Tried something different last Friday...

[RangerMIke]

I haven't been to a 'club', unless it was with my nephew looking for help with his game in YEARS. But, last Friday after an event I went to place in the Warehouse District of NOLA.

There were very few people their my age, or in my what I consider perfect strike zone (women in their mid to late 30s) were absent. It was just 20 something girls so I thought I would try something different not expecting any real results. I treated them pretty much the same as I treat all women I'm talking to but did things a little different... I approached four women I'll describe what I did and how they responded.

(# 1) HB7, (But truth is for me she was a 10, Tall Redhead, thin) Mid 20s, based on convo, really smart. She was hard to open but eventually talked quite a bit, garnered a lot of info for future use. I spent A LOT of time with her... talked more than I should, and intentionally let her know I was VERY interested in her, normally I would just play it indifferent to gauge interest, but I wanted to try something different, and came off as a bit needy.

(# 2) HB6.5, young... early 20s. Definitely showed the most interest, I really didn't have to try hard with her, she did 90% of the talking, Jesus she really opened up to me and I pretty much have ALL the information I need going forward. I gamed her EXACTLY how I go after all women, no change to approach.

(# 3) HB8, Short, petite, Freaking HUGH rack, late 20s. Super nice body, but her face dropped he to an 8 she was surrounded by dudes. I had met her briefly at a business event with a business incubator I work with, and just walked up and hugged her asked her how she was... She remembered me, but I totally screwed up, because she immediately went into 'business mode', She ignored the other guys and started grilling me for free business advice (she was restructuring her company). My game switch switched off and I went into full on business mode (have to watch this about myself, this isn't the first time this has happened to me). Anyway the results I got were predictable.

(#4) HB8.5, nice figure, about 5'7", well dressed, late 20s. Normally this is the type of women I immediately approach, especially since I kept catching her looking at me. Usually all it takes is for me to lock eye contact one time and I'm off to the races, but since I was just out having fun I decided to ignore her and see what happens. I didn't approach her until we were both leaving and went up to talk to her out side as she was walking to her car. I didn't really say that much to her or game her at all, all I did was asked for her contact info.

What I did different with each woman was HOW I asked for her number. I usually just take out a business card and write her name and number on the back, if she'll give it to me. What I did this night was just open my contacts folder in my cell phone, hand the phone to her and say "Put your contact info in." Her is what I got....

#1: = Her name and email address and invite to connect on LinkedIn, later giving me her number through linked In message. She had to check my profile before she was sure, so apparently I might be worthy of her pu$$y.
#2: = Her name and cell phone number.
#3: = Complaint that she couldn't figure it out (LOL right) handed me business card.
#4: = Her name, her personal email, work email, home phone, and cell phone number (Jack Pot!).

I think I discovered a new way to gauge interest... has anyone else done this before? Just hand a woman your cell phone and see what happens? Based on this info I would grade interest level as follows:

#1: = 5
#2: = 7
#3: = -1 unless I can help her then up to 4
#4: = 8

 

[Skyline]

I personally ask how to spell their name and then just hand them my phone with the New Contact page open.

They seem to get the message and I haven't had a failure with that yet.

But it is still just a phone number at the end of the day.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

I honestly haven't, despite how cool and normal it sounds.

For me, numbers are the last thing on my mind since often I get so caught up in the convo/flirting/making out with a girl I don't think about the number. Somehow the number always come though. It's so fluid by now I dont even think about how i end up getting the numbers. I think more often I offer my number to them and they text me right away or later

WHat I love the most is when a girl offers you her phone number without you even asking. "Do you wnt to exchange numbers?" or "Well how are you going to call me?" .. "you want my number?" lol

 

[RangerMIke]

..... I think more often I offer my number to them and they text me right away or later

I thought about that, maybe I'll try that. Just give them your number, then grade IL based on if she contacts you. Always thought that was too passive but what the heck... maybe I'll try it and see what happens.

Anyway, this last Friday I didn't ask for a number, which is a departure from what I usually do. What I asked them was their contact info. Based on how much info they give me grade them. I was asking mostly the young guys since they are most often hitting up 20 somethings. I've always thought that all women should be treated the same, but I suspect that women in their late 30 early 40s would not respond positively to me handing them my phone and asking for contact info.

It appeared to work well with younger women. But we will see. I start calling and making date early next week. Will let all know how things work out.

 

[Floydispink01]

Yes I've done it also OP. I've just handed them my smartphone on the dial keypad, and let them type in their number and name without me asking. If they hesitate, a mini Mexican standoff occurs with me raising her with a slight smile.

'Don't be shy lady'.

 

[om1xr]

OP's method and skyline is what I use but numbers are just numbers filling your contact list and nothing more. If they say YES to the meeting/hanging out and reciprocate your sexual advances and can't wait to give you NSA sex then those numbers don't ****. and who knows her ******* and vaginal skills may be -2.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

I thought about that, maybe I'll try that. Just give them your number, then grade IL based on if she contacts you. Always thought that was too passive but what the heck... maybe I'll try it and see what happens.

Anyway, this last Friday I didn't ask for a number, which is a departure from what I usually do. What I asked them was their contact info. Based on how much info they give me grade them. I was asking mostly the young guys since they are most often hitting up 20 somethings. I've always thought that all women should be treated the same, but I suspect that women in their late 30 early 40s would not respond positively to me handing them my phone and asking for contact info.

It appeared to work well with younger women. But we will see. I start calling and making date early next week. Will let all know how things work out.

Hey works for me man. I will try your method though haha. Sounds cool.

 

[RangerMIke]

Update....

#4 is good to go. Jesus, I called her and she wouldn't get off the phone until we agreed to meet date set for Tuesday, interest level is VERY high. I under-estimated her interest, I think she's at a 9. Learned she was 27... speaks 4 languages, Portuguese, Spanish, English and Hebrew. Between the two of us we got the world covered since I speck French, German as well as English, this could work out nice... looking for a world traveling fvck buddy. So my guess is she is Jewish... no problem for me I was raised Catholic but my mother was Jewish.... so Jewish girls consider me Jewish...

Called #1 left message, will let you know how that goes... like I said, she is my perfect type.

Called #2.. left msg, She texted me back asking me to a concert next week that she is performing in. Haven't decided if I'm going just yet.

Only got business card for #3... not calling her.