Wife wanted to leave and I let her?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

It's just a matter of time now prepare for an exit. Her extreme behavior is extreme I don't care how few problems you have had. If you hadn't you such hardcore game in different style she would not have come back likely. I know you think she would never do it but I have girls that I was so sure would never do it that when they actually cheated I took them back and seriously forgot about it because it was so bizarre and unexpected.

Remember it isn't consistent bad behavior that's the red flag it is the change in behavior that is a tell for cheating.

Dude, no. Just no.

 

[SgtSplacker]

One thing for sure, there's some kind of crisis going on with her that makes her react so extremely. At the very least download a period tracker app on your phone and start tracking that PMS so you know when it's her hormones.

 

[El Payaso]

Everything a woman does is just for attention.

Women will do so many stupid things just for attention. I don't think she's cheating or planning any exit.

Women love attention and any moment when you're more interested in anything else besides them throws them into whirlwind mode.

They will do anything to get your attention back ranging from seduction to sh!t tests to dread game.

Maintain your frame and don't become needy. Remember that you are the leader in your relationship and she will follow you anywhere you go.

You have the ability to move the relationship in any direction you want.

Don't become a softie just because she's wailing and crying. Remember that she fell in love with you because of your alpha behavior.

That being said, always reward her and show her more affection when she's being a good wife.

 

[Atom Smasher]

There's more going on here than meets the eye.

 

[SgtSplacker]

There's more going on here than meets the eye.

Agreed, and it doesn't have to be about cheating either. Some hormonal issues ....

 

[Speculator E]

This really sound like a classic push pull episode from a borderline. This forum used to talk about borderline now a day nothing.

 

[Alvafe]

This really sound like a classic push pull episode from a borderline. This forum used to talk about borderline now a day nothing.

more like lack of info and if what he said is true about this being the only issue, could be just a way to gather his atencion who backfired, maybe she didnt expected he jsut buy teh damn ticket and hoped he did something to make her stay, not first time I see this kind of thing and pretty sure its not the last