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TheGambino

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I know this girl for about 10 years, (middle school then we lost contact)

We got in contact again and she knows i got my new business up and running.

We dated for about 3 times, and 9 months ago she didn't text or call me back a period so I moved on and ignored her. She started to text me for weeks everyday with questionmarks where I was and why I chose to ignore her, e v e r y day!

I moved on, my game was strong and I had a couple of plates going on.

Now I got basically no plates.

We dated a week ago and it was fun!

She ignored my texts again and then she called me out of the blue and visited my office. We had a small chit chat and she left.

3 days ago I texted her she didn't replie but still opens up my snaps.

I called her yesterday once, no answer.

Until today no replies from her. I think she read the fancy glossy magazines about boys that ignore you and understands that she has to do the same to me. She has a lot of girl friends too who could tell her that.

I know I shouldn't reach out to her at all, but what if she calls me out of the blue again to test my interest level.

any thoughts?
 

LiveYourDream

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She is not worth another thought from you. She in no way deserves or is worthy of your time and attention in anyway. NEXT!
There are about 3 billion other women on the planet. If they were lined up at your door would you waste a moment thinking about this one? Act accordingly.
 

yungballa

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I see sh1t like this on the forums alot, but still I'll help you.

She doesn't like you and is just texting you back to see if she still has a hold on you. Simple. Nothing more nothing less. Don't trouble yourself with her. She's trying to see if she still has a grip on you just to validate herself and feed her ego. Keep in mind that when a girl breaks contact with you and keeps trying to reinitiate, then breaks it again and keeps reinitiating, she's most likely playing with you and trying to feed her ego.

Now, fellas, WE ALL KNOW what true interest looks like. If a girl is TRULY interested in you, she will make it VERY obvious. She has no need to play games or send mixed signals or any of the sort, or even break contact and reinitiate. Like I said, we all know what real interest is.

Don't waste your time anymore, my friend. I listed the reasons why she MOST LIKELY doesn't like you. Take this piece of information with you. A lot of girls in this day and age just use men to fuel their ego, even if they don't like them! A cruel game, huh? Don't give her the chance to validate herself/feed her ego! Just ignore her, NEXT her, and take up the opportunity to meet some MORE women.
 

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If she still goes out with you when you ask her, then don't move on. The only time I walk away from a woman is if I can't get her on a date. Grading women by how much they text or don't text makes no sense.

Her ignoring you is apparently working, since you are sitting around wondering what is going on. Again keep asking her out until she won't date or fvck you... then you know where you stand.
 
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She's clearly into you but playing mind games .. That's such a typical thing for girls who know they're more needy for the guy than he is for her.

Have fun with it.. Have 0 cares.. and keep it super basic (meaning don't give her any attention/suggestion).. When you're out, let herknow if she wants to come. If she does, cool, if she doesn't, no care.
 

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Pump and dump material right there. I think you should check out Anti-dump material to get a freshen up lesson about Yes girls / Maybe girls and No girls.
But as Ranger said if she says Yes to the date, Yes to the kiss, Yes to the fvck then you should even be bothering texting her anyway unless you want to meet her. and what do you mean by this:
We got in contact again and she knows i got my new business up and running.
you mean she did get in touch mainly because of that, I know girls chase and want guys with some kind of value and that's natural but I wouldn't want to waste my time on a girl that kind of opportunistic.

Ignore until she reach out and then push for the meet or invite her for some sexy time if you are still interested in her of course
 

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She is not worth another thought from you. She in no way deserves or is worthy of your time and attention in anyway. NEXT!
There are about 3 billion other women on the planet. If they were lined up at your door would you waste a moment thinking about this one? Act accordingly.
Seriously, she's a waste of your time. You have better things to do than to play games with girls that are not into you.
 
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