What insults do you use when you see a girls your attracted to with a beta?

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Anyone got any clever lines or jokes you use?

I use "is that your brother?" not that funny and probably used a lot before
 

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Isn't it a bit beta to call out other guys like that? Why are you focusing on belittling others? If you feel like other guys are making mistakes its their prerogative. The good lived yesterday, tomorrow's too late.
 

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Isn't it a bit beta to call out other guys like that? Why are you focusing on belittling others? If you feel like other guys are making mistakes its their prerogative. The good lived yesterday, tomorrow's too late.
Makes a good point, there might be something alpha about him that you don't know about.

But for the purpose of this thread I'd say this to the girl.

"Aww, it's good to see you dated up. You got the man of your dreams."
 

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I don't think men understand what women see in other men. Why should we, after all we aren't attracted to them?

I think there is a deep seated instinct to underestimate the competition. Part of the male's competitive nature - we have to compete and show ourselves to be part of the elite to win the mating game. So we end up thinking we're superior to the other guy, when a lot of the time it really isn't so.
 

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Could go this route too:

"(Beta) seems like a decent guy. Let me know when he gives you the boot, he and I could hang and he could be my wing man. "
 

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Why would I do this? I'd be more inclined to steal her away from him, and insulting her bf just shows you're jealous of him. She needs to come up with her own reasons to leave him. All you can do is be more interesting and show more value than him which usually isn't very difficult.
 

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"whos this beta"

do a 360 an walk away


ayyyyyyyy
 

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I don't say anything. I feel sorry for him. He's no threat to me.
 

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I see a beta looking dude with a pretty girl and I think "good for him" theirs enough pretty girls out there so I don't have to fret over every cutie I see with a guy.


There was one that hurt though, this girl was an absolute 10.5 she was just amazing in looks and personality a total doll. She was dating some fat dude I mean just seeing them together was such a bizarre thing, total beauty and the beast. I'd just sit there and wonder what that guy could have done to hook up with a girl like that. Must have saved her from sure death as a child so she owes him a life debit or something lol.
 

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Never felt the need to insult a girl's boyfriend. Usually I poke fun at their beta orbiters instead and they will squeal 'You're horrible!/such an assh0le.'
 

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What we're arguing over here is the word "insult" and its connotations. Yes, an insult can show insecurity.

However, an AMOG is not necessarily an insult. You don't have to put someone else down in order to demonstrate your own value.

For example:
awww, that guy of yours REALLY likes you, doesn't he? I bet he does anything you say....And you're going to break his heart, aren't you? Yes you are, don't lie, you're going to rip out his heart and stomp all over it, because that's what women do....poor guy.

Now that was teasing, light-hearted, and fun, and yet poignant at the same time. And it avoided any direct insult of the boyfriend.
 

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The whole concept of this thread is beta honestly--getting riled up that a girl is with someone you see as below you? If the dude is punching above his weight, then good for him. In those cases, I just excuse myself these days and wish him all the best (I can probably do better, he probably can't).

But if you have your eyes set on a girl in a committed relationship, here's what always worked for me: Her: "I have a boyfriend." Me: "Maybe you can introduce me to him some time." And you'll get way farther building her bf up to impossible levels then trying to dog on him. If you dog on him, she'll jump to his defense. If you talk about how great he must be, she'll start coming up with counterarguments and recognizing the areas where he falls short of your descriptions of him. Reverse psychology 101.
 

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I have to admit that it does bother me when I see a woman I'm attracted to with a weak man, I feel sorry for the man. I honestly really don't do anything about it, I just realize eventually all that will come crashing down. She'll dump him for a real man, or she will make him so miserable that he'll want to kill himself with alcohol, which she cheats on him.

If I like the guy, I'll try and help him, but trying to help a committed Beta, 'blue piller', is very hard. They have to get kicked in the teeth really hard. A good friend of mine now, and occasional wing-man, was a feminist weak @ss Beta. Had this Earth muffin girl-friend who was a 'life-coach', and waitress. She was super cute, and he waited on her hand and foot, gave her everything, kissed her butt, well.... you guys get the picture. I tried to help him.. telling him he was too accommodating, always apologizing to her, that they were headed for trouble. One day he went to her restaurant to surprise her after work (She worked at Commander's Place, (a high end place Uptown New Orleans), and her assistant manager had her bent over a table in the kitchen fvcking her. They both yelled at him to get out, and they kept on going... Jez, just thinking about that makes me laugh... I know I'm an a-hole... but sh!t.... all that was completely predictable.

Anyway, this was about a year and a half ago and now he's done a complete 180, Took 6 months off of dating to work on himself, working out, he read every book I recommended to him (No More Mister Nice Guy, The Mystery Method, The System, The Book of Pook, DJ Bible) really those are the only ones you need. You really don't need to waste your time with PUA stuff but that stuff does work, just read "Mystery Method", everything all these PUA coaches teach are in that and the book is very objectively written without a bunch of stupid anecdotal BS stories about how the PUA used to be a weak @ss Beta.

Anyway, he's doing great now, even stole a couple one woman right out from under me LOL!!! He's a big Star Wars geek and is always kidding around that I turned him to the 'dark side'.
 

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Never felt the need to insult a girl's boyfriend. Usually I poke fun at their beta orbiters instead and they will squeal 'You're horrible!/such an assh0le.'

My friends do it all the time I do it once in awhile, but not directly at the BETA she is with
 

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Could go this route too:

"(Beta) seems like a decent guy. Let me know when he gives you the boot, he and I could hang and he could be my wing man. "
You must like being treated like gold and being put first most of the time. We both know you don't deserve it and you'll end up cheating on him anyways.
 

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This other guy is in the same side as yours. You both have the same goal , to fck the chick.
Saying bad things for the other guy makes you weaker than he is.
And the harsh truth, he's the one fcking that female you're attracted to. Deal with it.
 
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