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Women disgust me after sex.

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Drum&Bass said:
How do you NOT feel any connection with a girl after sex ?!?! you may not see her as LTR material but its damn near impossible to just see another human being as an object.
So society continually likes to tell men, but take a look around and you can see it may not be all that "impossible" for a man to view a woman as a sex object. I think a few of these guys are claiming its not "impossible".

Step off the feminist bandwagon mate, its plenty strong enough without you adding to it.

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I NEVER understood that whole thing about guys kicking girls out of their place or leaving immediately after sex. I always thought and still believe people like that are weird or have some serious psychological issues.
"Psychological issues"? Nice shame job.

*Raises pitchfork* Yeah your a nutjob for wanting nothing more than sex from a woman!!!!!!!
Drum&Bass said:
Actually I think this thread is either EXTREMELY DISTURBING or FULL OF LIARS.
*GASP*

Yeah take your pick Starriol, which one ARE YOU??

Tom Juan said:
It's just stupid. The only reason you show the slightest bit of interest in a girl is for sex. That's just ridiculously selfish and immature.
:confused: I see the shaming words but whats your cause young fella? Tell us why, give us some reasoning of why he's all these things you label him.

No? Of course you cant, you just know this has been parroted to you since birth so fvck it lets fly with it.

Lets chant together *Down with physical, up with emotional*

<---- Gaytoday.com is that way you easily impressionable lemming.
 

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This is the whole problem with one nighters and casual sex.

Once you blow your load you lose your desire for sex, so if you felt nothing except sexual lust for the woman you slept with then there's no desire after sex.

It's even worse if you have slept with a minger because you got so horny. Once you're sexually satisfied then all sense comes rushing back to you and oh my god you f*cked up!

In those cases, especially if youre not a warm person its natural not to want any contact after sex but theres no need to be rude or heartless about it. I had a girl do this to me after sex one time and it made me feel like sh*t and harmed my confidence so badly.

This is one of the things I love about sleeping with someone you care about. You actually WANT to cuddle up to her after sex and it's nice.
 

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Drum&Bass said:
You may not see her as LTR material but its damn near impossible to just see another human being as an object.
Try telling this to a narcisist!

Drum&Bass said:
I NEVER understood that whole thing about guys kicking girls out of their place or leaving immediately after sex. I always thought and still believe people like that are weird or have some serious psychological issues.
Read what I said above.
 

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I must admit as well that I lose almost total interest in a woman after I ***. Doesn't matter if she's young, tight, with taught beautiful t!tties, I lose interest after I am drained. I get up and do not "cuddle." I know that this puzzles or disappoints or pisses off a lot of women, because they are Still in the mood, even after I cvm in/on them. They are wanting to stay with me, but I am wanting to go have fun or go out or be with Others, Anyone besides HER. I know it's sad, but that's just how I am. She's great and everything, but I just want to be with others, until I'm horny to be with her again. I wonder how other guys can just go on touching a woman after releasing their load in/on her. It seems, to Me, to be FAKE for a guy to go on "cuddling" with a woman after a fvck. I can't be FAKE in my feelings, and so if she feels bad because I turn off from her, I'm sorry, but I'm not gonna play act like I'm STILL Into her, cause I'm not, any longer. I wonder about dudes who continue 'as if' BEFORE they'd released their load. I want to sleep, eat, do ANYthing but pay attention to her after releasing. I mean, we'll talk and sh!t but my mind is really elsewhere after I fvck her. But some girls I WILL want to lay beside and I guess-you'd-call-it "cuddle" but those are few and far between, and I have to REALLY love her or have a big affection for. It depends on the girl, but most girls aren't really lovable, so I'd be FAKE to Want to cuddle after fvcking.
 
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Drum an Bass seems to forget men dont need an emotional connection to bust a nut.

Ive fukked chicks and came within minutes/even seconds lol. Because it was a quick cheap fuk to bust a nut.


