i want her one more time (damn) lol

[loothoven]

so i been talking to this girl at my job for about a month now the first time we hook up it was all good high interest from both sides. i ask to come over to her house to watch Netflix and chill type of thing the first night we was chill just getting to know each other better blah blah blah the second night ask to come over and she was down. go over there and just watch movies got a lil bit closer to her that night rubbing her back in stuff like that at the end of the night or rather morning i give her a hug and couldn't help my self in started sucking on her neck. i kind of felt like i was doing to much so i fell back and told her i was trying to behave myself and told her good night so the third night i didnt have to ask to come over she txt me something like tell me something good so i told her i wanted to bang her on the couch and so on so on after that she told me she was wet and wanted me to hurry up and come over there so i had sex that night so here's where the conflict starts so she works with me and i could tell she was getting feelings for me and im not the dude to catch feeling for or want a relationship with so i asked her what are your attentions with me and she told me she looking for a person she can be in a relationship with i told her i not looking for that just friends so after i said that she immediately started to back off and when i can't get something i want i really want it but anyway i ask her to let me come over she be like nope or busy for like a week then she invited me over like i can come over and watch movies just movies so i go over there just chilling didn't put no moves on her because i can feel a lil wall is up but at the end of the night i was getting tired so i left i gave her a hug but when i try to give her a goodnight kiss she stop me saying friends dont kiss so am just wondering what should be my next move or should i just move on i dont want to move on doe i want it at least one more time (damn)

 

[Reykhel]

That's some stream of consciousness there, James Joyce.

Do you have ADD or something?

Firstly, don't stick your the D ick in the company ink. It's simply not worth it in the long run.

Secondly, it's not your job to ask the girl "what are we?" or "what's your intentions with me?" You've taken on the female role there and now you've lost her interest because of it....

Here's a formula: arrange a hook up/meet, create an opportunity for sex to take place, bring positive emotions and have fun.

The first time went well? follow the formula for a second time......the second time goes well.....follow the formula for a third time and so on and so on...

...but, without...
Thinking about the future with her...(just focus on the next hook up and take nothing for granted)
Talking about the future with her (stay in the present, remain uncommited.....)
Only future project if it's done as a tactic
Revealing your intentions (actually your intentions are to follow that formula, so they are genuine)

Withdraw your attention from her. Read the DJ bible. Persue other women. If you really must persue her again (I'd forget about her though) do it when you have a few more options in your pocket AND you've withdrawn your attention from her for a while...

 

[loothoven]

thanks big homey where can i read this dj bible im new to this site and pimp/player world

 

[NSX-R]

That was too much to read and there were not many pauses.
Made it till where you say you started sucking her neck and a AFC alert notification kicked in.

Not much to say , read the dj bible.

 

[loothoven]

ten 4 thanks for the feedback doe

 

[Tictac]

What a pantload.

BTW - learn to use basic English sentence structure if you want anybody to read what you (try to) type. No one reads badly written, 25 line single sentences.

 

[loothoven]

ok thanks for the feedback big homey

 

[Reykhel]

thanks big homey where can i read this dj bible im new to this site and pimp/player world

Here, seen as it's Christmas: if you go to Don Juan Discussion and look third
from top, you'll see that Desdinova has kindly gone to the trouble of updating the DJ Bible

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/dj-bible-is-now-working-with-an-update.229647/

direct link
http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/

6 week reading guide
http://www.mts.net/~bpony/djbible/readers.htm

Rollo's The Rational Male
http://therationalmale.com/

 

[parkthebus]

Basically she was giving you another chance to **** her but wanted you to commit to her. However, it could have been LMR. Her way of telling herself that by you kissing her youre commiting to her so its OK for her to **** you.

 

[GetFit66]

Ok. You obviously havn't let the red pull work on you.

You don't know the future, nor does anyone else, I hate when people sit there and blabber on about I'm not looking for this looking for that. Stfu your a spec on this giant planet and you didn't know your arse from your mouth till a few years ago.

Second. Why the hesitation? Signs from her are all over the place, bang the **** out of it, get going mother****er!

Third. Do you go up to someone talk to them and say I'm looking for just talking and not friends at this time.

No.

You get to know chicks, qualify, ****, check compatability and go on a ****ing journey with Mrs.Underwood, Jessica Alba, Scarlett Johansson, Megan Fox, and Lindsay Lohan until you find the right one . Who knows you might fall in love with Lindsay Lohan and grow immensely as a person!

No wonder there are so many low quality men and women and kids in the world today.

YOU ARE YOUR MAIN FOCUS, BE SELFISH, help your God damn self before you start helping others up on their feet otherwise you are just waiting of their time and yours.

 

[GetFit66]

Basically she was giving you another chance to **** her but wanted you to commit to her. However, it could have been LMR. Her way of telling herself that by you kissing her youre commiting to her so its OK for her to **** you.

Or she doesn't want to come off as a "slvt", signs were all there.

 

[marmel75]

It's because you have no other options.

 

[loothoven]

thanks for the input guys i appreciate it

 

[Maximus Rex]

So i been talking to this girl at my job for about a month now. The first time we hooked up, it was high interest from both sides. I asked to come over to her house, to watch Netflix, and chill type of thing. The first night we was chill was to just get to know each other better. The second night, I asked her to come over and she was down, go over there and just watch movies. I got a lil' bit closer to her that night and Is start rubbing her back. At the end of the night (or rather morning,) I gave her a hug, (I couldn't help myself,) so started I sucking on her neck. I kind of felt like I was doing too much, so I fell back and told her i was trying to behave myself, then I told her, "good night."

The third night, i didn't have to ask to come over, rather she sent me a text asking me to tell me to her, "something good." I complied with her request, and I with I wanted to bang her on the couch. After reading my rather forward and sexually explicit text, she told me she was wet and wanted me to hurry up and come over there. Of course, I f*cked her like an animal that night, unfortunately, this is where things go bad and where the conflict starts. She's my co-worker and I could tell she was getting feelings for me. The conundrum is I'm not the dude that she'd want to catch feelings for nor be in a relationship.I asked her what her intentions were in regards to me. She told me that she was looking for a person she can be in a relationship with. In response to that, l LJBF her. After I said that, she immediately started to back off. When I can't get something I want, I really want it, but forgive my digression.

Now when I ask to come over she either says "no" or she's "busy" for the duration of the week. However, she did invite me over, so I went to her place and watched movies. I'm there, just there chilling and I didn't put any moves on her. The reason being is I can feel a lil wall is up.however, by the end of the night I was getting tired, so I gave her a hug and left. When I tried to give her a goodnight kiss, she stops me, saying friends don't kiss. I'm wondering what should my next move be or should I just move on. I don't want to move on though, I want hit that ass least one more time. (damn)

Is that better?

 

[loothoven]

Is that better?

alot better