Rejection has started effecting my game and confidence

[sunnykhatri736]

I have approached 70-80 women now in last 2 months and i havent got any number yet. But the thing is my conversation didnt lasted for more then 5 minutes or so . Either her friend comes or she has to leave.
Im able to build connection , comfort and attraction . But no number close yet and this thing is affecting my confidence now and im able to approach hb5 or hb6 within 3-4 seconds but im not able to approach any HB8 or above. I become nervous in front of HB8 or above. And with HB5 and HB6 im able to talk and do conversation with her but not able to talk to HB8 . I become nervours and confidence lowers down.
How to overcome these problems

 

[RangerMIke]

You are doing fine... keep approaching women until it doesn't bother you. But your success rate is terrible, If you approached 70 women and asked for their numbers you should have gotten a few, you must be coming across as creepy. Get a trusted friend, have him watch you and give you feedback on your approach. Pay attention to the visual body language cues these women are giving you and tell us what they are, then i might be able to give you better feedback.

1. What is she doing when you approach her.
2. What do you say to her to open.
3. What is her BL when you do this.
4. What are her facial expressions, is she looking right at you or looking around.
5. How does she say no to you, or is she giving you fake numbers.
6. You mentioned her friends... what are they doing when you approach them. Women use their friends to 'save' them from guys they don't like.

We need more data to give you better feedback.

 

[Alvafe]

I have approached 70-80 women now in last 2 months and i havent got any number yet. But the thing is my conversation didnt lasted for more then 5 minutes or so . Either her friend comes or she has to leave.
Im able to build connection , comfort and attraction . But no number close yet and this thing is affecting my confidence now and im able to approach hb5 or hb6 within 3-4 seconds but im not able to approach any HB8 or above. I become nervous in front of HB8 or above. And with HB5 and HB6 im able to talk and do conversation with her but not able to talk to HB8 . I become nervours and confidence lowers down.
How to overcome these problems

for girls you find hot, and get nervous no other way then keep talking till you are used to it, now you think youa re getting connection,comfort and atraction with a girl, thing is if it was true you would ahve get some numbers, so maybe you are looking too needy, guess the best case here is you fill us with some field reports, like Mike asked, so we can have more info, normally what we think is way off, and a outside perspective will give you the hints you need, whatching how you friends try to talk with girls can also help

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have approached 70-80 women now in last 2 months and i havent got any number yet. But the thing is my conversation didnt lasted for more then 5 minutes or so . Either her friend comes or she has to leave.
Im able to build connection , comfort and attraction . But no number close yet and this thing is affecting my confidence now and im able to approach hb5 or hb6 within 3-4 seconds but im not able to approach any HB8 or above. I become nervous in front of HB8 or above. And with HB5 and HB6 im able to talk and do conversation with her but not able to talk to HB8 . I become nervours and confidence lowers down.
How to overcome these problems

I've had those "problems", but it is usually when my own self confidence was not where it should be. The best way to overcome this fear of HB8 and up is to dramatically raise your own SMV. Instead of worrying about "HOT GIRLS", let them worry about the "HOT GUY" or the "STUD" that you are. I wouldn't even mess with them right now while I restructure, my body, my game and my wardrobe. Bone as many of those HB5 and 6 that you can, it will raise and deepen your confidence base.

There will be a day when you don't look "up" to HB8 and above, but instead see them for the vain, wasteful, attention wh0res that they are.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

for girls you find hot, and get nervous no other way then keep talking till you are used to it, now you think youa re getting connection,comfort and atraction with a girl, thing is if it was true you would ahve get some numbers, so maybe you are looking too needy, guess the best case here is you fill us with some field reports, like Mike asked, so we can have more info, normally what we think is way off, and a outside perspective will give you the hints you need, whatching how you friends try to talk with girls can also help

I think he is too "thirsty" for these HB8, has too low view of himself, and is putting them on a pedestal like a high level manager or boss of him. He needs to change his viewpoint.

