"perfect" girls for a LTR

[pyros]

how the f*** do I get a girl like this: https://scontent-mad1-1.xx.fbcdn.ne...=4143204981418a3fd102ec91ee853016&oe=570AA66B


I mean, a chick who is under 25, nice face and body, studies something, has a normal family, and is not covered with tattoos. You know, the kind of girl that seems 'perfect' (of course she isnt, but is high quality for any guy).

My main places to meet chicks are latin clubs because I dance salsa quite ok, so I go there at the weekends with a friend or two, but in the last year I've had very little success, and when I've had some success, it's been with low quality girls, or at least not proper girls for a LTR.
By low quality I mean girls that I may find attractive but their lives are fvcked up, or they have ok lives, nice personality but are not above a 6...or they fulfill everything but have kids or are too old...you know.

It seems I can get chicks like the one in the pic but it is pretty damn hard and it happens every few years or more...it is getting sad. And even when I've "dated" a girl like the one in the pic, I've had always to have higher value than her, either because she was broke and I wasnt, because I was a foreigner (more attractive), or because I could teach her something...

Anyway, in the last couple of years I've been struggling because of different events in my life so eventhough I am better now, I have still a few problems.


Thoughts?

 

[AttackFormation]

Where do you live?

 

[mental blockstack]

Supermarket, book store, places like that. Make it a spur-of-the-moment kind of mystery romantic drama in her mind. Cherish your 1-2 years with her before she decides to embark on her slut phase.

-experience

 

[LiveFreeX]

Perfect example of guy who dates a 'foreign' local and ends up broken hearted when he finds out she's actually a princess.

 

[Desdinova]

Cherish your 1-2 years with her before she decides to embark on her slut phase.

This is the sad reality of it all. Getting this kind of mileage out of a young woman is about as good as it gets. You might be able to get a few more out of her if you put a ring on her finger. The sad reality is today's women are no longer lifelong investments. They are only temporary pleasures.

 

[wifehunter]

Cherish your 1-2 years with her before she decides to embark on her slut phase.

Keep her interested, and I doubt she'll go through any "phase".

 

[Armourhead]

This is the sad reality of it all. Getting this kind of mileage out of a young woman is about as good as it gets. You might be able to get a few more out of her if you put a ring on her finger. The sad reality is today's women are no longer lifelong investments. They are only temporary pleasures.

This x1000

Even virgins who worship you like a god will eventually wake up to how easy they have it in the sexual marketplace

 

[parkthebus]

How are you expecting to go to clubs to find a good quality Mrs? Sure they'll be there sometimes but the top quality girls aren't going clubbing every weekend.

 

[LiveFreeX]

The sad reality is today's women are no longer lifelong investments. They are only temporary pleasures

1st world women, rich spoiled princesses. The reason you see so many is that America/Canada have become spoiled nations so all the women are basically princesses. Look at the new gen of millennial men, they resemble faggots but somehow aren't... its not just the women. If you want a better quality woman you have to literally go to a poorer nation. If you are a foreigner, you should go back to your foreign land and stay away from the rich folks... only rich foreigners speak English.

 

[AllDay85]

You're living in a fantasy world bro. Truth is, hypergamy doesn't give a **** about your feelings.

If you want the right woman, run every woman you meet through anti-dumps machine

 

[Maximus Rex]

how the f*** do I get a girl like this:

Approach women that look like that.

 

[logicallefty]

1st world women, rich spoiled princesses. The reason you see so many is that America/Canada have become spoiled nations so all the women are basically princesses. Look at the new gen of millennial men, they resemble faggots but somehow aren't... its not just the women. If you want a better quality woman you have to literally go to a poorer nation. If you are a foreigner, you should go back to your foreign land and stay away from the rich folks... only rich foreigners speak English.

I don't know this from first hand experience, just thinking of other stories I have heard, and one guy I know.. That even if an American male went to another country and found a good woman, if he truly wanted her for life to marry, have kids with etc, he would need to keep her in her own country. I think that bringing her to America would immediately and slowly start to infest her with b|tch syndrome, and in 5-10 years, she would be just another Americanized cvnt no better than the women already here. I hope I am wrong, I really do...

