All it takes is two things to make her love you forever

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Why are you on this Website? Were you just dumped? Did she cheat on you? Do you have a bitter feeling in your mouth due to women and their confusing ways?


If you already have moved on and want to make a new woman or women devoted to your happiness then i have the answer for you!


In order for you to have women in love with you I need you to be honest with yourself for just one second. Where are your faults and what was the cause of your last failed relationship? No need to tell me, just note the reasons.


Women are dictated by their emotions. Women don't care about their logic because logic isn't fun and logic doesn't make sense when the situation just doesn't feel right.


In order to have a woman completely devoted to your happiness there are two things you need:
you need to make her invest and you need to be willing to discipline her when she doesn't act the way that you want.


Getting a woman to invest does a number of things to her mind. Think back to the time someone asked you to do a them a favor that you complied with. Afterwards did you like the person more or less? I'm sure it also made it harder for you to decline their next request when they decided to ask, thus creating the positive(for the asker) spiral of never ending compliance. The more you do for someone the more you tend to like and attach to that person. Knowing and implementing this, will allow you to have a never ending supply of sex from your woman and a woman that loves to please you. Women love to please their man, but they will never stop testing you. Tests are fine, but what will you do when she goes too far and offends you? Walking away isn't always necessary...



When a woman offends you or gets out of line, you must be willing to discipline her and put her back in her sweet feminine place. She will sulk when you do it, but in the end she will respect you even more than she previously did and nothing lubricates her genitals more than respect, mate. I'm not advocating violence by any means, but there are a number of ways to put a woman back in her place.


Say for instance, she raises her voice to you. What do you do? What if you say you want her to cook your favorite meal and have it in front of you by 8:30 pm and she says no not today. What do you do? Hell, what would you do if you tell her to put on a skimpy outfit and feed you grapes with a smile on her face and she declines with a laugh.


Gents, the wrong thing to do would be to walk away.


By no means, am i advocating violence; however, physicality is the answer. Each of these offenses can be resolved by a short explanation of her offense, what you expect from her, and by throwing her over your knee and issuing her a measured spanking. Yes, a spanking! These spankings allow for her to submit herself to your authority, you to reassert yourself, and who doesn't like to see a nice bum in the air anticipating the sting of your own hand/belt.



Implement these two simple tips into your life and before long you will have your own string of adoring women.



Cheers, Mate!
 

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Spanking??? Not sure where that will lead... lol!!! I just use some well placed silence, and they will do whatever to reconnect. But the spanking does sound interesting though!!! Might be too fun!
 

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Haha it definitely is a riot, but that's no big deal as long as she doesn't join in on the fun
I don't think I'd be able to do it without laughing!
 

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Getting a woman to invest does a number of things to her mind. Think back to the time someone asked you to do a them a favor that you complied with. Afterwards did you like the person more or less? I'm sure it also made it harder for you to decline their next request when they decided to ask, thus creating the positive(for the asker) spiral of never ending compliance. The more you do for someone the more you tend to like and attach to that person. Knowing and implementing this, will allow you to have a never ending supply of sex from your woman and a woman that loves to please you. Women love to please their man, but they will never stop testing you. Tests are fine, but what will you do when she goes too far and offends you? Walking away isn't always necessary...
You give her, you love her.

You give her more, you love her more.

You give her more & more, you love her more & more.

You give her more & more & more, you love her more & more & more.

Gents, the wrong thing to do would be to walk away.
The right thing for gents to do would be to become ladies and be beta-orbiters.

and by throwing her over your knee and issuing her a measured spanking. Yes, a spanking! These spankings allow for her to submit herself to your authority
We spank, spank, and spank our girlfriends/wives and treat them like porn stars.


Will do, OP. Thank you so much.
 

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Each of these offenses can be resolved by a short explanation of her offense, what you expect from her, and by throwing her over your knee and issuing her a measured spanking. Yes, a spanking!
This might work a couple of times, but there is no way in hell you can use this repeatedly when you've been married for 10+ years. Throwing her over your knee will get her laughing the first couple of times which is a good thing to do after she's done being angry or crying because you're giving her a ride on the emotional rollercoaster. The problem is doing the same thing each and every time will lose it's effect.

What I do is I let her know what she's done that's pissed me off, leave her alone to cry or be mad, talk to her a bit more about it, and then fix it all by making her laugh. If she's still got tears in her eyes when she's laughing, then you're doing it right. Do NOT use the same thing each time to make her laugh. Then let her know you still care either by words or actions. After that, drop the subject and move on.

