Field Rapport, how to proceed

TheGambino

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So guys, I've been very lucky. I met a businessman, he believes in me and we are starting a real estate office in a village where people with a lot of money come to shop and go to restaurants.

I went to a local restaurant to buy dinner for my painter.
This cute blonde girl was working at the bar. I ordered a spagetthi for my painter and started to talk to her. There were a lot of girls working there but my eyes were on her. Good convo. Told her I had to order food for my painter because I couldn't eat myself before having him dinner. She replied ''That's very nice of you''. Small talked more about my office and my business in the village. She told me what she did and asked me for my name and we had a casual talk about going out, christmas, NYE plans and she asked me where I was going that night.

I got my food gave, smiled and left the joint.

Two days later I was done working and decided to have dinner at the restaurant. Guess what, she was working.

I sat outside, ordered myself some drinks, made some phone calls and flirted with her when she was outside. (looking in her eyes and laughing)

Went inside and ordered food. She walked pass my a lot and asked several times ''is everything to your liking?''

Some older clients were eating next to me and the man started to talk to me. ''so still working so late sir?'' Had a fun talk with the couple about my business, Spain and their lives. I invited them to the opening of my office and got their email details. All the waitresses noticed and started to talk about my little fun talk with the regular clients of their restaurant.

The blonde girl passed me several times and gave me a big smile and looked in my eyes.

I wrote down my name, number and ''text me'' on a piece of paper. I asked to borrow a pen and put the pen with the paper on my table. I told her to come over so she would notice the paper and grab it. She looked at the pen and paper but she only picked up the pen. It was a bit akward afterwards and she walked around disoriented. Anyway I got my check, paid and went to the toilet. When I got back I ran intoo her. I figured ''fVck it I don't have sh1t to loose" I told her, ''Looking for a fun outgoing girl like you to promote my company, heres my number we could have a drink and I'll tell you more''. Left the joint again.

3 days later. She texts me. Hey its **** from the restaurant. Could you tell me more about your business, what did you mean exactley?

Her profile picture was with a good looking guy, holding him casually (could be her bf or brother if im very lucky, i give it 70% it's her bf--ignore that for now until im certain)

Me: Nice that your interested! Some blabla about my company and that I look for outgoing fun girl like her with a nice smile. If she wants to promote my company in a stand.

She said that she was looking for a serious job and that she's very busy with her current job and going to the gym. Told her lets have a drink sometime and talk it over. She said Ill think about it, ill for sure get back to you after new years eve.

Told her, I understand that you look for a challenge, I have to be sure that you CAN do that. You could help me help clients, do sales and Im sure that what I do is worth the time. Ok I'd like to year from you soon.

So... I decided to put it my chances casually until we meet up. I think she is interested because she flirted with me heavily before even knowing what I was doing.

She noticed me the last couple of days in a nice BMW, im certain. And she knows where my office is.

Guys, any thoughts how to proceed and overall thoughts on this approach.

Ofcourse I could use her for promotion anyway but Id like to close her as a plate near to my office, I need some good looking female support to meet new clients. But I want to lay her lol u guys know whatsup.
 
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So what do you want to do with her? Fck her or make her work for your company? It seems both of you are after something different.

You are since 2013 here. You should already know what a red flag is.
 

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Ofcourse I know what a red flag is. Her text opener is a red flag. But the thing is. IF she has a bf, her ASD could make her to start about the business. It would make her feel better to text me and she what's on my mind aswell. She gave me flirting signs before knowing about my job aswell and we were vibing right. So we might be looking for the same. I don't care about the promotion to be honest, I want to lay her. I can promote my company myself
 

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Dude it's not worth it. The chick is full of red flags in my opinion. You are gonna spent your time and your money if you are not smart enough for no reason.
 

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Don't lure girls with a job offer. That is creepy and dishonest.

Also, there was no rapport here. She treated you like a customer for the entire interaction. The interaction she had with you, she has nightly with multiple other people. The fact that you put your number down and just ignored it is a sign that she isn't dtf. The fact that she texted you when you said you had a job means that... she is looking for a job.