 

[Alvafe]

I think he is too "thirsty" for these HB8, has too low view of himself, and is putting them on a pedestal like a high level manager or boss of him. He needs to change his viewpoint.

with will take time, and till then he need to get used to then, like you said he think too much of then and think in back of his mind if not upfront, he don't have a shot, and hnce his posture and way he look at her tells it, there is no magical way of fixing it unless he get used to it, talk with more people, read more and have more ways to bring up interesting conversations

 

[sunnykhatri736]

And when i said " her friends come " it means she is waiting for them and they are about to come and as she is sitting or standing at one place and is stationary set i go n approach her and in between of approaching her friend comes and she has to leave.
I mostly do it in metro trains or stations as i go to college in metro . This is how 90% of my conversations go like :
Me : are you going to delhi university ?
Her : no
Me : then where are u going ?
Her : ( mentions her station name )
Me : u are coming back from college /job ?
Her : yes job / college
Me : really ?? Where do u work/study ?
Her : mentions the name
Me : i really like ur shoes, or her jacket depending upon what she is wearing
Her : hahaha thankyou ( smiling )
Me : whats ur name and where are u from
(This is the point where i start my game with her )
Her : tells her name and place
Me : u like dancing ?
Her : yeah
Me : hold her hand and dances for 5-6 seconds
Her : ( blushing )
Me : guess my name ?
Her : haha i dont know
Me : james bond
Her : hahaha
Me : its sunny , guess what i might be doing ?
Her: engineer ?
Me : haha yes so true.
Me : u have any hobbies ?
Her : mention her hobbies
I continue talking like this till her station comes and sometimes i dont even ask her number and she gives me a hug and says it was nice meeting u and then leaves.
In some cases when i ask her number i say " give me ur number so that we can stay in touch or so that we can hangout together again "
Her : sorry i dont give number to strangers or a normal sorry i cant give u my number i hardly know u .

So this is how 90% of my conversations go when i approach them.
Now u guys know how i approach women and my game.
So now give ur feedback and advices and tell me where im going wrong and how to correct it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

And when i said " her friends come " it means she is waiting for them and they are about to come and as she is sitting or standing at one place and is stationary set i go n approach her and in between of approaching her friend comes and she has to leave.
I mostly do it in metro trains or stations as i go to college in metro . This is how 90% of my conversations go like :
Me : are you going to delhi university ?
Her : no
Me : then where are u going ?
Her : ( mentions her station name )
Me : u are coming back from college /job ?
Her : yes job / college
Me : really ?? Where do u work/study ?
Her : mentions the name
Me : i really like ur shoes, or her jacket depending upon what she is wearing
Her : hahaha thankyou ( smiling )
Me : whats ur name and where are u from
(This is the point where i start my game with her )
Her : tells her name and place
Me : u like dancing ?
Her : yeah
Me : hold her hand and dances for 5-6 seconds
Her : ( blushing )
Me : guess my name ?
Her : haha i dont know
Me : james bond
Her : hahaha
Me : its sunny , guess what i might be doing ?
Her: engineer ?
Me : haha yes so true.
Me : u have any hobbies ?
Her : mention her hobbies
I continue talking like this till her station comes and sometimes i dont even ask her number and she gives me a hug and says it was nice meeting u and then leaves.
In some cases when i ask her number i say " give me ur number so that we can stay in touch or so that we can hangout together again "
Her : sorry i dont give number to strangers or a normal sorry i cant give u my number i hardly know u .

So this is how 90% of my conversations go when i approach them.
Now u guys know how i approach women and my game.
So now give ur feedback and advices and tell me where im going wrong and how to correct it.

I think it's too much talking. Observe something in her and get her talking about herself. I found it was easiest to target women who already did a double or triple take on me. I would get them talking and get a phone # in a few minutes.

 

[skinnyguy]

Cold approach is creepy. The fact that you approach that much means you pedestalize women.

Even if you get a number chances are she won't respond unless you're very good looking.

Join a club that promotes your strengths. Women respond well when they see you in a position of power.