Thank you red pill (my story)

[_Dream_]

And yet you still haven't fvcked her. Going to let this one hold your balls hostage too? Man up bro.

Im not sure if I understand this. If we are not in a relationship, and Im free to find other girls, how is she holding my balls?
Yes we didnt have sex on the 4th date, but shy dryhumped me and gave me a HJ after she came.
I feel no emotions towards that girl, but i dont see anything bad in having some fun now and then. I am in no way committing to her.
But maybe im looking at all of this wrong.

 

[icantgetlaid]

Im not sure if I understand this. If we are not in a relationship, and Im free to find other girls, how is she holding my balls?
Yes we didnt have sex on the 4th date, but shy dryhumped me and gave me a HJ after she came.
I feel no emotions towards that girl, but i dont see anything bad in having some fun now and then. I am in no way committing to her.
But maybe im looking at all of this wrong.

yes .. if you aint getting the pvssy .. you aint getting anything ..

why are you letting her leave you at home with blue balls?

 

[marmel75]

Im not sure if I understand this. If we are not in a relationship, and Im free to find other girls, how is she holding my balls?
Yes we didnt have sex on the 4th date, but shy dryhumped me and gave me a HJ after she came.
I feel no emotions towards that girl, but i dont see anything bad in having some fun now and then. I am in no way committing to her.
But maybe im looking at all of this wrong.

You are looking at it wrong. She is dictating what goes on and you are just along for the ride basically.

That's where the man up comment comes from. Next time lead the interaction to where you want it to go.

 

[RangerMIke]

I did try to make her feel better. Dont think im a doushe, i did my best into making her into best she could be, while i did same with myself.

Trying to make her 'feel better' does not build interest or maintain a relationship. You have to continue to display male strength characteristics (explained in the DJ Bible), and give her respect and affection. You also need to make time to date and spend time with your woman. Sounds like you were too busy and you let things slip to a point where you lost her. Relationships are hard work that's why I don't do it, just casually date for awhile don't try and rush into anything too fast.

I am a little mad because she was a mess when we met, and my unrelenting optimism and motivation changed her into a 10 times better person. She then simply walked away with all my work. I even saw her giving fitness and bodybuilding tips to girls using my exact words,using my exact words to motivate people feeling sad about their lives.
Like half the things she says are my own words

That's your ego... you have to kill that sh1t. A man with a huge ego sends out a weak frame. You really have to get to a place where you just don't give a fvck what she does. I think it's great that you have a great life... that's how it should be, forget about her... it's her loss.

I knew something was a bit wrong...but i was working for 12 hours a day, i was too tired to do anything, to be fun and impulsive. I was putting all my hopes into having a good life after i finish this 6 months work hell... but nope

If you are going to be a relationship guy, you are going to HAVE to find time for your woman. This happens to a lot of men, that get so busy with earning a living they fail to see their woman's flagging interest... you stop being affectionate and date them, and POOF, they are gone.

 

[Yewki]

I got best-in-the-world handjobs, *******s, grindjobs, deepthroats, titjobs ( anything other but sex with penetration) for 3-4 times a week.
But it was always very hard to get her to ***, it was a delicate process and her shyness didn't help a lot, but i had a fair amount of success there too.

For those saying he spent 6 years without getting laid, keep in mind wha the wrote above. Wasn't that bad.

 

[marmel75]

For those saying he spent 6 years without getting laid, keep in mind wha the wrote above. Wasn't that bad.

Its not the same...and you are not factoring in something called "Opportunity Cost". Opportunity Cost is what you end up losing from other opportunities you could have chosen based on choosing the opportunity you chose. In OP's case, the Opportunity Cost was far far in excess of the minor sexual favors he received. I mean, OP, did you ever discuss anal with her? A lot of so called virgins will give up their ass to keep their "Golden Pvssy" for "The One"...