then he meets her best friend, who is literally a prostitute. who also introduces him to pretty much every other drug you can think of besides heroin.

within 2 months he was taking bars to calm down then taking skate to stay up to work.


despite the fact that she believe it or not, was a RN lol, and a drug pusher, she managed to get evicted from her apartment for non payment so of course, she moves in with her. he's like me in the sense that i don't like a lto of **** going on at once. i like my piece and quite. now he's got random dudes coming over buying drugs, people shooting up in his house and **** like that **** is normal.



so by now i'm seirously worried. i used to go over udde's house and watch racing and **** now i am afraid who the **** is going to be over there. i'm like bro look. this ***** got to go lol. i odn't care how good the sex is. do you not realize that everyone around her doesn't have a job now lol? her best friend is a escort and she has 3 kids, and literally all three are in jail.


of course i don't understand she's just falling on hard times.
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fast forward now... he's still somehow got his job, but he's spending way too much on drugs, he's getting caught up in all types of drama and has anexity, legit anexity to the point now that he has to take xanax because it's so much **** going on around him.


and today he calls me crying and **** because he found out (gasp) she's cheating on him. no **** ! a girl that sells meth, has an escort as a best friend and doesn't have a job is a cheater! color me shocked lol.


there comes a point.. when honestly you are just better off being single. there are worse things on earth then being single.


"The most important thing to me with a woman, probably even more so than how she looks is how much drama she ads to my life. i do not do drama whatsoever. i got too much **** to worry about. ewvery time you see this girl something is going on, someone robbed this person or this person talking **** about that person. There are problems you can fix and there are problems you can't fix. This is a very fixible problem. kick the ***** out lol

 

[zekko]

That's a sad tale. You're obviously right he needs to kick her out, but my concern is if she's a vindictive b!tch or something, maybe she might plant something on him and get him in trouble. Or do who knows what? A woman like that is not going to have too many scruples.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

that there puzzy is the most addictive and life destroying drug on gods green earth.

every time I hear a tale like this I KNOW this is what Homer was writing about with Odysseus and the Sirens

You thought the leaden winter would bring you down forever,
But you rode upon a steamer to the violence of the sun.

And the colours of the sea bind your eyes with trembling mermaids,
And you touch the distant beaches with tales of brave Ulysses,
How his naked ears were tortured by the sirens sweetly singing,
For the sparkling waves are calling you to kiss their white laced lips.

And you see a girl's brown body dancing through the turquoise,
And her footprints make you follow where the sky loves the sea.
And when your fingers find her, she drowns you in her body,
Carving deep blue ripples in the tissues of your mind.

The tiny purple fishes run laughing through your fingers,
And you want to take her with you to the hard land of the winter.

Her name is Aphrodite and she rides a crimson shell,
And you know you cannot leave her for you touched the distant sands
With tales of brave Ulysses, how his naked ears were tortured
By the sirens sweetly singing.

The tiny purple fishes run lauging through your fingers,
And you want to take her with you to the hard land of the winter.

 

[Glumix]

that there puzzy is the most addictive and life destroying drug on gods green earth.

every time I hear a tale like this I KNOW this is what Homer was writing about with Odysseus and the Sirens

You thought the leaden winter would bring you down forever,
But you rode upon a steamer to the violence of the sun.

And the colours of the sea bind your eyes with trembling mermaids,
And you touch the distant beaches with tales of brave Ulysses,
How his naked ears were tortured by the sirens sweetly singing,
For the sparkling waves are calling you to kiss their white laced lips.

And you see a girl's brown body dancing through the turquoise,
And her footprints make you follow where the sky loves the sea.
And when your fingers find her, she drowns you in her body,
Carving deep blue ripples in the tissues of your mind.

The tiny purple fishes run laughing through your fingers,
And you want to take her with you to the hard land of the winter.

Her name is Aphrodite and she rides a crimson shell,
And you know you cannot leave her for you touched the distant sands
With tales of brave Ulysses, how his naked ears were tortured
By the sirens sweetly singing.

The tiny purple fishes run lauging through your fingers,
And you want to take her with you to the hard land of the winter.

Ulysses wanted to hear the songs of the Sirens. So he prepared himself to do that.

That's the tale of every man.

You have to prepare your life before you welcome a woman in it. Because she is going to sing you sweet songs and if you are not securely tied to your mast you are going to dive and drown.

 

[Tictac]

You can blame women for all sorts of stuff. You may even believe it.

Stringing yourself out on drugs is a personal choice.

 

[Sprayarc]

This all started back in August. One of my horse racking friends met a woman who was his neighboor who was kinda cute and took a liking to him. This guy, while not rich, was definatliy not poor. He was in real estate and was damn good at his job. Hard working guy, if you told me he went on a 1k bender with coke and a hooker i wouldn't be surprised lol, but not something he did often. he worked hard and he played hard.