Instead of being that guy who ends up hiring a girl and ending up getting sued for sexual harassment, you should find a girl who you can try to have sex with without promising her a job and money.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Disappointing. This is so AFC it pains me to read it.

This is what "nice guys" do...they pretend to have other intentions with women when they really want to fvck them. And believe me, she already knows you want to fvck her.

Men who are too afraid to let women know their intentions aren't attractive to women. They want a man who goes for what they want, not pretending they want something else.

OP, this won't end well for you. If you want to date and fvck a woman don't pretend that you don't.
 

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Marmel has it right. This is AFC Max.

She's using you for attention and a new job.

Don't be an AFC.Ignore her and move on with your life. Learn from this.
 

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Oh dear. YOU are a red flag.

Let's see, she's a waitress doing her job: being chatty and friendly....she asked you was
everything to your liking ;) You don't eat out much do you?

You take that as IOI's.......ok fair enough....you take a chance and leave your number
beside the pen and call her over....I'd never leave my number...it's too much of a burden waiting
for a girl to call back......either get her number or ask her for a drink when she's finished.....
you'll get your answer there and then.....

She rejected your number, subtley, without making a big deal out of it.....

She saw you in your BMW? You're deluded son.

CREEP MODE ON: So your ego couldn't take the rejection and you decide to get her number with the false promise of a job promoting your company......in a country with 25% unemployment. Nice exploitation.

I smell a rape coming.....
 

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Oh dear. YOU are a red flag.

Let's see, she's a waitress doing her job: being chatty and friendly....she asked you was
everything to your liking ;) You don't eat out much do you?

You take that as IOI's.......ok fair enough....you take a chance and leave your number
beside the pen and call her over....I'd never leave my number...it's too much of a burden waiting
for a girl to call back......either get her number or ask her for a drink when she's finished.....
you'll get your answer there and then.....

She rejected your number, subtley, without making a big deal out of it.....

She saw you in your BMW? You're deluded son.

CREEP MODE ON: So your ego couldn't take the rejection and you decide to get her number with the false promise of a job promoting your company......in a country with 25% unemployment. Nice exploitation.

I smell a rape coming.....
Either that or he could be trying to pull a Fake Agent or Casting Couch type move, lmao....
 

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Oh dear. YOU are a red flag.

Let's see, she's a waitress doing her job: being chatty and friendly....she asked you was
everything to your liking ;) You don't eat out much do you?

You take that as IOI's.......ok fair enough....you take a chance and leave your number
beside the pen and call her over....I'd never leave my number...it's too much of a burden waiting
for a girl to call back......either get her number or ask her for a drink when she's finished.....
you'll get your answer there and then.....

She rejected your number, subtley, without making a big deal out of it.....

She saw you in your BMW? You're deluded son.

CREEP MODE ON: So your ego couldn't take the rejection and you decide to get her number with the false promise of a job promoting your company......in a country with 25% unemployment. Nice exploitation.

I smell a rape coming.....
There is this cute waitress that works for my parents. There are many losers that wait for her just for a single Hi or some of them even leave the phone number in a paper for her to call them.
She is telling me how funny it is and how ridiculous these guys are but she's not saying anything against them because they bring money to the business.
 

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Guys don't be to hard. Ive gotten lazy and gained fat.

I was 10%, taking big care of myself, working out and wasn't giving any fvcks.

I need to get to that mindset again. I would probably red flag this post myself if someone else posted it. Give me time to get myself up again in the DJ mindset and you'll see the field rapports you guys want to read. Thanks for the feedback
 

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Guys don't be to hard. Ive gotten lazy and gained fat.

I was 10%, taking big care of myself, working out and wasn't giving any fvcks.

I need to get to that mindset again. I would probably red flag this post myself if someone else posted it. Give me time to get myself up again in the DJ mindset and you'll see the field rapports you guys want to read. Thanks for the feedback
Call it tough love.

If we don't confront our weaknesses, we will never be able to turn them into strenghts.

What would we gain here if everybody was high fiving each other for every little thing. It would
be masterbatory at best.

You now have a reference point from which to work from and ample feedback.

Kill that laziness....

Adopt the mentality of "Taking Right Action" which is doing what is required to be done regardless of
what your emotions are telling you.
 
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