Women are not children. You cannot treat them as such. You're better off treating them as if you're training a dog:

http://www.wikihow.com/Discipline-Your-Puppy

When your puppy tries to get your attention by barking, jumping up, or nipping at your fingers, it's best to ignore him. Consider what reward your puppy is trying to get when engaging in bad behavior in order to determine when to ignore him. If he's jumping up on you when you come home, he probably wants your attention. Withholding your attention sends the message that he needs to act differently to get your attention. Eventually, your puppy will learn that good behavior earns your attention and affection.[2]
 

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Women use psychological warfare tactics to fvck with your mind. She wants to manipulate you she takes a ****e in your mind. Best to fight fire with fire ;)
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This might work a couple of times, but there is no way in hell you can use this repeatedly when you've been married for 10+ years. Throwing her over your knee will get her laughing the first couple of times which is a good thing to do after she's done being angry or crying because you're giving her a ride on the emotional rollercoaster. The problem is doing the same thing each and every time will lose it's effect.

What I do is I let her know what she's done that's pissed me off, leave her alone to cry or be mad, talk to her a bit more about it, and then fix it all by making her laugh. If she's still got tears in her eyes when she's laughing, then you're doing it right. Do NOT use the same thing each time to make her laugh. Then let her know you still care either by words or actions. After that, drop the subject and move on.

Women are not children. You cannot treat them as such. You're better off treating them as if you're training a dog:

http://www.wikihow.com/Discipline-Your-Puppy

When your puppy tries to get your attention by barking, jumping up, or nipping at your fingers, it's best to ignore him. Consider what reward your puppy is trying to get when engaging in bad behavior in order to determine when to ignore him. If he's jumping up on you when you come home, he probably wants your attention. Withholding your attention sends the message that he needs to act differently to get your attention. Eventually, your puppy will learn that good behavior earns your attention and affection.[2]


This post is geared towards the average male that is just starting to be enlightened. There is plenty more info to go along with this post, my friend.


You said that throwing her over your knee will get her laughing. There is nothing funny about having your ass slapped repeatedly in a manner that indicates that she did wrong. If you ever sense that she is enjoying your punishment then the first thing you should do is plunder through your repertoire of punishments and simply employ a different one. There should be absolutely nothing fun or sexy about punishment. It should be detached place of love in lieu of anger.


You said that women aren't like children, but they are more similar to dogs. The average dog has the intelligence of a two year old so in a way Women are similar to both. You set boundaries on your woman and she will be happy inside of those boundaries because your reality is her reality. She won't understand why you have those boundaries, but she sure as hell will understand not to go anywhere near them once you tear that asv up a couple of times. Women will continue to test your boundaries constantly much like small children. They are wily and need to be held accountable for their actions.


Your last paragraph talks about withholding attention. Withholding attention is a type of punishment that many of you all have added to your punishment repertoire already; however, I rarely use that as punishment because in long term relationships it is more damaging than beneficial.



This post is about training your lady by setting boundaries, enforcing those boundaries through punishment, and helping your woman to love you with all of her heart while letting her guard down completely.
 

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Your actually on to something. At the end of the day it's all about your lady respecting you. Without that you have nothing. This thread actually has some truth in it. Thanks for the game.
 

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Your actually on to something. At the end of the day it's all about your lady respecting you. Without that you have nothing. This thread actually has some truth in it. Thanks for the game.

You're welcome, bro. I just want to help my fellow men become better and rise above all of the bitterness that I have seen.


If you ever implement these methods and they work for you feel free to let us know of your success so we can learn from your experiences and why you think that it works. I'll be patiently waiting for your feedback!
 

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The way I look at it is like this. Not every b1tch out there is going to deal with this. If they can't deal with it they've already weeded themselves out. If a chick respects you enough that she is down for this then that's the type of chick that you want. That's the type of chick that you want to fk with.

If I remember correctly, you said you were married. How does your wife react to this?
 

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The way I look at it is like this. Not every b1tch out there is going to deal with this. If they can't deal with it they've already weeded themselves out. If a chick respects you enough that she is down for this then that's the type of chick that you want. That's the type of chick that you want to fk with.

If I remember correctly, you said you were married. How does your wife react to this?

Wow, you're perceptive. That's along the lines of how I see things as well. I call it a screening method.


