So been no fapping for like 3 or for months

[cola]

So been on no fap for a minute now..

Here's what I like: When I get laid my erections are ROCK hard. I mean stronger than strong erections. Love that.

Here's what I dont like: Im CONSTANTLY in pursuit of vagina. I get some down time and I'm laying around horny as crap. I get to inboxing and texting old plates, new plates, Tindering .. Anything to get laid.

I feel like it effects my game poorly because I cant connec to a woman because all I want is her body..
They sense that.

Like I have no patients for small talk im like so are we screwing or not?
Any advice to control that so I can get the full benefits?

Also I dont feel like I get laid more on no fap. Its about the same. Actually a little less because now I'm so outcome dependent.
Like before if things didnt go well I could go home and beat it.. Dont have that option anymore

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So been on no fap for a minute now..

Here's what I like: When I get laid my erections are ROCK hard. I mean stronger than strong erections. Love that.

Here's what I dont like: Im CONSTANTLY in pursuit of vagina. I get some down time and I'm laying around horny as crap. I get to inboxing and texting old plates, new plates, Tindering .. Anything to get laid.

I feel like it effects my game poorly because I cant connec to a woman because all I want is her body..
They sense that.

Like I have no patients for small talk im like so are we screwing or not?
Any advice to control that so I can get the full benefits?

Also I dont feel like I get laid more on no fap. Its about the same. Actually a little less because now I'm so outcome dependent.
Like before if things didnt go well I could go home and beat it.. Dont have that option anymore

It's the right way to be. Men are supposed to be like this. If they take to the woman and care for her, he still may objectify her. Be happy it's working for you.

Start fapping again and bleed all this manhood out, won't take even a few weeks.

 

[cola]

You really think it's ok to be like that? I feel like before no fap I was less concerned with sex and didn't think about it as much.. And still got it. I could also take interest in a woman beyond sex and it made them WANT to give it to me now it's hard to..

Now on days its all I think of. I go to the gym, work, read so I do channel the energy. I feel too thirsty for sex. I don't like to feel like that.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You really think it's ok to be like that? I feel like before no fap I was less concerned with sex and didn't think about it as much.. And still got it. I could also take interest in a woman beyond sex and it made them WANT to give it to me now it's hard to..

Now on days its all I think of. I go to the gym, work, read so I do channel the energy. I feel too thirsty for sex. I don't like to feel like that.

Fvck more then, so it's not a big deal. Success begets success.

 

[cola]

I feel like you are a younger/new member.. Its so much more to this don juan lifestyle than sex..

Sex Is a by product of being a don juan not the end goal.

Let me rephrase this: I want to see these benefits of no fap everyone raves about without being a sex crazed maniac.

The increased confidence, muscle gains, women approaching me etc etc

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I feel like you are a younger/new member.. Its so much more to this don juan lifestyle than sex..

Sex Is a by product of being a don juan not the end goal.

Let me rephrase this: I want to see these benefits of no fap everyone raves about without being a sex crazed maniac.

The increased confidence, muscle gains, women approaching me etc etc

I didn't touch my c0ck except to urinate from 1990 thr 2007. It was because I had women who really liked me and sex was not a big deal. My confidence was sky hi. And after going thru a drought and bad relationships I realized how important it was for me for my females to be into me. Jagging off is stupid, it bleeds off motivation and rewards failure. Have a woman bless you.

 

[cola]

Bro are you drunk? Wtf are you talking about. That has nothing to do with my OP..

 

[Glumix]

The power is actually in not having s3x even though you are horny. The power is in the fact you can control yourself. That's what women really love because they will have to show some level of femininity before you allow yourself to fvck them. If you do not let them to do that you will be just another horny guy.

I personaly try to see the fact of being horny as s3x and try to enjoy it, feel the huge power inside of me. Being horny must be enjoyable.

 

[cola]

The power is actually in not having s3x even though you are horny. The power is in the fact you can control yourself. That's what women really love because they will have to show some level of femininity before you allow yourself to fvck them. If you do not let them to do that you will be just another horny guy.

I personaly try to see the fact of being horny as s3x and try to enjoy it, feel the huge power inside of me. Being horny must be enjoyable.

Good post, going to start trying to enjoy the feeling thanks bro

 

[pyros]

Being horny and thirsty is not a good thing. It makes you feel anxious, sad, with low confidence. It makes you objectify women even more than usual as the OP said, so you want results fast; you dont want to go on dates, or to get to know the girl...and all this creates an aura around you that women kind of 'sense'.

You feel masculine, happy and energetic when you have regular sex, you feel the opposite when you don't or you fap too much.

Not fapping for lon periods of time (more than 10 or 15 days) is useless.

In my personal experience, it is beneficial to not fap everyday, to just fap once every two weeks or so, and to not watch porn. Fapping to porn is the worst thing you can do. It affects your brain negatively. It makes you 'think' you're happy, that you've done your job (cause you got the sex right?) but you actually havent which in the end makes you feel like a loser.
Besides, it makes you have unrealistic expectations about women's bodies, so when you see an HB6.5 you do not even pay attention to her.

So in short, just fap every 10 to 15 days to release tension, and do not fap to porn.

Keep looking for girls.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Go play some computer games.

 

[Glumix]

I've never believed in no fap..........I simply see no advantage.

Being in a state of constant "thirst" goes against everything I have found help me attract women.

Removes your ability to be indifferent
Makes you outcome dependent
Gives her all the power

Interesting. I feel the exact opposite. Because I can manage my horniness internaly I am indifferent, don't care about the outcome and so I have all the power.

I can sexualize with no need for s3x.






.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Interesting. I feel the exact opposite. Because I can manage my horniness internaly I am indifferent, don't care about the outcome and so I have all the power.

I can sexualize with no need for s3x.






.

You won't have "thirst" if you are getting it. They can sniff it on you, and then you'll have no reason to "handle" yourself. Let a female "handle" you.

 

[pyros]

the thing is that if you fap too often you become indifferent so you dont feel like meeting chicks cause you dont 'need them'.
If you never fap you become horny as fvck which is bad. Also if you do not fap for very long periods of time...you become indifferent too. You've killed your sex drive so you dont need girls anymore.

Balance is key.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

You people give too much important to this no-fap stuff. Just be sure you don't have an addiction and you are jerking off every day 4 times. Anything else is non-sense. You can raise your T levels by lifting, going semi-paleo, taking zinc, whatever, it's not necessary to not ***.

 

[Lozboss]

How do you manage- I want to but I struggle to get past a week.

My erections have suffered due masturbation and often I don't ***.

that's quite candid but I'm generally interested.

ps. Mod- should this be in the health sub forum>?

 

[CuddleJunkie]

How do you manage- I want to but I struggle to get past a week.

My erections have suffered due masturbation and often I don't ***.

that's quite candid but I'm generally interested.

ps. Mod- should this be in the health sub forum>?

Look into jelqing, kegels and zinc. Also no-porn and edging may help.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Yeah I been on no fap for over a year, it almost like you gain superpowers girls come to you more often.

In your case you need a hobby be it playing an addictive videogame or catching up on a tv series, or like you said reading or writing.

If you don't fill up that time it will always end in failure because that sex drive will come up someway whether you use it for creative pursuits or being thirsty when it comes to women.

The hobbies is suppose to have the women adore you, do some traveling

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I did no fap for 6 months, the erections were harder i'll give it that. I was getting more female attention, but I am getting more now and I found once a day with out the porn.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Reason I stopped no fapped and I posted the experience on here was me ejaculating when I was making out with a chick and she grinded on me felt like a virgin hahahaha