Do you guys think sex is overrated?

[marmel75]

Only by guys with low testosterone levels, which unfortunately these days are increasing all the time due to the potent xenoestrogens prevalent in everything from pesticides, environmental toxins, junk food, HCFS and sugars, and plastics...

Each generation of male has less testosterone on average than the previous generation. These things really are turning men into women, and it's really not a laughing matter. Wonder why so many guys are acting like women these days? This is it...their hormones are royally jacked up.

To answer the question. Hell no it's not overrated. At least if you have high testosterone levels

 

[SgtSplacker]

Sex is great. When you are younger there is a huge emphasis on sex. Maybe it's the hormones maybe it's just something that is relatively new to everyone. At that age the quality of the poon you can get really is something special that you should appreciate. When you get older women are weirder and more worn out so enjoy those pee and sweat smelling coochie days they will end and you will miss them guaranteed. Is it the main focus of a relationship? it gets tiring. Is it necessary? absolutely! Sex is all about your partner, if it's not fun you're doing it wrong...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Only by guys with low testosterone levels, which unfortunately these days are increasing all the time due to the potent xenoestrogens prevalent in everything from pesticides, environmental toxins, junk food, HCFS and sugars, and plastics...

Each generation of male has less testosterone on average than the previous generation. These things really are turning men into women, and it's really not a laughing matter. Wonder why so many guys are acting like women these days? This is it...their hormones are royally jacked up.

To answer the question. Hell no it's not overrated. At least if you have high testosterone levels

It's not just "xenoestrogens", it's the system and feminism which is beating mens psychology down which does make them produce less testosterone.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Sex with *most* women is overrated...but not all of them. But I never really know until we do it at least a couple of times.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sex with *most* women is overrated...but not all of them. But I never really know until we do it at least a couple of times.

It's still better than jagging off and crucial for maintaining your masculinity. Go a year without it and see how potent you feel.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Masturbation is for pleasure. Sex is for bragging rights at the poker table. All men know this. That's why married men and guys in LTR's eventually go back to jacking off.

Sex is overrated in the amount of pressure that's put on men to lose their virginity at a young age. I remember after getting laid for the first time I was like "Is this it? This is what I've been obsessing over for years."

 

[Poonani Maker]

The main thing for Me, of late, is T!tties, BIG t!tties...flapping in my face as she's bouncing up and down on my c0ck. Fvcked a fat (though taught) Young down-syndromed looking (in the face) Real Estate chick Halloween night. She had terrible breath, I transferred my mint in my mouth into her which helped a little bit. She was VERY horny, just really, I haven't had a woman THAT horny in my entire life. She bucked and rode me VERY hard and came twice. Just having her massive tatas smack my face from right to left, and left to right was just glorious. I used to not care about t!ts. Now I do. So, Sex, for me, is all about Variety (all kinds of different women change it for ME - maybe not for U). I mean, if I were to "fall in love" and contemplate marriage or my ideal life-long woman, I think I'd want a Thin, not-to-big-breasted, feminine submissive woman for a life-time, BUT then I get to thinking of all the great sex I've had with large-breasted women in the past and tall women, or a little chubby women. Short women don't hardly ever do it for me because it is hard for me to kiss them standing or while fvcking or laying down..because I'm 6'2." Any girl below 5'3" just isn't gonna do it for me long-term and I know it.

Sex is great IF you are compatible. If you are not a good fit, then sex is just a struggle or WORK. Sex with Boring-shaped or just Boring boxy women is overrated. Sex with your Ideal woman is not overrated. Smells are a factor that virgins or those who seldom get it, think about. I'm surprised by how many women do not take the time to Smell good Everywhere on her body before going out. It is such a turn-off, as well as smoker's breath.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Masturbation is for pleasure. Sex is for bragging rights at the poker table. All men know this. That's why married men and guys in LTR's eventually go back to jacking off.

Sex is overrated in the amount of pressure that's put on men to lose their virginity at a young age. I remember after getting laid for the first time I was like "Is this it? This is what I've been obsessing over for years."

That same sex used for bragging to others will be used by YOURSELF internally to brag to your own mind. It will expand your options. You as a masculine male who is not gay needs to know you can copulate with a good percentage of females.

 

[bigneil]

Is sex overrated?

Short answer: yes.

Long answer:

1) It's mostly in your head. Certain women, certain amounts of time together, and especially certain kinds of infidelity can combine to increase desire to huge levels.
2) It's something men need more than they want. If you don't have sex you will start to act weird. After about 3 months is when I can notice. After 6 months is when other people can notice. After 12 months you have a serious problem and need to face the reality that women don't find you that desirable. This should inspire weight loss, quitting whatever your habit is and doing whatever it takes to improve.
3) Online porn is ruining sex by desensitizing everyone. You might enjoy it, but do you really like the fact that your women watch it? It's corrupting the women along with our view of them.
4) Feminism is ruining relationships. The purpose was to send the women to work (where they pay income tax). Send 150 Million women to work and charge 33% income tax (which does not pay for the roads (that's gas tax) and which does not pay for Common Core school brainwashing indoctrination (that's property tax)) and you have the equivalent of 50 Million slaves paying 100% (Progressives can't stand when you prorate slavery that way, but it's numerical reality). Feminism also was about making the women act like men (which they must to compete in the workforce), and breaking up the family which taught values and love. They want us wards of the State, with no loving wives, vaccine-damaged children, school brainwashing and oh yeah - no sex. It will stop when we are all shaven bald and look identical.

