My objection was that you disregarded where the OP is in regards to his development. Do you think that he's in any state to start looking for a LTR? He should be swallowing the red-pill that he spat up last time around: by reading 'The Rational Male', 'Book Of Bonecracker', etc. Then, start working on his game and spinning plates, whilst figuring out exactly what he wants from women in the first place, and use that as his philosophy to live by.
I don't think that OP should seek out an LTR. In fact, I definitely agree with you in that
@ChalengeGuyFan should take some time off from women, immerse himself in his work and hobbies, and then start talking to women again. I mentioned women's LTR potential because the current outlook in the thread at that point seemed utterly devoid of any faith in or respect for women. These concepts, though not as we imagined (as you said, women love differently from men), still exist in some capacity. It's difficult to convey this idea without sounding like an AFC, so I've linked a post from the user squirrels who explains what I'm trying to convey much better than I can - a caution to not let the 'DJ' and 'redpill" stuff consume you:
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This "Don Juan" stuff...it works great for keeping control of yourself in a world filled with crazy female minds. It'll help you understand. But a little knowledge is a dangerous thing.
Sometimes, the very thing that keeps you alive in the dating game can also keep you alone. All of these seduction-angles we play...they can wreck women's confidence and self-esteem, can drive girls crazy that would have otherwise been "stable", and can end up destroying the affection they have for you. Be careful of engendering a "love-hate" relationship just so you can feed on the "love" part.
Sometimes the fortresses we build around our hearts and minds turn into prisons. Sometimes the ideas you implant in someone else's mind can grow into something that destroys them...or you. YOU can end up becoming the "crazy one". When you start to see the "truth" of human nature, you can end up shutting EVERYONE out, to the point where you turn intimacy with EVERYONE into a mind-f*ck competition, pushing them away to arm's length while trying to keep them from taking off completely.
If you have low self-esteem, "Juanning" it up is not the answer. The truth is in your own self-image. Become a worthy person, seek always to improve, and take pride in who you are. Believe you're the kind of man that a good woman would love to be with...act like that kind of man...and begin to see yourself as him.
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Here's the link to the full thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/dont-let-this-stuff-consume-you.186901/