I told my wife that men and women have their roles in a relationship. Mine is to be in charge. Hers is to follow my lead and allow me to be the man if she wants to be happy in this relationship. I bombarded her with jargon I read in order to help her submit to my idea of relationship. This isn't outright dominance, but sort of a pushy dominance. I told her this before we started as a couple. The wrong type of female would have been offended, but a submissive type(marriage material) would sing her happy song.


My wife is beautiful in the eyes of many people. I'm not impressed. I believe at their core all women want to be dominated and put in their place by a man that means business. I have tried to get into many heads of the men here and my wife is no different from my mental prying. I'm completely inside her head. She comes from a home with married parents and has never been raped(this plays a big part in a woman's psyche). When I first met her I told her what I like in a female. She was attracted and the game began. Around the fifth time of us having sex she refused me(not in the mood), I Didn't say another word. I got out of her bed and attempted to leave. She stopped me when I got to the front door. We proceeded to have sex on my terms for the next few weeks. I only punished her a few times while we were dating. Eventually we progressed to marriage. Around the twelfth week of marriage she refused me sex again due to the fact that she wasn't in the mood and didn't feel sexy. I responded to every single one of her rejections with an ok and am "I understand" while proceeding to rip her **** off anyway. once naked, I explained to her that my wife doesn't refuse me sex. She objected. I told her that her punishment would be a spanking. she objected, but got into the proper position while objecting. She hasn't since refused me of sex.


Fast forward to now, and my wife does whatever I say when I say. Occasionally, she needs me to be affectionate to her( she tells me I don't care, I'm demanding, I'm spoiled). Although I love her deeply(the amount of love i feel is dictated by how willing she is to comply to my demands. If she can no longer apply, I can no longer love. It's 100%conditional), I don't show it with words unless she starts emoting then I basically mirror her and feed her the dream of a beautiful marriage, dying together, and all of the other what-nots. Sometimes, I randomly implore the knowledge of what i know she loves and aspires to be into the manifestation of a gift. Most recently, for her birthday I wrote her a love letter that basically insulted all of her emotional and physical insecurities and in the end of the letter I Reassured her of how beautiful those insecurities are to me and how well she and I understand each other. I also made her a collage with photos of things that are significant to her and moments that hold high emotional spikes in our relationship. She cried and cried. I feel as if I told her to jump off of a bridge then she would do it with no hesitation. (not from loyalty, but because she is now used to me leading her and thinking for her) All of her tests have mostly been put to rest. Mostly


I have no problem manipulating her emotions. It makes me feel empowered and it makes her feel deeply in love. It's crazy, man. I got her to get a tattoo of my name. It's only in a place that i'll be able to see.


I believe that she loves me deeply now, but in a moment's notice she would be willing to drop me if I didn't keep her in her place. In order to keep myself on track and keep the love she feels for me strong, I have a mantra that I repeat daily as if my life depends on it(ok maybe not that much lol). My mantra is.. "I do what I want when I want. Make her invest".


Game is a one way street. My wife isn't conscious of my perceptive ways. She has no idea about game and isn't interested to learn. I don't explain to her that I know so much about the female psyche because I don't want to shatter my baby's happy space. lol All she knows is that whatever daddy(I have her call me daddy instead of babe or baby because it fits into the role she is in) say goes and if she ever disobeys me then there will be consequences.


I hope that I made the information in my head clear for you, man. If something I said doesn't make sense then I will clarify for you.
 
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Why are you on this Website? Were you just dumped? Did she cheat on you? Do you have a bitter feeling in your mouth due to women and their confusing ways?


If you already have moved on and want to make a new woman or women devoted to your happiness then i have the answer for you!


In order for you to have women in love with you I need you to be honest with yourself for just one second. Where are your faults and what was the cause of your last failed relationship? No need to tell me, just note the reasons.


Women are dictated by their emotions. Women don't care about their logic because logic isn't fun and logic doesn't make sense when the situation just doesn't feel right.


In order to have a woman completely devoted to your happiness there are two things you need:
you need to make her invest and you need to be willing to discipline her when she doesn't act the way that you want.


Getting a woman to invest does a number of things to her mind. Think back to the time someone asked you to do a them a favor that you complied with. Afterwards did you like the person more or less? I'm sure it also made it harder for you to decline their next request when they decided to ask, thus creating the positive(for the asker) spiral of never ending compliance. The more you do for someone the more you tend to like and attach to that person. Knowing and implementing this, will allow you to have a never ending supply of sex from your woman and a woman that loves to please you. Women love to please their man, but they will never stop testing you. Tests are fine, but what will you do when she goes too far and offends you? Walking away isn't always necessary...