 

[Huffman]

I think it's not the specific act of penis rubbing against vagina. It's the game. The sexual tension and desire built up between you and the female makes sex good.

This! I've tried sex without game a couple of times, I couldn't even get it up properly. It's a shame though, you see this girl that looks so FINE but after a brief conversation you notice there's no game, no spark... I stopped trying to have sex regardless, not that desperate anymore.... but still, such a waste! I don't meet enough girls with the spark.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The main thing for Me, of late, is T!tties, BIG t!tties.

My ex that I can never get away from is a G cup.

For the few girls on POF who aren't fat, I usually start looking for t!ts in the pic right away. Flat women know they're flat. They are just as good at concealing that in pics as fat girls are at looking thin with overhead angle shots.

 

[skinnyguy]

As one DJ put it, brushing your teeth is more important than sex.

 

[Reykhel]

Sex is a biological need that we animals.....eh I mean humans have...

It dominates our thoughts. We need it for our survival. I have a drive inside me to
pass on my seed...

But is it overrated? Food is also a bilogical pysical need that we have. Some people regard food
as overrated? how? I know some people who regard food in this way "I need to eat to survive, therefor
I eat". In other words they don't derive any pleasure from it....they eat just to fill a need. Without really garnering pleasure from the experience....

Which is truly a shame because every meal is an opportunity to be creative, to experiment, to try something
new, something different. Anyone who enjoys cooking knows that cooking well is almost like an art. And you feel
like an artist. You are at times creating a work of art. Even something simple like an omelette you have the opportunity to be creative and express yourself.

I kind of look at sex in the same way: every woman is like a different meal. I know I'm going to derive pleasure from the experience. I'll be in the moment. I'll be creative and express myself.

The physical act itself? I think phsyically it's fantastic but also it's a moment were I feel that I'm totally living in the moment. I'm not thinking about the past or the future. There is no status, no money, no nothing...the walls can fall down...it's just two animals....eh I mean humans....in a symphony together. ah bliss

Also there's no better feeling than coming in her mouth....

 

[parkthebus]

@Reykhel that was so philosophical up till the end

 

[pyros]

no.

sex is what makes the world spin. No sex, no human race.

 

[thatfeel]

The main thing for Me, of late, is T!tties, BIG t!tties...flapping in my face as she's bouncing up and down on my c0ck. Fvcked a fat (though taught) Young down-syndromed looking (in the face) Real Estate chick Halloween night. She had terrible breath, I transferred my mint in my mouth into her which helped a little bit. She was VERY horny, just really, I haven't had a woman THAT horny in my entire life. She bucked and rode me VERY hard and came twice. Just having her massive tatas smack my face from right to left, and left to right was just glorious. I used to not care about t!ts. Now I do. So, Sex, for me, is all about Variety (all kinds of different women change it for ME - maybe not for U). I mean, if I were to "fall in love" and contemplate marriage or my ideal life-long woman, I think I'd want a Thin, not-to-big-breasted, feminine submissive woman for a life-time, BUT then I get to thinking of all the great sex I've had with large-breasted women in the past and tall women, or a little chubby women. Short women don't hardly ever do it for me because it is hard for me to kiss them standing or while fvcking or laying down..because I'm 6'2." Any girl below 5'3" just isn't gonna do it for me long-term and I know it.

Sex is great IF you are compatible. If you are not a good fit, then sex is just a struggle or WORK. Sex with Boring-shaped or just Boring boxy women is overrated. Sex with your Ideal woman is not overrated. Smells are a factor that virgins or those who seldom get it, think about. I'm surprised by how many women do not take the time to Smell good Everywhere on her body before going out. It is such a turn-off, as well as smoker's breath.

man I love this post, I agree, nothing better than huge fvcking tits even if they're not on a skinny girl. I don't mind thicke girls I just don't go down on them, most of them reek.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Yes completely. Until you're super horny. Then it trumps even the most basic human needs.

Makes me think of house of cards "everything in the world is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power."

 

[PeasantPlayer]

no.

sex is what makes the world spin. No sex, no human race.

I was talking more so the feeling of it.

 

[skinnyguy]

My sex drive is at an all time low. I just don't think about it that much. I find personal achievement more rewarding than sex. Also I find it extremely hard to find a woman I'm attracted to because I find 90% of them ugly or conceited (or both).

It's a good thing for me, since I don't fantasize about women anymore. Now that I look back, how much time I wasted on that stuff! And there was virtually no benefit at all.

I talk to girls if I'm out, but I don't "plan" on talking to girls. It just happens.

 

[Reykhel]

My sex drive is at an all time low. I just don't think about it that much. I find personal achievement more rewarding than sex. Also I find it extremely hard to find a woman I'm attracted to because I find 90% of them ugly or conceited (or both).

It's a good thing for me, since I don't fantasize about women anymore. Now that I look back, how much time I wasted on that stuff! And there was virtually no benefit at all.

I talk to girls if I'm out, but I don't "plan" on talking to girls. It just happens.

Wow.

You find 90% of women ugly....so you're not attracted to 90% of women on the planet

All women in clubs....are "low quality" (according to you)

You won't "date" a woman unless she has a degree

the internet......no go...

there's no benifit to that "stuff"

have you considered counselling?

You sound either:
1. Gay (seriously, read the 90% and see who that comes across)

2. overly conceited (is your hubris pricing you out of the market?)

3. setting up some big rejection buffers

have some fun!