Ive also had sex where I wanted every essence of her being, mind body and soul in beastly passionate multi sessions of crazy raw emotional sex and multiple nut bustings. if shes hot enough i am insatiable. ive noticed my want to be near a woman after sex directly correlates to her hotness level.
 

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Depends on the girl for me , if shes beautiful or sexy il keep her in bed and have sex with her as many times as i possibly can never even bother wearing condoms with those
If its some slore or troll ive picked up in last ditch desperation from the club i will be on my way as soon as the deed is done

A couple weeks ago i got trapped in this trolls house she was common as muck id run into her in a club at like 3am and we were both horny and hammered , she had her own place and even paid for the taxi there so it sounded like a good deal

we fvcked like animals for about 2 hours and i remember her puss was quite nice at the time

anyway I was way too hammered to leave there after the deed was done so crashed out there ,

chirst when i woke up in the morning i thought i had fvcked something off the walking dead she looked horrendous

to top it off i had no transportation or any clue to where i was , i needed her to drive me to my car but she wanted to cuddle and kept trying to initiate sex again

that was possibly the worst hour of my life
 

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OP, I have seen both worlds.
At first, I only knew the beautiful sex.
Then I hooked up with a girl from the internet - we had some drinks but no connection, no convo, interestingly enough she still wanted to f*ck. Man it was really good sex, she was probably the "best" I had so far, but she didn't want to stay over after. She said thank you and we f*cked a second time... you know... I actually couldn't *** anymore. I had to think of another girl in my head, just to ***. I was so happy that she disappeared.

I actually felt dirty for some time. It went so far as that I couldn't even get it up for the 2 next girls I had. I started doubting myself, read up on ED, stopped going out because what's the point?

These days I'm screening alot more... personality, connection and intimacy is what turns me on (wow I almost sound like a woman). It makes it hard to find a really worthwile girl these days, but when I do the sex is beautiful. Seeing an old FB this weekend. I actually love just watching a movie with her, cuddling etc... sex is just part of the experience.
 

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Drum an Bass seems to forget men dont need an emotional connection to bust a nut.
Yeah, but if you've done it a couple of times you have nothing to prove anymore. It's worthless. I'll take any low hanging fruit but I'm not investing any kind of effort anymore to get laid if she's not incredible.
 

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You don't have to apologise to me, but I do feel sorry for you. If you are unable to form a connection with a girl you've been intimate with then sex is about as good as jerking off in your world, so tell me who really gets more out of a sexual experience.



Unless your all just randomly picking up prostitutes IT IS IMPOSSIBLE (unless something is honestly psychologically wrong with you) to not want to become closer with a girl. AGAIN SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE AN HB 10,9,8 OR WHATEVER. SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE SUPER HOT FOR YOU TO JUST ENJOY HER COMPANY, WHICH IS PART OF THE REASON YOU HAVE SEX WITH HER IN THE FIRST PLACE.

In all truthfullness I think alot of you are probably hooking up with prostitutes or your jerking off to porn and posting that you f-ck women and have no use for them (like your gods gift to the world with a busy life style that allows you to throw people away after you use them).



men.
oh shiit i laughed sooooo hard thanks that was goooood lol

I have to agree that after i cvm i don´t even want to open my mouth to speak to a girl.
You had sex, you are satisfied, you want to get on with your daily routine or watch tv or whatever but you don´t feel like being emotional and being shtt tested by a girl!
I feel so relieved the moment she walks out the door, I will also give excuses that i have to work or that i have to leave the house or anything to get rid of her after im done.
 

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The best women are the ones who will cook me a meal after.

HB: that was amazing sex we should cuddle now
LL: how about you go cuddle with my kitchen and make me a sammich
 

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The best women are the ones who will cook me a meal after.
Lol, I have to agree with that.
But this is why it's helpful to have a woman that you can actually talk to when the sex is over.
 

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I know the feeling. Once you bang them, they become boring and you don't want to see them as often.
 
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