Anyway this girl introduces him to meth. That thre, like, i don't mean she did meth i mean she started trying to sell it to him lol. okay. flag 1,2,3 and 4 right there. run. then he meets her best friend, who is literally a prostitute. who also introduces him to pretty much every other drug you can think of besides heroin.

within 2 months he was taking bars to calm down then taking skate to stay up to work.


despite the fact that she believe it or not, was a RN lol, and a drug pusher, she managed to get evicted from her apartment for non payment so of course, she moves in with her. he's like me in the sense that i don't like a lto of **** going on at once. i like my piece and quite. now he's got random dudes coming over buying drugs, people shooting up in his house and **** like that **** is normal.



so by now i'm seirously worried. i used to go over udde's house and watch racing and **** now i am afraid who the **** is going to be over there. i'm like bro look. this ***** got to go lol. i odn't care how good the sex is. do you not realize that everyone around her doesn't have a job now lol? her best friend is a escort and she has 3 kids, and literally all three are in jail.


of course i don't understand she's just falling on hard times.
[

fast forward now... he's still somehow got his job, but he's spending way too much on drugs, he's getting caught up in all types of drama and has anexity, legit anexity to the point now that he has to take xanax because it's so much **** going on around him.


and today he calls me crying and **** because he found out (gasp) she's cheating on him. no **** ! a girl that sells meth, has an escort as a best friend and doesn't have a job is a cheater! color me shocked lol.


there comes a point.. when honestly you are just better off being single. there are worse things on earth then being single.


"The most important thing to me with a woman, probably even more so than how she looks is how much drama she ads to my life. i do not do drama whatsoever. i got too much **** to worry about. ewvery time you see this girl something is going on, someone robbed this person or this person talking **** about that person. There are problems you can fix and there are problems you can't fix. This is a very fixible problem. kick the ***** out lol

You should stay away because of your past. I've heard meth is way better than crack.

 

[YawataNoKami]

 

[Slickster]

Why would you even associate with these people?

 

[backbreaker]

I've tried meth. not really my thing. a person either likes crack or meth but rarely if ever both. two totally different types of highs.

man you could put an once of blow in front of me today and it would not effect me in the least bit lol.


dude was tellig me how she was tossing his salad and **** and i mean, she was putting it on him


i mean, i have met her and... i can see WHY he likes her. she's cute. she's actually very nice. she's a very traditioanl woman that other than the drugs and ****, this forum would love. she cooks, she goes grocery shopping for him, does his laundry all that **** and i mean she's smart enough to be an RN. she's not lazy and doesn't ask him for anything really.


I personally think she has a legit personality disorder. extremely scatterbrained. she can't function if there is not any drama around her.

She's the type of girl that i think if you moved her and put her on lexapro in 2 months her life would be pretty normal. but it's not lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

Where the fvck have you been lately? I thought you were boycotting the new sosuave.

 

[penkitten]

I was worried someone trampled you at the track.

 

[backbreaker]

if i had to give one piece of advice to anyone, please for the love of god, never, ever EVER get involved with a woman who does any drugs harder than alcohol or weed.


it's not the woman retaliating i'm worried about. At the end of the day she's an RN and wont' do anything to get a felony on her record.

It's the dude that was supplying her **** that knows where he lives and posts up there now and rocks up dope in his kitchen lol that i dont' see how he's going to get out of. i don't see how he gets out of this situtation without some **** going down and i feel bad for him but i told him.

Where the fvck have you been lately? I thought you were boycotting the new sosuave.

a wife, 2 kids and a business bro lol.

 

[LiveYourDream]

My understanding is that chronic meth use inspires paranoia, bit by bit, up to full paranoid delusions in some.

What if your friend, told his 'girlfriend' that he was approached by one of his neighbors who was trying to give him a heads up and protect him. The neighbor told him how a friend/young relative saw the dealer or the dealer's vehicle and identified him as a meth dealer, to a different neighbor the kid was there visiting.

The supposed kid could be someone who is now clean and how the kid couldn't stop talking about how they knew some other friends that knew these people too and was positive they all did meth.

This neighbor warns/confronts your friend that this other neighbor has now told other neighbors. Now the whole neighborhood is now concerned, suspicious and actively on the look out, and agreed to call the cops if they see anything even slightly suspicious. They are even talking about setting up a formal neighborhood watch group.

Feed the girlfriends paranoia so she tells her dealer and his paranoia spins. Have your friend confirm it back to the dealer when he asks. Explain further that the neighbors are being really weird now and watching everything he does and who comes in and out of his house.

Build their paranoia. Drive them to suggest that coming to his house now is just too risky (and paranoia inducing) as the neighbors are always watching and ready to call the cops, because now they all suspect and have been told that these people/vehicles are associated with meth.

Perhaps, they will decide best to go use somewhere else and not risk a potential confrontation with the cops.

Have your friend slow down contact. If they call him out on it, he can say that it's not just his neighbors but now someone at his work or another friend has figured it out too somehow. He can explain he has to back off, or quit, as they have threatened his job or exposing him publicly as a meth user.

Spin the fear in the others and feed their own paranoia of being caught/exposed so that they decide your friend is not someone they want to hang out with anymore.

Just an idea that motivates them to leave your friend, if that's what he feels would be a safer exit, for him in the long run.

If he's addicted too (to meth, to her or sex with her while on meth) despite what he tells you, he may not be looking for an exit.

He might spin stories with you, even if you've been good friend for a long time. Often people addicted to meth will sacrifice the people and things they once cared about beyond words, just to keep using.

Do NOT think you are immune just because of the friendship you had before he started down this path. Do NOT think he won't lie to you, just because he has no reason to. Using meth can change people in ways that one would never imagine, unless you have been through it.

Watch your own back!

 

[Sprayarc]

Never ever date women who currently or previously has had substance abuse problems with alcohol or hard drugs.