"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success" Albert Schweitzer
I feel you kid. I hated school with a passion. My teenage years were not the most enjoyable. I wanted
to go to school were my friends were going and also because it was a kind of technical school. But on the
advise of a cvnt of a teacher my cvnt mother enroled me in a cvnt school with cvnt priests and the likes. Apparently to curb a rebelious streak. But where was that rebelious streak coming from? Living in a crazy house with parents always fighting. Big family. Always conflict. So school to me was like prison....always fights, always drama, always conflict. Then I'd go home...always fights, always drama, always conflict...
People always saying to me "school years are the best years of your life". Now i'm in my thirties can I look back and say "oh they were the best days of my life"? Hell NO!!!
Has life got easier?? Hell Yess!!! granted maybe maybe I can say that because I haven't got kids....
but maybe what I learned from my teenage years has given me the ability to weather life's storms easier........I've lived in 3 different countries, travelled in countless...yes I have to work.....but I'm free to make my own decisions....
Your main mission right now has to be making yourself happy. Use this unhappy situation to your advantage. Try to overcome it. Try to keep a positive frame and one that says "I'm not going to let anything or anybody bring me down" You'll come out a lot stronger later on.
Read a few pages of a positive, life enhancing book each day (or listen to the audiobook) I would suggest one to start: "Man's search for meaning"
The only reason that people say life gets more difficult is because when you're a man, we live in a society were nobady cares about you (as a man/unless you're powerful). A women can get looked after by the state, she can marry a rich sucker, if she falls she has her own gender to look after her (women have a gener bias that we generally don't have) there will always be white knights and betas that will come to her rescue, we don't have such luxeries. If you're a man you have a sink or swim dichtomy. If you sink as a man nobody cares in society so you must pull yourself up by your bootstraps. So this is a
perfect opportunity for you go become stronger.
Man's search for meaning animated book review:
the point is that they can take everything away from you...except your
attitude. But it's up to you to cultivate your attitude.
Have a look at Antifragile animated review too
You know, you can have your studies, you can have your career, you can have your social life....
...but you need to develop your attitude. little by little....makes life more fun!!