When a woman offends you or gets out of line, you must be willing to discipline her and put her back in her sweet feminine place. She will sulk when you do it, but in the end she will respect you even more than she previously did and nothing lubricates her genitals more than respect, mate. I'm not advocating violence by any means, but there are a number of ways to put a woman back in her place.


Say for instance, she raises her voice to you. What do you do? What if you say you want her to cook your favorite meal and have it in front of you by 8:30 pm and she says no not today. What do you do? Hell, what would you do if you tell her to put on a skimpy outfit and feed you grapes with a smile on her face and she declines with a laugh.


Gents, the wrong thing to do would be to walk away.


By no means, am i advocating violence; however, physicality is the answer. Each of these offenses can be resolved by a short explanation of her offense, what you expect from her, and by throwing her over your knee and issuing her a measured spanking. Yes, a spanking! These spankings allow for her to submit herself to your authority, you to reassert yourself, and who doesn't like to see a nice bum in the air anticipating the sting of your own hand/belt.



Implement these two simple tips into your life and before long you will have your own string of adoring women.



Cheers, Mate!
The type of man that would do things along this line is indeed more successful than most though some examples are more towards overcompensating.
Anyhow, no matter how good some of these tips are. A guy has to truly be that way in order for it to work. And a guy taking this advice and basically acting like this makes him ever worse of than if he was just acting like himself.
Women see right through you. The only way is to succeed is to become this person naturally without having to think about it.
 

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Great idea, but I have to side with @Desdinova on this one. Either it will only work once or twice, or not at all. However I do believe that mixing it up will prove this to be 100% effective. I havn't thought all of the different punishments out, but alternating between 5-7 different punishments (while throwing random ones in you will only do once and never again) will really keep her on her toes. Maybe another good one is a tickle torture (all the women I've dated melt for this).

In that sense, this is pure gold and I appreciate you for turning me on to this. I never really thought about it before, but in some ways I did this before. So way to get the idea juices flowing!
The punishments are a type of negative re enforcement. If she hates the punishment that you administer then why change it?


Also, You're welcome, mate, here to help. Glad to see that you are able to put your own personal spin onto this idea and make it your own, but i've never tried the tickle torture. Personally, I feel like it isn't commanding enough because i associate laughter with happiness. What success have you had with this and in what situations did you feel the need to apply your tickle torture?
 

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The punishments that I use are
- Demotion
- Spanking
- Verbal Warning
- Withdrawal of attention

-Tickling (KingofPuss - a playful one. Never thought of that)

Are there any others that I'm missing?
Demotion - I don't understand why you would want to drop her over minor offenses. What situations would you use this.
Verbal warnings - Could be useful after you have punished her for an offense before.
Withdrawal of attention - IN what situations would you implore such a harsh punishment??

Tickling - I don't see the value in this one. Could you open my eyes?


Other ideas - I'd suggest doing them first so you aren't too harsh when you issue them to her..



Cold shower(5-10mins), Writing line(I will not raise my voice), Writing a five page research paper on why her offense was unacceptable, kneeling on rice(up to five mins), humiliation(butt plug in public) etc etc
 

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The type of man that would do things along this line is indeed more successful than most though some examples are more towards overcompensating.
Anyhow, no matter how good some of these tips are. A guy has to truly be that way in order for it to work. And a guy taking this advice and basically acting like this makes him ever worse of than if he was just acting like himself.
Women see right through you. The only way is to succeed is to become this person naturally without having to think about it.

The only way to succeed would be to become this person naturally? you're right.


This is at the core of my personality. I naturally am a pretty self centered person so the transition was easy to slide into. I incorporated this into my ways in my womanizing days. If you are a person that used to believe the complete opposite then it may be harder for you. "You" being in the general sense
 

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I use spankings as a reward and to reiterate her submission. A different head game than yours OP, but it has done and still does work for me.
 

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This is a quick way of getting into jail for assault unless you find a partner that is into BD SM.
 

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This is a quick way of getting into jail for assault unless you find a partner that is into BD SM.
That's right. A properly trained feminist won't allow any of your physical approach and will shut down your verbal and mental approach too. She will not be giving you sex when you want it.
 
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