PreachDon't believe the PUA BS... looks do matter... they tell their 'clients' BS like to sell them their services. "Come to a weekend boot-camp and all your problems go away."
There really is nothing wrong with those boot-camps, you can learn some stuff if you have trouble meeting and talking to women. But if you do not work on yourself, and try to look the best you can, and be in the best shape possible, your success will be limited.
Work out.... be in the best shape possible, don't smoke or drink too much. Eat well.
Dress the best you can... you don't have to wear expensive clothes, but what you have should fit you. Make sure you have your life in order, you keep your car, your body, and where you live CLEAN.
Get rid of your X-Box or PlayStation and use the time you wasted on that stupidity in actual self improvement... For the amount of time many people waste playing video games you can learn a new language.
Which PUA instructor said that?Don't believe the PUA BS... looks do matter... they tell their 'clients' BS like to sell them their services. "Come to a weekend boot-camp and all your problems go away."
They all have weekend bootcamps and are trying to sell you service. Name ONE PUA that would turn a client away saying "Hey... I'm not taking your money until you lose some weight, workout get in shape, get some better clothes and a life." No they teach game... because that is what you can do over a weekend or over the phone. They teach guys that you can overcome looks with game and confidence. You really can't. You NEED game and confidence, that is certain, but if you want to increase the quality of women that you can attract. you better be the best you can be.Which PUA instructor said that?
Not entirely trueThey all have weekend bootcamps and are trying to sell you service. Name ONE PUA that would turn a client away saying "Hey... I'm not taking your money until you lose some weight, workout get in shape, get some better clothes and a life." No they teach game... because that is what you can do over a weekend or over the phone. They teach guys that you can overcome looks with game and confidence. You really can't. You NEED game and confidence, that is certain, but if you want to increase the quality of women that you can attract. you better be the best you can be.
NO COACH or PUA can teach you to be a better person, that's totally on the individual.
Agree with your post up until this part.Get rid of your X-Box or PlayStation and use the time you wasted on that stupidity in actual self improvement... For the amount of time many people waste playing video games you can learn a new language.
Not sure about that, i think it depends on the language. Speaking Arabic or German would be pretty badass tbh. So would some African languages that have tongue clicks in their letters too. And maybe even some super ancient language that no one even uses anymore like Syriac or Latin. But I see your point.I'd personally rather play video games than learn a new language.
Enjoying yourself is important because it feels you with joy and bliss, it's great to work hard, but there is a balance.Agree with your post up until this part.
1) Time isn't "wasted" just because you're enjoying yourself. The key is moderation though.
2) In regards to learning a new language. If you're in a first world country, learning a new language can be a waste of time
Let me expand on 2. I'm in the United States. 99%+ of everyone I will ever meet speaks English. This is a luxury. There is no need for me to speak a different language. Now, if I decide to learn a new language just for funsies, to "improve" myself.... not only would I would have to put in a big effort to learn the language, I'd have to continually practice it. But practice it with who? Talk to myself?
I'd personally rather play video games than learn a new language.
1. Well I agree. I suppose my problem is that I really don't see any real enjoyment out of video games. When I have fun it's usually doing something like basketball in my over 40 league, golf, bowling, racquetball... biking, diving, surfing. I also like to build stuff, volunteer of Habitat for Humanity. I've always preferred to do physical stuff.... from a different time I suppose. We didn't have home video games until I was I guess in high school, and that was those old Attari pong cr@pola stuff, so I never developed a fondness for that.Agree with your post up until this part.
1) Time isn't "wasted" just because you're enjoying yourself. The key is moderation though.
2) In regards to learning a new language. If you're in a first world country, learning a new language can be a waste of time
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Dude, that statement is a complete 180 fromThey all have weekend bootcamps and are trying to sell you service. Name ONE PUA that would turn a client away saying "Hey... I'm not taking your money until you lose some weight, workout get in shape, get some better clothes and a life." No they teach game... because that is what you can do over a weekend or over the phone. They teach guys that you can overcome looks with game and confidence. You really can't. You NEED game and confidence, that is certain, but if you want to increase the quality of women that you can attract. you better be the best you can be.
NO COACH or PUA can teach you to be a better person, that's totally on the individual.
Don't believe the PUA BS... looks do matter... they tell their 'clients' BS like to sell them their services. "Come to a weekend boot-camp and all your problems go away."
Well there's a difference between knowing a bunch of words and phrases, and then learning the language. The latter requires a lot of commitment, especially when you have no compelling reason to speak said language like ever. For example, if I was to learn French I would basically need to go out of my way to regularly practice for no other reason than... to not forget it. Big hassle. But you bring up a good point about just learning key phrases so you can say basic things and be a cheeky bastard. I could see myself doing that.2. Speaking French has helped me out IMMENSELY with the ladies. Nothing says bad@ss better then yelling and cussing someone out in Russian or German. Working on Spanish now, in the US that is fast becoming VERY useful.
No it isn't. Or I don't see it, please be specific where these statements contradict? And I will try to clarify.Dude, that statement is a complete 180 from
From personal experience, Looks hold big time weight. The chick in the vid was probably in a horny state and prob hasnt gotten it good in a while so it excited her.looks don't matter, right guys? right?
legitthis video right here should make every single one of you want to hit the gym like your life depends on it