taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
If you can't figure this stuff out BEFORE you bone her, you're doing it wrong. No way to beat around the bush about that...No Kids, or she can have 1 kid but the kid MUST be by a guy like "me". What do I mean? It's basically a guy with this shyt together, college educated, etc., NOT a god damn thug, criminal, deadbeat, or something like that.
- Her finances needs to be together where she's either making as much as me or not that far from it. If I'm going to do something "serious/legal" with a chick like make a kid, I can't do that with a chick with bad finances as if she puts me on child support I'm screwed in terms of the proportion of support I would have to pay due to making significantly more than her. Now, because she's a woman, with this requirement should include her having some sort of degree as usually it will be hard for a woman to get to this level of financial stability without one.
This is directly related to YOU. If a girl has HIGH INTEREST in you, then she'll be loving and loyal. If she doesn't, she'll be "low quality."Loving and loyal. This is basically where she displays high interest, she's my real friend, she's caring and loyal.
This is the HEART of the false "low quality woman / high quality woman" dichotomy. IT DOES NOT EXIST.
Any woman that has HIGH INTEREST in you will act loyal and loving and supportive.
This is the root of your problem. You are NOT creating interest in women other than a fleeting desire to bone you.
The game required to generate the HIGH INTEREST which results in loyalty, caring, friendship, etc., is not even in the same UNIVERSE as the game required to get laid.
In fact, I would say that is more dependent on personality that one's level of game. Since if she likes YOU, it has to be the REAL YOU, not some behavioral techniques you "do" from time to time.
You are NOT generating deep feelings of emotions. You are not making them think about you when you are not around. You are not making them imagine a future with you in five or ten years. You are not getting them to imagine what kind of a father you'll be.
You are NOT making them "fall in love" with you. If a girl "falls in love" with you, she'll be loyal, caring, friend, etc.
(I'll bet Clyde thought Bonnie was a "high quality woman" since she was LOYAL to the end. I've seen their car with all the bullets).
You seem to think that "loyalty" "friendship" "caring" etc are TRAITS like being tall or short. They are not. They are highly DEPENDENT on the person they are with.
If you worked for a company that made sh!tty products and was losing money ever month, would YOU be a loyal employee?
If you worked for a company with HUGE upside potential, for both YOU and the company, would YOU be a loyal employee?
YOU are the company. The girls are the employees. They don't see YOU as somebody they WANT to be loyal to. To be caring about. To be friends with.
This AND your qualification problem. You keep dating unqualified girls.That is easy to do. Simply qualify them (based on what you said above) and DON'T date / bone them. Stop doing that and 90% of problems will vanish.