 

[CuddleJunkie]

I don't know this from first hand experience, just thinking of other stories I have heard, and one guy I know.. That even if an American male went to another country and found a good woman, if he truly wanted her for life to marry, have kids with etc, he would need to keep her in her own country. I think that bringing her to America would immediately and slowly start to infest her with b|tch syndrome, and in 5-10 years, she would be just another Americanized cvnt no better than the women already here. I hope I am wrong, I really do...

Yeah, all colected experiences about guys that came back with 3rd world cuties have this in common. It sucks lol

 

[AttackFormation]

^ This is what I suspect too, although like you guys I hope it can be defeated... but the truth is right in front of you. We know that a human's environment shapes it. If the woman became relatively better than the 1st world b!tch because of the environment she grew up in, it follows that the environment you bring her to can undo it...

 

[LiveFreeX]

I've heard this about a million times...

 

[Still Learning the Game]

From my experience if you want a quality girl for a LTR you need to look at her family, especially the father figure. If the father figure is a strong role model and head of the house, the girl will be pretty good.

In the past these girls would be of Greek ,Serbian, Italian, Portuguese, Polish, Russian, maybe rich latino families. But it now seems like these girls are "liberated". Today maybe you can only find these girls in communities such as Persian, arab/muslim, and Asian cultures. But they are very different to the white culture and religion is a big thing.

So basically if you want a Caucasian women you will be having a hard time finding a wife material girl. Sad times.

 

[EarlyRiser]

I agree with @mental blockstack, a casual, during the day, run-in is the way to find your LTR types

 

[amazingswayze]

how the f*** do I get a girl like this: https://scontent-mad1-1.xx.fbcdn.ne...=4143204981418a3fd102ec91ee853016&oe=570AA66B


I mean, a chick who is under 25, nice face and body, studies something, has a normal family, and is not covered with tattoos. You know, the kind of girl that seems 'perfect' (of course she isnt, but is high quality for any guy).

It seems I can get chicks like the one in the pic but it is pretty damn hard and it happens every few years or more...it is getting sad. And even when I've "dated" a girl like the one in the pic, I've had always to have higher value than her, either because she was broke and I wasnt, because I was a foreigner (more attractive), or because I could teach her something...

Anyway, in the last couple of years I've been struggling because of different events in my life so eventhough I am better now, I have still a few problems.


Thoughts?

Well OP, you certainly can have the type of girl you desire. Problem is, she's eventually gonna bang someone else.

 

[devilkingx2]

Make a list of things you absolutely, positively, cannot be without long term in a woman. (For example, id quickly get bored of any girl who doesn't have a high sex drive or who doesn't have a wide variety of sexual kinks or an open mind sexually)

And another list of things that you absolutely cannot deal with (such as girls with mental issues or addictions that they haven't completely 100% dealt with at least 3-5 years ago.)

Then just find a girl who checks off both lists and learn to deal with anything that isn't on the list (the smaller the two lists are, the easier it'll be to find a girl, but at the same time, the smaller the lists are the bigger the variety of girl you'll date and the more things you'll end up having to deal with)

If you run into too Many girls you don't like, add more to those lists, if you can't find any girl then take stuff off. Simple.

 

[logicallefty]

Make a list of things you absolutely, positively, cannot be without long term in a woman. (For example, id quickly get bored of any girl who doesn't have a high sex drive or who doesn't have a wide variety of sexual kinks or an open mind sexually)

And another list of things that you absolutely cannot deal with (such as girls with mental issues or addictions that they haven't completely 100% dealt with at least 3-5 years ago.)

Then just find a girl who checks off both lists and learn to deal with anything that isn't on the list (the smaller the two lists are, the easier it'll be to find a girl, but at the same time, the smaller the lists are the bigger the variety of girl you'll date and the more things you'll end up having to deal with)

If you run into too Many girls you don't like, add more to those lists, if you can't find any girl then take stuff off. Simple.

I love your optimism. But I take it you are not from the US?